My reaction???
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yes i am doing something....Originally posted by Devil1976:Don't just SIT there and WAIT for MIRACLES to HAPPEN..?
DO SOMETHING about it... However SMALL... However SLOW... Do bits by bits... Or it'll just sink to an end...
maybe goin over to her home..
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i think i have to thank you for pointing out the negative part of me.Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:errh...don't sms at this point of time. From what I have read, both of you are in a very dangerous period. I'm not guessing and
I'm not trying to be a wet blanket or being pessimistic. As what Imperfect said, a promise is a promise. Moreover, you not only had broken her trust in you, but also indicated tt you were not willing to share your woes with her. Sorry to be blunt, hitting objects is rather an immatured and insensible way to vent your fustrations. That's another reason why your gf is afraid of you probably doing the same dangerous thing in future. Who would want a partner who is violent, breaches trust and not willing to share everything?
You have to learn to control your anger or fustrations. You must and you can do it.
You have to start telling her all your feelings if you really want to be with her. And both of you have to spend more time together ironing out every problems(whoever's faults in them) and what had happened and why they happened.
take care and wish you all the best for both of you.
right now i am learning to control my temper step by step. -
everyone has negative points...i do have too..sigh..hee heee...who don't....Originally posted by Seventh_Son:i think i have to thank you for pointing out the negative part of me.
right now i am learning to control my temper step by step. -
She SMS me last nite and asked me If we could be friends...if???
I called her and talked to her of course I would not wanna to lose her as I still love her very much. But if her decision is to leave me, I would not stop her too..
She made her decision..its to leave me.
And she said we could still be friends.
I accept the whole thing with an open heart.
I told her she still have a place in my heart and I still love her.
I do not want to see her suffer or unhappy, So I will let her go and
not grasp onto her for it will only caused more pain to both of us.
If she is happy i will be happy for her.
This morning She SMS me saying that...she still love me untill now.
Just that she cannot accept my anger and temper. And she is sorry about the whole thing and hope we could remain as friends.
I do not hate her, I am not angry. Although I feel bitter in me..
but not to the extend of heartbreak. I feel peaceful and calm.
Maybe as what they said, if its yours its yours. Or maybe I have realised more things and learn more things through this 3 months.
I still love her alot...and she has a place in my heart also.
But I have to move on and carry on. Cannot stop here just because of
what had happened.
Now we are friends and I am happy for her cos she is happy -
good to hear that seventh_son.
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BE STRONG.Originally posted by Seventh_Son:She SMS me last nite and asked me If we could be friends...if???
I called her and talked to her of course I would not wanna to lose her as I still love her very much. But if her decision is to leave me, I would not stop her too..
She made her decision..its to leave me.
And she said we could still be friends.
I accept the whole thing with an open heart.
I told her she still have a place in my heart and I still love her.
I do not want to see her suffer or unhappy, So I will let her go and
not grasp onto her for it will only caused more pain to both of us.
If she is happy i will be happy for her.
This morning She SMS me saying that...she still love me untill now.
Just that she cannot accept my anger and temper. And she is sorry about the whole thing and hope we could remain as friends.
I do not hate her, I am not angry. Although I feel bitter in me..
but not to the extend of heartbreak. I feel peaceful and calm.
Maybe as what they said, if its yours its yours. Or maybe I have realised more things and learn more things through this 3 months.
I still love her alot...and she has a place in my heart also.
But I have to move on and carry on. Cannot stop here just because of
what had happened.
Now we are friends and I am happy for her cos she is happy -
althought for sometime of todayOriginally posted by kaobeikaobu:good to hear that seventh_son.
I do feel that I am missing something and had lost something important.
And will think about the whole incident.
But I believed this feeling will be gone soon.
God speed! -
Thanks.....Originally posted by Devil1976:BE STRONG.
It would kill me...
This is the third time..so I guess this time I am stronger. -
Originally posted by Seventh_Son:She SMS me last nite and asked me If we could be friends...if???
I called her and talked to her of course I would not wanna to lose her as I still love her very much. But if her decision is to leave me, I would not stop her too..
She made her decision..its to leave me.
And she said we could still be friends.
I accept the whole thing with an open heart.
I told her she still have a place in my heart and I still love her.
I do not want to see her suffer or unhappy, So I will let her go and
not grasp onto her for it will only caused more pain to both of us.
If she is happy i will be happy for her.
This morning She SMS me saying that...she still love me untill now.
Just that she cannot accept my anger and temper. And she is sorry about the whole thing and hope we could remain as friends.
I do not hate her, I am not angry. Although I feel bitter in me..
but not to the extend of heartbreak. I feel peaceful and calm.
Maybe as what they said, if its yours its yours. Or maybe I have realised more things and learn more things through this 3 months.
I still love her alot...and she has a place in my heart also.
But I have to move on and carry on. Cannot stop here just because of
what had happened.
Now we are friends and I am happy for her cos she is happy
You actually gain more than you have lost.
Cheers -
hey that really make sense!!!Originally posted by Yunhaier: You actually gain more than you have lost.
Cheers
I gained more than I lost!