who shld i choose?? A or B
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u very the xian shi hor??Originally posted by M©+square:There's no such thing as Love in this selection process.
This is a analytical choice.
No need to say too much. Go with the one who has more money. Since that's what you want. -
Viola!!! You got it! You deserve a CEO, he's the one who could provide you with everything. *shrugs*Originally posted by ron33:fair??? what is fair? how can it be measured?
follow my heart: that's what everybody suggest!!!!!
ok then i choose none~~~
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im not forcing myself to make any decision
but recently A started to asked mi to be his gf
so i was wondering may be its realli time for mi to get my heart n brain working..
but... afterall ...
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Read the post clearly and find her underlying implications.Originally posted by BaByBoY:u very the xian shi hor??
I'm not Xian shi, you're Tian zhen. -
It matters not, she needs a wake up call. From e fact that she took e time to think and list e traits, qualifications and assets of her prospects, it shows that she's weighing who's e better deal for her. And I'm sure her 2 chumps will be dead disappointed if they were to find out what she did here. Wouldn't you if someone u like were to measure u, inch by inch, pound 4 pound with another bloke and ask strangers f u c k i n g stoopid qns like, "Who should I choose? A or B?". Dumb.Originally posted by :Wah this is not a BMT recruit you're talking to... mah chiam want her to Knock it Down izzt? -
What's the hurry anyway?Originally posted by ron33:im not forcing myself to make any decision
but recently A started to asked mi to be his gf
so i was wondering may be its realli time for mi to get my heart n brain working..
but... afterall ... -
maybe u`re rite..Originally posted by M©+square:Read the post clearly and find her underlying implications.
I'm not Xian shi, you're Tian zhen.
i`m too mei jian shi already.. -
WAIT!!! let mi get this clear....Originally posted by M©+square:There's no such thing as Love in this selection process.
This is a analytical choice.
No need to say too much. Go with the one who has more money. Since that's what you want.
since when??? did i mention that money is what i wanted!!! -
I'm not sure esp when i didn't get to meet you yet.Originally posted by BaByBoY:maybe u`re rite..
i`m too mei jian shi already..
But it's sure good to be more aware of people around you and happenings. Try not to provide solution and be a handyman unless necessary.
Observe and understand certain things. One might learn more from using his/her senses then yakking theories away?
Cheers -
Then could you pls be clear about what do you want exactly?Originally posted by ron33:WAIT!!! let mi get this clear....
since when??? did i mention that money is what i wanted!!! -
i`m aware of the situation juz now..Originally posted by M©+square:I'm not sure esp when i didn't get to meet you yet.
But it's sure good to be more aware of people around you and happenings. Try not to provide solution and be a handyman unless necessary.
Observe and understand certain things. One might learn more from using his/her senses then yakking theories away?
Cheers
but don make it so bad ok?? -
She's just asking for other people's opinion, you don't have to be so harsh... and use crude words.Originally posted by Boy Next Door => []:It matters not, she needs a wake up call. From e fact that she took e time to think and list e traits, qualifications and assets of her prospects, it shows that she's weighing who's e better deal for her. And I'm sure her 2 chumps will be dead disappointed if they were to find out what she did here. Wouldn't you if someone u like were to measure u, inch by inch, pound 4 pound with another bloke and ask strangers f u c k i n g stoopid qns like, "Who should I choose? A or B?". Dumb. -
Just thanks him for his love and tell him that you are not ready to step into a relationship right now.Originally posted by ron33:im not forcing myself to make any decision
but recently A started to asked mi to be his gf
so i was wondering may be its realli time for mi to get my heart n brain working..
but... afterall ... 
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do u ppl need to be so harsh on me???
if i dun need help i wouldnt post here...
