Am I shallow?
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Hello all. I post this thread to seek your help. I wish that you give me an honest reply.
See, I like(or love or however you describe this feeling) this girl from my friend's (girl's classmate) school. She is pretty popular in her campus. I have only seen her once. She does not know me or seen me before.
From what I heard, she has a boyfriend. My friend(her classmate) is in her study group and he felt like helping me meet her.
Here is the wierd part. Am I crazy or delusional to have such feelings for someone I barely even know? Or am I obsessed? I am confused right now and I seek the help from you all.
Thanks,
painkilla -
You are not shallow duh! You have a crush. So sweet.
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since she has a bf.... then 4get loh... try others...
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I have heard, whether is it true or not. The girl that i like( or love or however you describe it), is having problems with her relationship. The boyfriend apparently is 2-timing on her.
I am not sure. I have not fallen in love with anyone(or like or however you would use to describe). Is this feeling a bit too crazy? -
well its not crazy, its perfectly normal.
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Thanks for your honest replies. Since I have no knowledge in stuff like these, would you all give some suggestions to approach a task(or whatever you wish to describe this) like this? I really want this to work. Not that I am a selfish bastard or anything.
Thanks,
painkilla -
wat task???
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On my first post, my friend offered to give me chances to meet her(since they are on the same study group). I was wondering how would I approach her. I am sort of a loser when it comes to such things. Would really want help from you all.
Thanks,
painkilla -
reminds me of japanese love manga.
Anyway, its not exactly prefectly normal. -
Hey mac, could you give me some advice? Since you read something which was pretty relevant to my topic.
Thanks,
painkilla -
Just be yourself... no need to purposely impress her by being someone you are not...Originally posted by painkilla:On my first post, my friend offered to give me chances to meet her(since they are on the same study group). I was wondering how would I approach her. I am sort of a loser when it comes to such things. Would really want help from you all.
Thanks,
painkilla -
Thanks for posting. It was meaningful for me. Anymore suggestions anyone?
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Why i've said it's not exactly normal because.Originally posted by painkilla:Hey mac, could you give me some advice? Since you read something which was pretty relevant to my topic.
Thanks,
painkilla
Guy tends to look for their ideal/fantasied partner as first selection process.
What ain't normal is when we watched too much dramas and mangas and love novels. It creates a simulation within our minds which we thought we could live like what was told in the stories.
REmember.
Love Movies - Is all about two hours and that's it.
Love dramas - At most fifty episodes...
Love Novel - The love takes One book
Love Manga - As above
Your Love story? It takes everything in your life to build one.
Your scenario my guess is that you're a worshipper from afar.
Let's see how you'll progress rather then watching and admiring from afar.
Fantasy does not equate to Reality. Though it's sweet and nice to do what is in dramas and stuff. But fruitfulness doesn't come this way, it only gives excitment and rush.
I'll be back.
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Books are a good way of showing and protraying past experiences I understand. They give you a certain fantasy-like feeling to the context. Although there are many different ways of approaching this situation, I believe there is an ideal way of going about this. Else I would not be writing anymore about this topic and get back with my life but knowing that I still have a weight over my shoulder.
Thanks for the advice you gave.
painkilla -
sometimes fate plays a part too...
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Painkilla, you takes this too seriously. Learn to relax just be yourself, girls will not fall in love right away with you.You sounded like she will fall in love right away with you.
All woman requires times to understand a person before they would fall for a guy. Unlike for guys by looking into a girls which falls into the catagories of choice in beauty, immediate the boys would proclaimed that he is in love.... so learn to relax first. Start by making friend and learn more about each other characters. From here you will be surprise that you will also get to learn about yourself too. Getting to know more people within or beyond your circle of friends is always a good thing. Good luck anyway! -
just forget it.
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She already has a bf, so don't be a selfish bastard. I will not encourage you anyway and...did you register your nick just to ask this question?Originally posted by painkilla:Thanks for posting. It was meaningful for me. Anymore suggestions anyone?
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forget her la, shes jz a crush, theres better available gals arnd...
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One word.
Infatuation. -
if she has a bf, i think it better u leave them alone.
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Ask your friend to point out to her classmate who you are.
If your friend's classmate response is receptive & good.
Have your friend introduce to both of you to each other.
No harm getting to know one more friend.
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Never trust a firend who offered to help to introduce u to a girl. If she's so nice, why din't he take her for himself? And ask urself, why is he trying to offload the girl to u? I recommend caution.
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the friend could already be attachedOriginally posted by Fuqua:Never trust a firend who offered to help to introduce u to a girl. If she's so nice, why din't he take her for himself? And ask urself, why is he trying to offload the girl to u? I recommend caution.
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U are just attracted to a pretty face. She has a bf, ask yourself whether u want to wait for her to break up since her relationship is in trouble. Unless u don't mind being her good friend for the time being. By advice is don't waste yr time.