Originally posted by kanisa:
hi all,
would u want a bf that hit u even though he said he was juz too angry?

Avoid such man completely - you attracted such personality is because of your dependancy nature as you have claim. You need to build up and instill more self esteem -
no woman who love themselves would allow such abuse to take place.
To hit is NOT a right even if he is your boyfriend or husband.
Before you leave him, let him know about this temper and his violent tendency and how it ruin your relationship.
P.S: Its no longer about the relationship - its more about what you have to teach him about love with regards to his future relationship. If you can enlighten him (with or without leaving) and make him realise, you have achieve much more than having the relationship going currently.
Cheers