who shld i choose?? A or B
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A:
Looks: slightly above average looking
Qualification: itc holder
Current status: Working in the navy with a remaining 8 yr bond
Future: No future plans after navy bond
Transport: Have no license
Family background: his mum occasional gambler (mahjong) his dad is a smoker plus a drinker
How we get to know each other: friendsÂ’ friend
Age: 2 year older
Time: since he is in navy... always out sailing, no time for meet up even occasionally
Money: would always dote mi with expensive gifts
Interest: I like clubbing but he dun
Duration: know him for abt 1 and half years... at the 1st half year was very close but nv gets together
HeÂ’s a smoker, social drinker
B:
Looks: average looking
Qualification: Diploma holder
Current status: Serving ns... ending in 2005
Future: Plans after ns: get his deg
Transport: Have class 3 and class 4 [Owns a car]
Family background: both mum n dad dun gamble dun smoke except the dad occasionally drink
How we get to know each other: poly classmate
Age: 3 years older
Time: since he drives and is serving ns 8 to 5 each day... wld usually come pick mi up after I end work
Money: since all his money is into his car if compare with A definitely wld be a great diff... But if he has that spare cash... he wld buy mi gifts
Interest: we have the same grp of friends that always club together
Duration: he only started expressing himself 2 mths ago... we were only in the same class in poly for 1 semester... though shorter period but we meet up almost 3 times a week for the pass 2 mths
HeÂ’s a non smoker, social drinker -
follow where ur heart tells u
by showin all the waelth status..
juz show how materialistic u are.
ask urself..
u wan love or u wan bread..
i believe u`ll haf an ans..
anyway both guys are not goin to be broke or wat..
one`s a future navy big shot..
the other`s goin to be a uni grad..
money wise both are abt there..
juz follow ur heart.. -
i'm quite amazed sgboy2004/mahai102/i-like-flings(m) didnt offer a choice C.
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i think u already have a decision ....
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from ur post..Originally posted by nww16:i think u already have a decision ....
u`ve given B a better presentation..
as i say.. folow ur heart..
u`ll only gian fulfilment w the one u love.. -
i din purposely did a beta presentation for either A or B..
did i really made a decision myself deep down inside?????
how come yet i cant feel it? -
if u hasn't come to a decision yet....u will not compare the two of them liao....Originally posted by ron33:i din purposely did a beta presentation for either A or B..
did i really made a decision myself deep down inside?????
how come yet i cant feel it? -
Contrast?
Don't contrast. Follow this rule:
a) at least go on dates with both for four or five times.
b) when you wanna decide, close your eyes and try to picture that person in your mind. Both choices.
The person that appears most clearly is what your heart desires.
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lets state a situation..Originally posted by ron33:i din purposely did a beta presentation for either A or B..
did i really made a decision myself deep down inside?????
how come yet i cant feel it?
if one day u know u`ve to leave sg for some purporse..
who will u miss most??
tt`s ur ans..
again my advice.. don go for the money..
go for the love.. -
Note: above is Nelstar's criteria for choosing a bf!Originally posted by Nelstar:Contrast?
Don't contrast. Follow this rule:
a) at least go on dates with both for four or five times.
b) when you wanna decide, close your eyes and try to picture that person in your mind. Both choices.
The person that appears most clearly is what your heart desires.
Wah after 4 to 5 dates... can choose already so fast? haha...
Take it slow, if things were to happen, let it come naturally... that's my take but its already best to get to know the person for a while.
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LOVE alone is a force big enuff to cover all the other stuff..
money don matter anymore
his family doesnat matter anymore
his job doesnt matter anymore..
his home doesnt matter anymore..
his past doesnt matter anymore
tt my fren is TRUE LOVE -
can categorize until like tht 1 ah..
alamak.. -
so many contrast!
haven decide dun choose both of them better
choose some1 else
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i think i wont miss any of them
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all these appear only on the surface..Originally posted by ron33:A:
Looks: slightly above average looking
Qualification: itc holder
Current status: Working in the navy with a remaining 8 yr bond
Future: No future plans after navy bond
Transport: Have no license
Family background: his mum occasional gambler (mahjong) his dad is a smoker plus a drinker
How we get to know each other: friendsÂ’ friend
Age: 2 year older
Time: since he is in navy... always out sailing, no time for meet up even occasionally
Money: would always dote mi with expensive gifts
Interest: I like clubbing but he dun
Duration: know him for abt 1 and half years... at the 1st half year was very close but nv gets together
HeÂ’s a smoker, social drinker
B:
Looks: average looking
Qualification: Diploma holder
Current status: Serving ns... ending in 2005
Future: Plans after ns: get his deg
Transport: Have class 3 and class 4 [Owns a car]
Family background: both mum n dad dun gamble dun smoke except the dad occasionally drink
How we get to know each other: poly classmate
Age: 3 years older
Time: since he drives and is serving ns 8 to 5 each day... wld usually come pick mi up after I end work
Money: since all his money is into his car if compare with A definitely wld be a great diff... But if he has that spare cash... he wld buy mi gifts
Interest: we have the same grp of friends that always club together
Duration: he only started expressing himself 2 mths ago... we were only in the same class in poly for 1 semester... though shorter period but we meet up almost 3 times a week for the pass 2 mths
HeÂ’s a non smoker, social drinker
who has a better character wise..? who do you feel more comfortable with when you out with them?? what future do you see yourself in when you are with them?? issit a good one?? or a bad one??
