Originally posted by sleeping:
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Hi Yunhaier can to explain wat is mean by karmic bonds.

According to CloUdiSm Remix III: every relationship is born of karmic or benefic.
Benefic relationship is harmonious and fulfilling. In search of Higher Twin Self, benefic relationship will not be soured even if fate ends. Memories and bonds are sweet and everlasting. There are good lessons to learn about regrets and reality.
Karmic relationship are relationship that are difficult and challenging. They can be fulfilling and harmonious only after the rain - but to endure the rain is
not about persistence and being just an energizer battery -
it's more by solving issue with your own hands and succeed. It took me damn long to realise this sacred law and could have perish in the attempt to understand that.
Karmic relationship is difficult because of afflicted bonds. Logically speaking, some people are meant to be, while some are not. In love, karmic relationship tends to mimic the same intensity and feel as Higher Twin Self (what I meant is true love - easiest explaination). People feel drawn to the particular person because of the inability to sever bonds. (Spiritually speaking, debts are still paying).

Only when wisdom arrive and clarity returns, would you opt to do something about your emotional suffering. To learn to succeed or give up.
What I was mentioning in my previous post is that this wisdom and clarity will not appear fast in your case, considering your mindset and everything else you think I may not know and would likely to prolong this period and tension.
Cheers