Am I shallow?
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Get to know her first.... see if she is amiable to have you as her friend and if you like her personality....etc
You can join their study group and offer to help or study together.
Looks is what attracts people at first but its the personality that will make any relationship/friendship last. -
Always wanting to see the good in ppl. You're okOriginally posted by pie:the friend could already be attached
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At least partial deluccination... But it can be pretty normal...Originally posted by painkilla:Hello all. I post this thread to seek your help. I wish that you give me an honest reply.
See, I like(or love or however you describe this feeling) this girl from my friend's (girl's classmate) school. She is pretty popular in her campus. I have only seen her once. She does not know me or seen me before.
From what I heard, she has a boyfriend. My friend(her classmate) is in her study group and he felt like helping me meet her.
Here is the wierd part. Am I crazy or delusional to have such feelings for someone I barely even know? Or am I obsessed? I am confused right now and I seek the help from you all.
Thanks,
painkilla
Obsessed? Depending on how far you go on your acts and thoughts?
Find out if she has a bf 1st? You probably won't stand a high chance but if you don't mind just knowing someone like her or is willing to just accept having one more friend like her then you can just try and get yourself 'linked up' with her? -
Thanks for all your comments. I really appreciate it. About my friend: He is not interested in her.
Anyway, you all have been of much help to me. I hope for more comments.
Thank you,
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Bro,
If she has a bf, you had better stay away. The ROI in not worth it.
If she has a bf who is two-timing her, and their relationship is suffering, you had better bloody stay away from this mess.
The worst time to tackle a girl is when she is in a mental mess. At best, she will view you as a good friend. Once you have become her friend, you will not have any chance of making her your gf. The moment she sorts out her problem with her boy-boy, you will cry till your tear ducts go dry.
In a worst-case scenario, you become her rebound guy. Like a spring, you help lift her from the abyss. However, once she has fully rebound, you are no longer needed. Negative returns on investment, my friend. -
If she hasnt already taken notice of you.
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no.but why wanna be third party?Originally posted by painkilla:Hello all. I post this thread to seek your help. I wish that you give me an honest reply.
See, I like(or love or however you describe this feeling) this girl from my friend's (girl's classmate) school. She is pretty popular in her campus. I have only seen her once. She does not know me or seen me before.
From what I heard, she has a boyfriend. My friend(her classmate) is in her study group and he felt like helping me meet her.
Here is the wierd part. Am I crazy or delusional to have such feelings for someone I barely even know? Or am I obsessed? I am confused right now and I seek the help from you all.
Thanks,
painkilla -
So guys are so obsessed with the girls they like; they even kiss the soil the girls step on.Originally posted by ozon:no.but why wanna be third party?