for A i would consider a long-distance relationship.. cos he's always not in SG.. will you be able to maintain such relationship??
will you not fall for another guy??
well, B has a better stand here though.. but it's all depends on yourself..
we cannot tell you who to chose.. jus based on what you wrote about them.. basically we don't know them.. Is looks, education, or physical needs like owning a car or buying expensive gifts that important to you?? -
chance.. 50:50
comfortable: same
i have no idea abt the furture!!! thats y i post here to seek advices n help... i know eventually i wld be the 1 making the decision....
buying expensive gifts n looks might not be the impt point.. but education: yes!! but that does not mean that i choose B
arghh!!!
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W T F?? U think u buying new PC?Originally posted by ron33:A:
Looks: slightly above average looking
Qualification: itc holder
Current status: Working in the navy with a remaining 8 yr bond
Future: No future plans after navy bond
Transport: Have no license
Family background: his mum occasional gambler (mahjong) his dad is a smoker plus a drinker
How we get to know each other: friendsÂ’ friend
Age: 2 year older
Time: since he is in navy... always out sailing, no time for meet up even occasionally
Money: would always dote mi with expensive gifts
Interest: I like clubbing but he dun
Duration: know him for abt 1 and half years... at the 1st half year was very close but nv gets together
HeÂ’s a smoker, social drinker
B:
Looks: average looking
Qualification: Diploma holder
Current status: Serving ns... ending in 2005
Future: Plans after ns: get his deg
Transport: Have class 3 and class 4 [Owns a car]
Family background: both mum n dad dun gamble dun smoke except the dad occasionally drink
How we get to know each other: poly classmate
Age: 3 years older
Time: since he drives and is serving ns 8 to 5 each day... wld usually come pick mi up after I end work
Money: since all his money is into his car if compare with A definitely wld be a great diff... But if he has that spare cash... he wld buy mi gifts
Interest: we have the same grp of friends that always club together
Duration: he only started expressing himself 2 mths ago... we were only in the same class in poly for 1 semester... though shorter period but we meet up almost 3 times a week for the pass 2 mths
HeÂ’s a non smoker, social drinker
Wake up ur ideas understand? -
Wah this is not a BMT recruit you're talking to... mah chiam want her to Knock it Down izzt?Originally posted by Boy Next Door => []:W T F?? U think u buying new PC?
Wake up ur ideas understand? -
erm..Originally posted by ron33: i think i wont miss any of them
u don love them for wat they are?? -
agrees.Originally posted by Boy Next Door => []:W T F?? U think u buying new PC?
Wake up ur ideas understand?
u`re not here for a new PC or wat..
love ur self and be fair to everyone.
once u made ur choice..
let the other party go..
don drag him w u..
won be nice for everyone.. -
In matters of love and relns, most avg folks would follow their heart and while others would reason and follow their rational mind.Originally posted by Nelstar:Contrast?
Don't contrast. Follow this rule:
a) at least go on dates with both for four or five times.
b) when you wanna decide, close your eyes and try to picture that person in your mind. Both choices.
The person that appears most clearly is what your heart desires.
After reading ur post... e million $$$ question is... ARE U A MUTANT? -
fair??? what is fair? how can it be measured?
follow my heart: that's what everybody suggest!!!!!
ok then i choose none~~~
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ron33, why do you have to force yourself to make a decision on A and B? If you are not sure on which one to like, then you be better off not to pick anyone of them right now. The reason is because you don't like either A or B and nobody can give you the answer to your this question. You definitely know them more than we do. So until then, let things move at their own pace until one day you finally met or know who you really like. When that day comes, you won't even need to wonder who you like already. Because you already know.Originally posted by ron33:chance.. 50:50
comfortable: same
i have no idea abt the furture!!! thats y i post here to seek advices n help... i know eventually i wld be the 1 making the decision....
buying expensive gifts n looks might not be the impt point.. but education: yes!! but that does not mean that i choose B
arghh!!!
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Just wait, you seem to be rushing to choose who you want to be with... just let it come naturally...Originally posted by ron33:fair??? what is fair? how can it be measured?
follow my heart: that's what everybody suggest!!!!!
ok then i choose none~~~ -
There's no such thing as Love in this selection process.
This is a analytical choice.
No need to say too much. Go with the one who has more money. Since that's what you want.