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rite on..Originally posted by :She's just asking for other people's opinion, you don't have to be so harsh... and use crude words.
askin for opinions isnt rong.. -
Well I gave her mine and since ur not a mod dun tell me what to do and not or how I should conduct myself. The whole issue wasn't related to u in e 1st place no need to be a nosey parker... unless ur 1 of e chumps. HahahaOriginally posted by :She's just asking for other people's opinion, you don't have to be so harsh... and use crude words. -
relac my fren i juz wanna help u identify wat u really wanted..Originally posted by ron33:do u ppl need to be so harsh on me???
if i dun need help i wouldnt post here...
however i muz admit u do gave us a rong impression of u..
if no ones helps u there more ppl who will..
take it as a second opinion w a pinch of salt.. -
??? You mean this thread?Originally posted by BaByBoY:i`m aware of the situation juz now..
but don make it so bad ok??
hahaha....wait and see. -
The highlighted red represents 'power' you see from the two candidates.Originally posted by ron33:A:
Looks: slightly above average looking
Qualification: itc holder
Current status: Working in the navy with a remaining 8 yr bond
Future: No future plans after navy bond
Transport: Have no license
Family background: his mum occasional gambler (mahjong) his dad is a smoker plus a drinker
How we get to know each other: friendsÂ’ friend
Age: 2 year older
Time: since he is in navy... always out sailing, no time for meet up even occasionally
Money: would always dote mi with expensive gifts
Interest: I like clubbing but he dun
Duration: know him for abt 1 and half years... at the 1st half year was very close but nv gets together
HeÂ’s a smoker, social drinker
B:
Looks: average looking
Qualification: Diploma holder
Current status: Serving ns... ending in 2005
Future: Plans after ns: get his deg
Transport: Have class 3 and class 4 [Owns a car]
Family background: both mum n dad dun gamble dun smoke except the dad occasionally drink
How we get to know each other: poly classmate
Age: 3 years older
Time: since he drives and is serving ns 8 to 5 each day... wld usually come pick mi up after I end work
Money: since all his money is into his car if compare with A definitely wld be a great diff... But if he has that spare cash... he wld buy mi gifts
Interest: we have the same grp of friends that always club together
Duration: he only started expressing himself 2 mths ago... we were only in the same class in poly for 1 semester... though shorter period but we meet up almost 3 times a week for the pass 2 mths
HeÂ’s a non smoker, social drinker
From a general gender. Power = security, and could be justified as being in practical selection.
This is a social research, no need to argue much.
I don't know what agender you have, but i know you're vexed over which to choose. Which if in the first place. There's no liking, why force yourself to make a decision? Because they're very sweet to you?
Advice: Don't make a desicion unless you know who you want. Not what they can do for you.
I rest my case.
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i`ve seen it comin..Originally posted by M©+square:??? You mean this thread?
hahaha....wait and see.
PS u guys don make it so bad ok??
its ok to offer a second opinion..
but pls do mind ur languages at the same time..
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Hmm....i'm interested to meet you someday.Originally posted by BaByBoY:i`ve seen it comin..
PS u guys don make it so bad ok??
its ok to offer a second opinion..
but pls do mind ur languages at the same time..
ur cooperation is highly appreciated
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Would u rather that we play along with u and be nice despite ur insensitivities?Originally posted by ron33:do u ppl need to be so harsh on me???
if i dun need help i wouldnt post here...
Should u behave irresponsibly juz becoz u could be post anonymously? Put urself in ur propects' shoes and they did e same crap to u. How would u feel?
Here's my advice to u... ur biggest fault lies in ur selection process for e ideal mate. if ur happiness matters to u, do some soul searching 1st... what e f u c k u reali want? -
Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm....i'm interested to meet you someday.
yunhaier is the really master lahz..
i only act seh one.. -
hahahaha i like this part best!Originally posted by Boy Next Door => []:Would u rather that we play along with u and be nice despite ur insensitivities?
Should u behave irresponsibly juz becoz u could be post anonymously? Put urself in ur propects' shoes and they did e same crap to u. How would u feel?
Here's my advice to u... ur biggest fault lies in ur selection process for e ideal mate. if ur happiness matters to u, do some soul searching 1st... what e f u c k u reali want?
Well this gentleman made his point, whether harsh or not.
You don't seem to get the message clear yea? Hopefully this will. -
Originally posted by BaByBoY:
yunhaier is the really master lahz..
i only act seh one.. But oh well. Yunnie darling is always busy.
I wish to meet you to talk about your broken hearted friend who broke up at the peak of the relationship.