The problem is.....
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yes just ask her OUT CASUALLY. And do not be OVEREAGER, if you are OVEREAGER you lose. Also like the mates said, do not let her know u like her in that kinda way or else u also lose. Just ask her out casually and act as if she is LUCKY if she goes out with you. But ofcourse do not be overboard with arrogance, girls like a bit of it, but not too much.
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hahaha.. that's what i mean when i say little conversations.. ahaha..Originally posted by jaimeyeo:thats right. try little things, like accidentally touching hands or holding her hands, say ur hands are cold or her hands are cold.
a little intimacy is nice. unless she is very newbie. if not, some form of intimacy is acceptable.
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Jus ask her out for drinks or lunch or dinner.Originally posted by DarkClouds:Hi all... I am new here.
Been having a crush on this girl since the start of this year... Shes a really nice person, and she has alot of suitors....
I've been smsing her regularing for months now and i think that its about time i take things little further by asking her out.. Though i have no clue what she thinks bout me..
The problem is that it seems rather strange if i ask her out out of the blue. And also... though i said its bout time... I just do not have the guts to do so.... Advice anyone?
Keep trying till she comes out.....1st step is just be frenz..
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another way, is tell her upfront u not looking into bf/gf relations. then our guard wil be down. when guard is down, we more open to u. slowly move. and then go for it.Originally posted by xking:Jus ask her out for drinks or lunch or dinner.
Keep trying till she comes out.....1st step is just be frenz..
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Err... Some girls are EXTREMELY SENSITIVE to that too?Originally posted by jaimeyeo:thats right. try little things, like accidentally touching hands or holding her hands, say ur hands are cold or her hands are cold.
a little intimacy is nice. unless she is very newbie. if not, some form of intimacy is acceptable.
Personally, I think showing more care for the girl is better.. Usually a girl won't really overeact to it... Unless she really DETEST you..? If that's the case, you're almost doomed to fail anyway...?
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Lol. Been friends with her since dunno how long ago le. Just that this year then closer. Hmm.... Think i have been rather caring... showing concern for this and that but i try not to make it very obvious lahh.
Ok. I've asked her out on sat. Cause i told her to help me pick a lucky number for euro2004 ( total goals ). Then i said if i bet and win money i treat her coffee. Though never win... I still going to treat her anyway.
And she said ok. So lets hope everything will go on smoothly ya. -
Originally posted by DarkClouds:Lol. Been friends with her since dunno how long ago le. Just that this year then closer. Hmm.... Think i have been rather caring... showing concern for this and that but i try not to make it very obvious lahh.
Ok. I've asked her out on sat. Cause i told her to help me pick a lucky number for euro2004 ( total goals ). Then i said if i bet and win money i treat her coffee. Though never win... I still going to treat her anyway.
And she said ok. So lets hope everything will go on smoothly ya.
Good luck then?