walking down the aisle

• tranquil2

  18 Jul 04, 18:27

  for ladies, do you think it's too early to tie the knot at age of 24?
  for guys, perhaps 28 is the best time? when career is stable... ??
• blowfish

  18 Jul 04, 18:31

  i think it just fine. As long as both of you love each other. It also depends on how well you know him/her.
  
  AS long both comfortable why not?
• jOhO

  18 Jul 04, 18:34

  career stable at 28???!!
  
  dammit.....!
• foga

  18 Jul 04, 18:36

  now before i have a stable income, and able to provide for our family.
  
  30+ bah. for guys.
• tranquil2

  18 Jul 04, 18:39

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  career stable at 28???!!
  
  dammit.....!

  ?? or maybe earlier? 28 is just a rough gauge.. some guys are succeful even at age 23..heehee
• on tenterhooks

  18 Jul 04, 18:40

  Originally posted by foga:
  now before i have a stable income, and able to provide for our family.
  
  [b]30+ bah. for guys. [/b]

  agree...generally a better time to consider marriage.
• tranquil2

  18 Jul 04, 18:47

  Originally posted by on tenterhooks:

  agree...[u]generally[ /u] a better time to consider marriage.

  30+? hmm, but by then when your child turns 20, how old will you be?
  
  
• foga

  18 Jul 04, 18:55

  u dun rush into marriage for having bb's sake rite.
  
  i rather be financially stable before i i take the on matrimonial stage
  
  

  Originally posted by tranquil2:

  30+? hmm, but by then when your child turns 20, how old will you be?
  
  

• michelle79

  18 Jul 04, 18:59

  Originally posted by foga:

  u dun rush into marriage for having bb's sake rite.
  
  i rather be financially stable before i i take the on matrimonial stage
  
  

  yeah...
  both parties have to be financially stable above everything....
• foga

  18 Jul 04, 19:02

  of course there must be love.
  
  

  Originally posted by michelle79:

  yeah...
  both parties have to be financially stable above everything....

• on tenterhooks

  18 Jul 04, 19:02

  Originally posted by michelle79:

  yeah...
  both parties have to be financially stable above everything....

  yuppa, it might jus save lotsa quarrel over who should be paying for this...who should be paying for that lor. [/img]
• FireIce

  18 Jul 04, 19:13

  Originally posted by tranquil2:

  for ladies, do you think it's too early to tie the knot at age of 24?
  for guys, perhaps 28 is the best time? when career is stable... ??

  24 for ger is quite ok lah, though personally prefer 25~26
  
  for guys....between 28~30 is common....
• jusgal

  18 Jul 04, 19:16

  me already 26....haiz....wait long long
• Lingos

  18 Jul 04, 19:16

  Oh gosh, it's so hard..
  You don't want to get married until your career is stable.. but when that is stable, you're too old to have kids.
  But that's ok for me, cos i hate kids.. how many people here do not want to have kids??
• Lingos

  18 Jul 04, 19:17

  Originally posted by jusgal:

  me already 26....haiz....wait long long

  Don't let society pressures weigh you down.
• Axelheat755

  18 Jul 04, 20:21

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  Don't let society pressures weigh you down.

  not only have society pressure. u at higher risk to have kids at older age... unless u no want kids la. then no problem
• Lingos

  18 Jul 04, 21:25

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  not only have society pressure. u at higher risk to have kids at older age... unless u no want kids la. then no problem

  Who says you must have kids..
  I dont' understand this..
• Axelheat755

  18 Jul 04, 21:45

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  Who says you must have kids..
  I dont' understand this..

  nobody enforce that u must have kids. its between u and ur spouse.
  
  im just saying the older u get married, the more social pressure u will face and also higher risk from giving birth IF u wanna have a kid.
• gerrykoh

  19 Jul 04, 11:05

  Marrying at age 24 for girls is alright if u know the guy well & feel mature enough to handle marriage. Also good to spend 1 - 2 yrs as a couple before starting a family
• choco B

  19 Jul 04, 11:11

  There is no best age.
  If YOU feel it's the right time, then it is.
  
• DarkClouds

  19 Jul 04, 11:15

  Got ageing population.... Low Birthrites.
  
• jusgal

  19 Jul 04, 11:50

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  Don't let society pressures weigh you down.

  nope...self preference.
  
• jolin80

  19 Jul 04, 11:55

  Originally posted by tranquil2:

  for ladies, do you think it's too early to tie the knot at age of 24?
  for guys, perhaps 28 is the best time? when career is stable... ??

  most of my frd tied their knot at thier early 20s
  to mi, both of parties must moral trust, be honest and faithfully
  not to keep things to itself understanding
  most of them i saw divorce in their early stage too due to misunderstandings so dun rush to get marriage take time take time to make the choice
  
• Lingos

  19 Jul 04, 18:18

  Originally posted by jusgal:

  nope...self preference.
  

  Then that's good then.
• Lingos

  19 Jul 04, 18:19

  Originally posted by jolin80:

  most of my frd tied their knot at thier early 20s
  to mi, both of parties must moral trust, be honest and faithfully
  not to keep things to itself understanding
  most of them i saw divorce in their early stage too due to misunderstandings so dun rush to get marriage take time take time to make the choice
  

  Then do you think it is a good idea for them to 'live together' at least that's total understanding..