hi i m back...bcos i need help...haha
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ok here is the story
i feel something special to this gal who i noe thru my class.
it is like this we r not classmates.bcos we in poly,for some subjects we actually combine classes, and it so happens tat i got to noe this gal thru 1 of the combine class.
well it may seem to b normal but, i met her a few times b4 n tot she was quite pretty.but i did not rmb her at all when we went for our combined class.in fact i did not even recognize her.
den we got team in a same team for a project.den we started toking n she said she saw me a few times in campus bcos we had the same timetable so we often bump into each other. yet i don seem to have notice her at all during all this time.
it only started last week,last friday when i got teamed up with her.yup we were toking.she is 19f from msia.staying in a hostel.surprisingly i realised i was feeling something funny and enjoyed toking to her n her company. we were sitting together n were toking thru out the class. u noe dou jue.bicker.
i wan to get to noe her betta, n i wonder if she is attached single or if she has some1 else in mind. got her number 2days ago, n started sms ing her.starting she replied fast to each sms. den she started to slow down in replies n communicated less.
i wonder if she is interested in me...or wat.n i oso wanna noe wat can i do from here? tmr we meeting for the combine class again...kinda late to post here for help ...haha but nvm worth a try.
wonder how i can know her status if she is attach or etc.
the only ppl who noes i interested in her r 1 of my classmate,1 of our teammate n 1 of my gal pal.unfortunately all 3 r not close or don even noe her... -
Open your mouth and force the voice out of your throat and ask her verbally.
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So good ah, my class got chiobu but no appeal to me... I like those small small size, quiet quuiet, guai guai de... My class de all hyper. Haiz.
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how did u get her number? did she giv it to u personally or did u swipe it off the class register? if u swiped it then yr jus pushg yrslf on to her...
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me too...haiz..Originally posted by Ayukat:So good ah, my class got chiobu but no appeal to me... I like those small small size, quiet quuiet, guai guai de... My class de all hyper. Haiz. -
me from NP. business studies. she in my IS class la.
den is like...i got her number bcos we doing project n we in same group. so i asked her for number she sure will give de.haha -
sos u got her number by pretending it was for studies bt u abused it instead... nice 1st move... move on...Originally posted by bladez87:me from NP. business studies. she in my IS class la.
den is like...i got her number bcos we doing project n we in same group. so i asked her for number she sure will give de.haha -
hey!!!i no force her for it ok...
it juz so happens we in same group...so i asked for it lo...den wat?
how m i supposed to ask for her number?
hi i m interested in u.can i have your number?
when i m in same group? -
just my view...Originally posted by bladez87:hey!!!i no force her for it ok...
it juz so happens we in same group...so i asked for it lo...den wat?
how m i supposed to ask for her number?
hi i m interested in u.can i have your number?
when i m in same group?
if yr interested in some1 ask for her number with her knowing yr intentions.
if it was for studies then let it stick to studies n see if anythg advances from there.
her relectance to reply u now is cause u r gatg on her nerves... -
mayb la...tats y i oso no more sms her le.
me getting the msg i think...
i noe...when we part n once i think we r close enough i will reveal my intentions to her...or rather my feelings,den ask if i can get her number for personal reasons.if yes,i keep, if no i delete, if b frenz i keep lor. -
look for signs lor, whether got wear necklace or try to ask her if she got anyone she miss anot lor... relac dun b too ganjiong... gd luck...Originally posted by bladez87:ok here is the story
i feel something special to this gal who i noe thru my class.
it is like this we r not classmates.bcos we in poly,for some subjects we actually combine classes, and it so happens tat i got to noe this gal thru 1 of the combine class.
well it may seem to b normal but, i met her a few times b4 n tot she was quite pretty.but i did not rmb her at all when we went for our combined class.in fact i did not even recognize her.
den we got team in a same team for a project.den we started toking n she said she saw me a few times in campus bcos we had the same timetable so we often bump into each other. yet i don seem to have notice her at all during all this time.
it only started last week,last friday when i got teamed up with her.yup we were toking.she is 19f from msia.staying in a hostel.surprisingly i realised i was feeling something funny and enjoyed toking to her n her company. we were sitting together n were toking thru out the class. u noe dou jue.bicker.
i wan to get to noe her betta, n i wonder if she is attached single or if she has some1 else in mind. got her number 2days ago, n started sms ing her.starting she replied fast to each sms. den she started to slow down in replies n communicated less.
i wonder if she is interested in me...or wat.n i oso wanna noe wat can i do from here? tmr we meeting for the combine class again...kinda late to post here for help ...haha but nvm worth a try.
wonder how i can know her status if she is attach or etc.
the only ppl who noes i interested in her r 1 of my classmate,1 of our teammate n 1 of my gal pal.unfortunately all 3 r not close or don even noe her...
