Dis-illusioned about man
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RELAX... There're MORE THINGS in life you DON'T KNOW... Go easy on life and life would be easier on you...Originally posted by laurence82:strange, just came back from outing with a friend, heard his relationship stories and about others too
its more like we are disillusioned with women, and good ones are hard to come by
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Originally posted by iceprincess:
Disillusioned about man.. ... I was deeply hurt by my previous relationship...and now the oni man i trusted in life has betrayed my trust .. ..
im totally dissapointed! Why is it that no man can stay faithful to a woman in their life?
wow liao... one bamboo flipped one sampan. may you stay single till world end. -
like wat i mentioned earlier, im not here to put all man down...Originally posted by Joshua1975: wow liao... one bamboo flipped one sampan. may you stay single till world end.
im just pen-ing down my tots in search of making myself feel better. -
i am the man of your dreams
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Originally posted by boyish love:i am the man of your dreams
so confident ar...hahahahaha -
just a dream oni as he put it
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CannotOriginally posted by Devil1976:RELAX... There're MORE THINGS in life you DON'T KNOW... Go easy on life and life would be easier on you...
Anyway , aiyah i dont care for relationship
If they come they come, if dont, mabbe will be bachelor for life...
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Not divorce can file meh?Originally posted by Devil1976:FILE for a MAINTENANCE ORDER... -
even if u can stay faithful to one woman wont make u a dream guy heheOriginally posted by boyish love:i am the man of your dreams -
Hun.. i think your situation isn't as bad as mine.
I shall not divulge.. not into self pity. But trust me, I have a loving family sans estranged dad or not. -
Correct me if I'm wrong anyone?Originally posted by Axelheat755:Not divorce can file meh?
If I'm not mistaken... The answer is a 'YES'.... -
no, you can complain, even though it is not logically reasonable, just don't let it become your value system.. becuz you were upset, so its quite reasonable.Originally posted by iceprincess:like wat i mentioned earlier, im not here to put all man down...
im just pen-ing down my tots in search of making myself feel better.
well, people often feel disillisioned about others, not against any individual or gender or race, but in generality, so its alright, just that we must work hard not to repeat their mistakes.
quite often, almost everyone will feel unappreciated and taken for granted.. including me, but there is really nothing much we can do about it, so no choice but to take it easy, as long we did what we can do, then its alright le.
i think you can look to know your dad's mistress, mainly to confirm and see things objectively, if you can manage your emotions properly. but don't create problems for both your parents by forcing them to make any hasty decisions. -
hey hey sori for late reply manz.. me was in camp..sianz.. yup she been like this since day 1... diffferent and difficult woman..hahaOriginally posted by iceprincess:well, speaking froma gal's point of view.. ..i tink she do not like u anymore.. ..im sorry to say that but i tink if she dun like u to do this and that for her..that is the oni explanation..
pardon me to ask , has she alwaz been lidat when u started the r/s wif her or there is a change? -
I think it is a No. The marriage has to be over before a maintenance order can be applied. Not 100% sure though - just 90%Originally posted by Devil1976:Correct me if I'm wrong anyone?
If I'm not mistaken... The answer is a 'YES'.... -
Shouldn't this be the last resort? Like if the wife has decided she's had enough and wants out? Filing for maintenance can get really ugly and if the man doesn't pay, there's not alot the court is going to do about it.Originally posted by Devil1976:FILE for a MAINTENANCE ORDER...
Hope all turns out for the best for your family, iceprincess. There are so many reasons why couples drift apart. Your support is most probably the most important thing to your Mom now. -
The answer is 'YES'. Please note though that there would be some factors to be taken into consideration of such cases.Originally posted by strawberry lush:I think it is a No. The marriage has to be over before a maintenance order can be applied. Not 100% sure though - just 90% -
Wanna bet on that?Originally posted by czechmate:Shouldn't this be the last resort? Like if the wife has decided she's had enough and wants out? Filing for maintenance can get really ugly and if the man doesn't pay, there's not alot the court is going to do about it.
Hope all turns out for the best for your family, iceprincess. There are so many reasons why couples drift apart. Your support is most probably the most important thing to your Mom now. -
haha i agree things are planned n fated for us so take it things easyOriginally posted by laurence82:Cannot
Anyway , aiyah i dont care for relationship
If they come they come, if dont, mabbe will be bachelor for life... -
Yeah, all right, so they say default on maintenance payments a coupla times and they ship the guy to lockup with just his toothbrush and toothpaste, right? But the guy'll say times are bad ... salary affected by bird flu, SARS, terrorist attacks, economic downturn, increase in GSTOriginally posted by Devil1976:Wanna bet on that? What's a judge to do ... -
They'll still have to backdate and pay up.. If time is bad, they can always ask for an adjustment in maintenance order accordingly..Originally posted by czechmate:Yeah, all right, so they say default on maintenance payments a coupla times and they ship the guy to lockup with just his toothbrush and toothpaste, right? But the guy'll say times are bad ... salary affected by bird flu, SARS, terrorist attacks, economic downturn, increase in GST What's a judge to do ...
The LAST thing you would wanna do is to TEST the patience of a JUDGE... -
well, crap happens...
sadly.. some men are terrible...
but when you find that man who is faithful and loving, please don't treat him like trash?
it's sad to see people tearing their hair out when they go for the well-known dangerous heartbreaker who treats them like dirt, then go to the next heartbreaker until hardened and calloused, suddenly "all men are bastards"...
when there are wallflowers who are loving and kind around... those whom women will never give a second glance to...
alas..
as for your dad, since he's shown himself irresponsible, get the courts on him! -
iceprincess hang in there!!!Originally posted by iceprincess:
Disillusioned about man.. ... I was deeply hurt by my previous relationship...and now the oni man i trusted in life has betrayed my trust .. ..
im totally dissapointed! Why is it that no man can stay faithful to a woman in their life?
trust me ....its not onLY the guys that CAN hurt....the women tooo.....can sting pretty bad.....hold ur head up high.....and dun let unfortunate events hold u back from living life......happiness is out there......FIND IT!!! -
LOSER!Originally posted by iceprincess:
Disillusioned about man.. ... I was deeply hurt by my previous relationship...and now the oni man i trusted in life has betrayed my trust .. ..
im totally dissapointed! Why is it that no man can stay faithful to a woman in their life? -
Why your dad don't give allowances to your mother? Did you ask him?
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Shh....shoo....Originally posted by no_speeding:LOSER!