most of my ex broke up with me, like instantly no memories of me. though i miss 1 of them, none of them ever contacted me..Originally posted by michelle79:i see friends easily break up, the next day find new one, dont they have memories of the ex? its like so instant
You may be nice to have, but not impressionable. eg.Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:most of my ex broke up with me, like instantly no memories of me. though i miss 1 of them, none of them ever contacted me..
The ex that i missed the most, i met her some time ago, she was veri friendly to me, but it's like friendly to e point... i dun know, it jus puts me down knowing how easily & completely she forgot me.
Wah it's a good three long yrs and still you miss him. Is he your first love?Originally posted by michelle79:i really miss him, its been 3 long yrs since we broke up. who here share the same boat as me?
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You want to make your feelings known to him because you want him to know and recipocate? Or for your own emotional release?Originally posted by gal gal:me too miss my ex. borke off about 1.5 yrs ago. like some of you said, call him and make my feelings known to him. the prob is, he totally ignored me.![]()
well depends on wat u mean by "miss"Originally posted by gal gal:sometimes it's difficult lor. even if you get attached again, u will still miss him/her.
Ditto..Originally posted by M©+square:You want to make your feelings known to him because you want him to know and recipocate? Or for your own emotional release?
It's two different motive behind the action and reaps diversed effects really.
Sometimes pple don wanna reply you is not because of any particular reason.. Sometimes is caused they are afraid that if started talking together again.. There may be a chance where you 2 get back together, where some don wish to be that way.. Some find that frens are good enough.Originally posted by gal gal:i dun dare to ask for much. all i wish is for him to reply me, i just wan to know how is he.
you can't force a person to be your fren, let alone a relationship, and usually ppl dun become frens after they broke off for various reason (attached or trying to forget the bad memories, diff aims...etc). Learn to let go of the past and move on. Nobody lives in the past. Treasure what you have now. I believe you are attached now from what you said earlier on. Then treasure what he does for you.Originally posted by gal gal:dun think he even wan to be frens.![]()
dun know if this help ... but focus on the reasons you broke up and not on the good times you shared .... ask yourself, if you are put thourgh the same heart break again, will you feel differently from how you are feeling now? is he/she worth it ? hope that you can find some strength in yourself and move on from there ...Originally posted by michelle79:i really miss him, its been 3 long yrs since we broke up. who here share the same boat as me?
i threw everything that reminds me of her... esp photographs... memories still comes back when i go to places where we been before... after so many years still single... my friends tot i gay... hahahah... don't think so much and make more friends... thats why i come join this forum to know more friends...Originally posted by michelle79:i really miss him, its been 3 long yrs since we broke up. who here share the same boat as me?
yes welcome welcome.Originally posted by yinjie:i threw everything that reminds me of her... esp photographs... memories still comes back when i go to places where we been before... after so many years still single... my friends tot i gay... hahahah... don't think so much and make more friends... thats why i come join this forum to know more friends...![]()