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tried le...i tried to tao(trick) her into saying...but she is far too quick witted...n my method of tricking is quite ...ok lor...
tok to her...say this n tat bicker
den say my class who chio
ask if she think she chio anot
she said no
den i said ya your bf wear specs anot
she said trying to ask if i got bf anot ah? -
y not just ask her attached or not?Originally posted by bladez87:tried le...i tried to tao(trick) her into saying...but she is far too quick witted...n my method of tricking is quite ...ok lor...
tok to her...say this n tat bicker
den say my class who chio
ask if she think she chio anot
she said no
den i said ya your bf wear specs anot
she said trying to ask if i got bf anot ah?
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n letting her noe tat i m interested in her?
so tat if she is attached or not interested in me, she will start avoiding me?
u gotta b kidding -
Don't appear too eager or u will seem to be very desperate. Since u are both doing a project, u will have a lot of opportunity to meet up. Start with normal chitchat & she will open up once she knows u better. Work hard on the project so she will be impress with u, take it slowly
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everything takes time. don't be impatient to get to know someone.
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by the time u know her enough, u would discover she is someone else's wifey tooOriginally posted by sillyme:everything takes time. don't be impatient to get to know someone.
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today joked with her as usual.
den went to library the 2 of us.
at 1st is i wan to submit something using her laptop.
den after tat we did some personality test,
n chatted.tat test results were pretty bad for me...haha saying i stingy hotheaded almost all the negative comments.
den she showed me her photo collection.
no1 pic showed her with a guy alone.well...all her pics show her with gals only...yup den after we went off i send her to busstop. she told me quite an amt of her past. haha. -
i will continue updating my progress here .
well
morning sms me to ask which class we were attending.den found out she sms another fren b4 me, altho she was closer with me den tat fren. reason she don sms me 1st is scared i luff at her. which i still did...
in class we sat side by side n joked suan bicker .
after class went library juz the 2 of us.
she shared a lot of her background n past with me.
some were said on her own.well most were. ask her wat time online,den she goes on to say stay in hostel, with sis, elder n blah blah blah.
den yup she shared a lot of stuff abt herself with me.
den when she realised i no submit hw, she offered me the use of her laptop to submit Her work under my name to my tutor.den while using her laptop, she shared with me her entire photo collection as well as the story abt her school back in msia.
den we went on to do a personality test, abt r/s type la. she did hers 1st, n she betta in chinese so she read the results of the test la, which is in chinese faster den i did n close it.
when i did mine,she read MY results faster den me, and closed it...translating only a misery part of it.ask her email me this email,she refused to, altho she email to the rest of her frenz. reason being i told her i memorized her ans n even if she don let me read, i will juz do this email when she send me...n tat stopped her from sending me.
all this time we were at library juz the 2 of us.
den she log on msn.n she saw my add her msg. n she cancelled it. i asked her y she looked at me puzzled. den i told her tat my email. den she said , for some reasons she cant add me in msn, even tho she has been clicking ok for the last 2 times. so she go cancelled it. n she told me she prefers using ICQ when she at home in msia. last time a gal told me tat...tat gal wanted to avoid me. i wonder if this gal is using the same method.
den i asked her to fwd me those fwd msg when she at home, she told me she don online much at home. often going out.
den we went home, diff routes. on the way i was behind her all the while, which crept her out bcos she told me of her experiences of being flashed at while in msia.
well...till the next encounter with her ba -
malaysia gals chio meh..
Are u in a PQS class or what?
Gals who kana flashed at..are usually think that guys are all perverts
and have nasty impression
in other words..they have lost all trust on guys..
so it will take some time for them to regain confidence..
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Why not ask her out for lunch date?
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bladez87...I have read your posts in this topic and I felt that she is only interested in being just friends with you and nothing more than that.
She probably has a bf already or already has somebody she likes. Next time just ask her directly as a friend who wants to know more about her. Ermm...make her laugh first before you enquire about her avaliability status, it makes her less defensive/suspicious with your question.
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just say curious niahOriginally posted by bladez87:n letting her noe tat i m interested in her?
so tat if she is attached or not interested in me, she will start avoiding me?
u gotta b kidding -
me in BS NP. taking poa macro 1st.