Falling in love with older woman
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LOL,thats a good oneOriginally posted by AzRaeL:bedding her
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for your case maybe if the number is you 25 and she 33 har it will be wonderful. best will be you 30 she 36. woman change their tot when gets older.Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:I always prefer older woman. They had a very sensual, mature, yet classy look, something that most younger women seem to lack these days.
I still had to deal with the age difference: a very big obstacle as most women assume that a younger man is never mature enough to hold an intellectual conversation.
Women believe that men are like wine; only as the years pass, can a man become more pleasant to drink.... I'm like just a fresh wine from the cedar. -
may be the other way roundOriginally posted by AzRaeL:bedding her
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i do not wish to offend u n her,but she is a hairdresser n i believed she is a very vain woman, probably a very good gossiper too,so if u want to chase her,u have to be real smooth, do u really know her n fall for her or is this just physical attraction?Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:So wat is the way for proving her wrong??
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Firstly, u gotta make sure u can hold a very good conversation with her. It's important. Cause unless u have loads of cash, u are already one down in a department. U gotta rely alot on ur zest, ur spiritness, ur young feeling energy which she doesn't have to attract her. N ur conversation ability withher is very important.
I would think that simply approaching her n wanting to get to know her is a huge initial scoring pt cause u make her feel sexy n desirable such that younger men still find her attractive. But it's ur initial scoring point. I would think simply giving her your name card or write down ur no. or name on a paper n pass to her n juz tell her you would like to ask her out, if she's interested, call u back. So the ball is in her court n whether she feels good, she'll call back.
U c, when u ask for a girl's no... it's even harder cause they will think whether u are a psycho, or nutty person, or stalker or what. N they may think u may start going crazy n keep smsing her or calling her no. That's what she is worried about. So I would say, a better chance is giving ur no. to her, it eases the pressure on her. But u also run the risk that she nvr calls u... then juz dun go back to that saloon liao loh...
When u pass your no. to her, juz dun beat around the bush, go straight to the pt. Tell her u kinda like her, n would like to take her out for coffee. Juz go straight to the pt, be suave, be cool n put a dash of daringness n masculinity in it. It surely makes them feel honored... This initial feeling u give them will be a huge scoring pt n she'll see why not if she has no bf... If she says she has a bf... simply smile n laugh it off 'he is a very lucky man! It's been wonderful knowing u!' then retreat...
I strongly agree with the thing about dating older women. I prefer them too. But the thing working against us is the size of our wallets.. haha. They are much more mature, more sensual, they are in their sexual peak too. They are more in tuned with their emotions n thoughts n they dun get less crazy n siao. Mainly cause they have been working n have been more mellowed knowing that they can't juz throw tantrums n go nuts as n when they want. Older women? Anytime...
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It happens but it's not gonna be easy...Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:I have fallen in love with an older woman. I'm 22 n she is 30. Get to know her while having my hair cut at her salon 6 mths ago. At first its like normal but after frequent visit to her salon, i have a feeling for her... I really feel like asking for her hp number and ask her for a date but i scared tat i will make a fool of myself...
It'll depends alot on your maturity, her mentality and how both of you can 'get along'... And yes... If she's not someone who's used to such a kinda relationship (which I believe is of quite a likely chance..)... Then as much as you see it as a taboo, she's gonna be seeing it as one as well.... -
i know I'm not helping but can't help noticing a trend....
young boys like older women and old men like sweet young babes....
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Jie di lian quite common wat.. trend few yrs back with Jap serial LOng vacation.Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:I have fallen in love with an older woman. I'm 22 n she is 30. Get to know her while having my hair cut at her salon 6 mths ago. At first its like normal but after frequent visit to her salon, i have a feeling for her... I really feel like asking for her hp number and ask her for a date but i scared tat i will make a fool of myself...
And very prevalent amongst celebrities wat.. Faye wong-NIc tse, Cameron Diaz & a lot other stars also date younger guys. -
The common belief that the mian problem blw a Jie-di couple will be the lack of maturity on the younger guy but i beg to differ..
I dated a gal 4 yrs my senior b4. Didn't rely like go stead, but basically our interaction was much better than any other i had with other gals my age or younger..
And i was pretty immature at that time.. in fact it was precisely cause she was older (& emotionally wiser) than she cld tolerate my mood swings, attitude etc
And i was also eventually veri touched (& impressed) with her magnimous that i changed for a better person..
Though it was a brief relationship, it left me beautiful memories. Till today, i'll hav no qualms abt dating a older gal
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How u get to know her?? Whats her reaction when ya confess to her??Originally posted by Infernal Affairs:The common belief that the mian problem blw a Jie-di couple will be the lack of maturity on the younger guy but i beg to differ..
I dated a gal 4 yrs my senior b4. Didn't rely like go stead, but basically our interaction was much better than any other i had with other gals my age or younger..
And i was pretty immature at that time.. in fact it was precisely cause she was older (& emotionally wiser) than she cld tolerate my mood swings, attitude etc
And i was also eventually veri touched (& impressed) with her magnimous that i changed for a better person..
Though it was a brief relationship, it left me beautiful memories. Till today, i'll hav no qualms abt dating a older gal
cheers -
do u think she maybe interested in u? u should find out ist cos esp like when she's working in a shop juz trying to be polite wif customers n becoming friends? Or tends to chat alot. n yes is she married yet? Or mayb she already haf someone in mind? Age is no matter as long if u n her don mind but do u care abt wat others say? or mayb ur family? Think abt it .... but however, if u try to ask her .. gd loh u'll noe da ans earlier n stop being a fool.
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doesn't mean older will be more mature or emotionally wiser. I had met some and date some who are not so. the most age diff. i dated is a 11 years my senior so far.Originally posted by Infernal Affairs:The common belief that the mian problem blw a Jie-di couple will be the lack of maturity on the younger guy but i beg to differ..
I dated a gal 4 yrs my senior b4. Didn't rely like go stead, but basically our interaction was much better than any other i had with other gals my age or younger..
And i was pretty immature at that time.. in fact it was precisely cause she was older (& emotionally wiser) than she cld tolerate my mood swings, attitude etc
And i was also eventually veri touched (& impressed) with her magnimous that i changed for a better person..
Though it was a brief relationship, it left me beautiful memories. Till today, i'll hav no qualms abt dating a older gal
cheers
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my target also older woman.....
1 month my senior -
no lah, don't be scared. Sometimes you got to just go.. "grab a spoon". That's a VERY old quote from "Friends". 1st season, I think Ross said that to Joey about Rachel.Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:I have fallen in love with an older woman. I'm 22 n she is 30. Get to know her while having my hair cut at her salon 6 mths ago. At first its like normal but after frequent visit to her salon, i have a feeling for her... I really feel like asking for her hp number and ask her for a date but i scared tat i will make a fool of myself...
Carpe Diem!! -
Of course maturity and emotional wisdom varies from person to person.Originally posted by Joshua1975:doesn't mean older will be more mature or emotionally wiser. I had met some and date some who are not so. the most age diff. i dated is a 11 years my senior so far.
But basically, i feel, if the guy is immature, he may actually stand to gain from such a relationship.
Of course, it also depends on the guy's personality. It'll be gd if he's the passive type & dun mind not being the one "dominating" the r/s.
Also, if he is the "consulative" type, prefer to have someone he can consult & talk thks over.
Like Guo Jing & Huang Rong in the Condor Heroes. Even Yang guo & xiao long nu-- she was his guide both in love & life in his early yrs
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go 4 it.... u'll have my support...