walking down the aisle
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not likely in today world... hmmm i mean singapore. not many ppl are getting married but more are getting out of it today. the D rate is higher than M rate.Originally posted by tranquil2:for ladies, do you think it's too early to tie the knot at age of 24?
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in singapore you will not be living together unless you have a roof/house to stay.Originally posted by Lingos:Then do you think it is a good idea for them to 'live together' at least that's total understanding..
as for single to have one unless he or she is rich to get one private unit if not must wait till 35 than can get one from HDB in the open market. -
Never mind the practicality..Originally posted by Joshua1975:in singapore you will not be living together unless you have a roof/house to stay.
as for single to have one unless he or she is rich to get one private unit if not must wait till 35 than can get one from HDB in the open market.
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Originally posted by jOhO:career stable at 28???!!
dammit.....!
FOR YOU...
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if one think it bad it bad, if one think it good than it good. no more such things as gal loose out in today singapore anymore.Originally posted by Lingos:Never mind the practicality..
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career? stable?
dammit!!
but seriously... does it matter what age as long as both of them are ready..
a couple could be middle 40s and moronic... and they'll still be not ready..Originally posted by jOhO:career stable at 28???!!
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think alrite la.. age.. provided the woman is clear of wat shes heading for.. n the man is ready too..Originally posted by tranquil2:for ladies, do you think it's too early to tie the knot at age of 24?
for guys, perhaps 28 is the best time? when career is stable... ?? -
I don't think i'm ready.. or will ever be ready..
Everyone asks when the wedding is... his parents are hinting, thank goodness my mum is anti marriage!! One saving grace. -
hahah.. slow coach huh??Originally posted by jOhO:career stable at 28???!!
dammit.....!
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well, living together does indeed foster deeper ties and greater understanding, but, at the end of the day, no matter what happens, in times of conflicts as the relationship develops, it's how commited one is towards the relationship.Originally posted by Lingos:Then do you think it is a good idea for them to 'live together' at least that's total understanding.. -
yeah, it's been much talk about this days... recently, there are just too many articles and columns on divorce and marriages... hmmm.. is the society moving too fast?Originally posted by Joshua1975:not likely in today world... hmmm i mean singapore. not many ppl are getting married but more are getting out of it today. the D rate is higher than M rate. -
Nowadays ppl take divorce like eat a meal like that. thats why so many cases little little bit problem "Divorce ! " Most think want to divorce then earlier better. that way they still have time to get another. nobody wanna try to save the marriage.
usual excuse.
" No Feeling liao divorce lor"
" i got another Dao Tao outside ( mistress )"
" she got no time for me and family "
" she got another man outside!"
" he is a gambler "
" he got no money and no job "
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I think there is no ideal age to marriage. It depends on individual. If you are mentally, financially prepared and in love then why not?
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agreed but if the other party is not than it will not work oso.Originally posted by strawberry lush:I think there is no ideal age to marriage. It depends on individual. If you are mentally, financially prepared and in love then why not? -
Ideal age to marry or not.... one must remember that effort must be put to continuously nurture the relationshipeven after marriage else it's no use getting married at the right age too.
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ya, also, dun let society pressure u into doing something that u r not sure u r ready for jus cos "ITS THE RIGHT THING"Originally posted by Networker:Ideal age to marry or not.... one must remember that effort must be put to continuously nurture the relationship even after marriage else it's no use getting married at the right age too. -
Ai yah dun marry la... Nothing gd abt marry, only bring abt troubles
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see alot scare 30 plus married by time children grow up
hor 50 plus plus ordei.........mmmmmm...
i thingk should get married at 18.....shoot and make the first baby at 20....den start dating ur wife at 21....(while makin babies en route)...........
finish dating aft 5 yrs (=26)...maybe den got another child....
like that gd at 38 yrs old children oredi 20 plus plus...can divorce if not should and get married again hahaha
any 1 1 2 hire a planner.....i am da mn gd at it man hehehe -
Originally posted by 'm back:
see alot scare 30 plus married by time children grow up
hor 50 plus plus ordei.........mmmmmm...
i thingk should get married at 18.....shoot and make the first baby at 20....den start dating ur wife at 21....(while makin babies en route)...........
finish dating aft 5 yrs (=26)...maybe den got another child....
like that gd at 38 yrs old children oredi 20 plus plus...can divorce if not should and get married again hahaha 
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I will not hire you as a planner.Originally posted by 'm back:
see alot scare 30 plus married by time children grow up
hor 50 plus plus ordei.........mmmmmm...
i thingk should get married at 18.....shoot and make the first baby at 20....den start dating ur wife at 21....(while makin babies en route)...........
finish dating aft 5 yrs (=26)...maybe den got another child....
like that gd at 38 yrs old children oredi 20 plus plus...can divorce if not should and get married again hahaha
any 1 1 2 hire a planner.....i am da mn gd at it man hehehe 
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Married when both are prepared. No point to rush.
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hahaOriginally posted by 'm back:
see alot scare 30 plus married by time children grow up
hor 50 plus plus ordei.........mmmmmm...
i thingk should get married at 18.....shoot and make the first baby at 20....den start dating ur wife at 21....(while makin babies en route)...........
finish dating aft 5 yrs (=26)...maybe den got another child....
like that gd at 38 yrs old children oredi 20 plus plus...can divorce if not should and get married again hahaha
any 1 1 2 hire a planner.....i am da mn gd at it man hehehe
yeah, i guess you can be a super comtemporary super kiasu planner... -
yeah, strongly agree that the kind of love and care must be maintained throughout even after marriage...Originally posted by Networker:Ideal age to marry or not.... one must remember that effort must be put to continuously nurture the relationshipeven after marriage else it's no use getting married at the right age too.
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Quality communication is also an essential ingredient in a relationship...
yeah, no rush into marriage... looking at the various postings you guys have put up, the conclusion drew up here will be:
When mentally prepared, financially stable, love present and going strong, Y not?
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I have several friends who got married early in their twenties. Some of them are now divorced.
I have a strong belief that marriage should take place only in our mid twenties. By then, we would have been through a fair bit in life, and generally have a better idea of what we want. My gf was really desperate to get married initially. She thought she was sure she wants to be with me for the rest of her life. But 3 years down the road, she is suddenly unsure.
All this while, i am sure that i want to be with her the rest of my life. I didn't expect her to be hesitant now. I guess this shows that people's expectation and direction in life can change with age. Maybe she wasn't mature enough when she was younger.