Wat is he thinking????.....
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Hmmz.. all i can say now is wait and see what happens.Originally posted by jazzy13:met him today and he looks ok. of cos looks are deceiving.
we didnt talk about the breakup. just talk about wat we have been doing lately. he doesnt talk much just that i m the one talking non-stop.
i wrote the letter and i passed to him jus b4 he dropped me.
we agree to meet up again becoz i need to pass him some things which are wif me.
my gf told me that i will feel miserable after meeting him, but i dont feel that way. in fact, i feel quite normal. maybe i have learnt to acccept not to expect too much???...
of coz i m still hopeful and i hope that by reading the letter will trigger some memories that we shared. he didnt look at me in the eye at all today....
i just feel that if i give him this period to cool off and party all he want and lead the life he want, then he will get tired of it sooner or later....my theory...
so in the meantime, i shall carry on my life ,...work like a dog, party all i want....and prayed...since the ball is no longer in my court....
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Are you still pining hope that he will come back to you once awhile? Well, jus lead your life as per normal... so how, id you found out the real reason for it..be always prepared for the worst reason that he gave.. Maybe you guys are better off as friends.. maybe good friends..Originally posted by jazzy13:met him today and he looks ok. of cos looks are deceiving.
we didnt talk about the breakup. just talk about wat we have been doing lately. he doesnt talk much just that i m the one talking non-stop.
i wrote the letter and i passed to him jus b4 he dropped me.
we agree to meet up again becoz i need to pass him some things which are wif me.
my gf told me that i will feel miserable after meeting him, but i dont feel that way. in fact, i feel quite normal. maybe i have learnt to acccept not to expect too much???...
of coz i m still hopeful and i hope that by reading the letter will trigger some memories that we shared. he didnt look at me in the eye at all today....
i just feel that if i give him this period to cool off and party all he want and lead the life he want, then he will get tired of it sooner or later....my theory...
so in the meantime, i shall carry on my life ,...work like a dog, party all i want....and prayed...since the ball is no longer in my court....
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actually i m in kinda dilemma.
on one hand, i tell myself to get it over and done with. Stop thinking about him anymore.
on the other hand, i still think about him every now and then.
it is quite hard especially when he still has stuff at my house. whenever i look at him things, it makes it hard for me to tell myself to move on.
it is true that i still pin some hopes and that i hope he will turn back and say that he wants to be back with me.
He didn't give any reasons yet. His reasons as I previously mentioned were all that he said.
i feel stupid that i still have feelings for a person who chose to give up on the relationship. but someting inside is nagging me that give him time and he will wake up.
i still think abt him everyday, I still carry on my life as per usual.
My friends tell me that i will go thru some phases.
Sad, anger and then happy.
Now, sometimes i feel angry and sometimes I feel happy.
I dun know wats wrong wif me..... -
what u are feeling is quite common....Originally posted by jazzy13:actually i m in kinda dilemma.
on one hand, i tell myself to get it over and done with. Stop thinking about him anymore.
on the other hand, i still think about him every now and then.
it is quite hard especially when he still has stuff at my house. whenever i look at him things, it makes it hard for me to tell myself to move on.
it is true that i still pin some hopes and that i hope he will turn back and say that he wants to be back with me.
He didn't give any reasons yet. His reasons as I previously mentioned were all that he said.
i feel stupid that i still have feelings for a person who chose to give up on the relationship. but someting inside is nagging me that give him time and he will wake up.
i still think abt him everyday, I still carry on my life as per usual.
My friends tell me that i will go thru some phases.
Sad, anger and then happy.
Now, sometimes i feel angry and sometimes I feel happy.
I dun know wats wrong wif me..... -
dun worry pal.. so you get over him.. how many ppl have you heard of.. saying that they will wait for the other.. but in the end.. they end up with another.. and forget the one that he/she supposely to wait??Originally posted by jazzy13:actually i m in kinda dilemma.
on one hand, i tell myself to get it over and done with. Stop thinking about him anymore.
on the other hand, i still think about him every now and then.
it is quite hard especially when he still has stuff at my house. whenever i look at him things, it makes it hard for me to tell myself to move on.
it is true that i still pin some hopes and that i hope he will turn back and say that he wants to be back with me.
He didn't give any reasons yet. His reasons as I previously mentioned were all that he said.
i feel stupid that i still have feelings for a person who chose to give up on the relationship. but someting inside is nagging me that give him time and he will wake up.
i still think abt him everyday, I still carry on my life as per usual.
My friends tell me that i will go thru some phases.
Sad, anger and then happy.
Now, sometimes i feel angry and sometimes I feel happy.
I dun know wats wrong wif me.....
Who always say "i love you forever" but then is not forever... on the street you see them with another but not you.. Well.. you jus have to let yourself settle down.. and jus go on.. someday.. when you think of him again.. maybe ti will be "memories"..
There's nothin with you.. most ppl go thru such phrases.. not only you.. motivate yourself.. to do somethine else.. and not sitting down jus think,, Action must be thinking.. this is jus as good as ppl saying "i love you" but how many meant it?? right?
Don't worry you'll pull thru and get thru.. well.. i do really hope you can get your queries soon.. at least you know you won't in a dilemia dunno what to do next.. cos the reason he gave isn't much convincing to you.. that's why you keep thinking what's wrong.. what went wrong.. Jus stay cool ok..
Cheers..