Right or Wrong?U decide
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isit right or wrong to go after a person who is attached but not married?
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Originally posted by OpenGuy:isit right or wrong to go after a person who is attached but not married?
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Is it right or wrong for her to to dump you the way she dumped her current bf for you now........u decide
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Very easy to decide.Originally posted by OpenGuy:isit right or wrong to go after a person who is attached but not married?
You think it is right for ppl to go aft your gf when they know she is likely to marry you?
Tell ur true feelings & Dun be double standard.
If she can forsake her attached partner for you, she can forsake you for someone else later... -
But from the views of u all,would a guy/girl like another opposite gender if their relationship is stable?
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If it happens naturally without attempt to break them up, fine.Originally posted by OpenGuy:isit right or wrong to go after a person who is attached but not married?
If attempts has been made to break them up, then you bastard. -
If he/she does that..........it does not always mean their relationship is not stable.......it could just mean that he/she is not taking their relationship seriously........very unfair to their current partner........Originally posted by OpenGuy:But from the views of u all,would a guy/girl like another opposite gender if their relationship is stable? -
Personally i tink its wrong..
Been in this situation quite a few times..
I dun wanna create problems for the 2 of them...
In their 2 pple world,there shouldn't be me inside at all..
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All`s fair in LOVE and WAR
Sometimes it`s the ultimate intensity of love that make us do things we`ll normally not do..
I`ll say this question have no real answers..
But i`ll not do what i do not want others to do to me.
However, nothing can stop LOVE from comin your way..
and when it comes embrace it graciously. -
Very easy to decide.
You think it is right for ppl to go aft your gf when they know she is likely to marry you?
Tell ur true feelings & Dun be double standard.
If she can forsake her attached partner for you, she can forsake you for someone else later
i put my hand up n agree -
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There is no right or wrong in such matters... but just got to bear in mind that if s/he did leave her/is current b/gf for the better u, at least in her/is opinion, s/he may leave u when a even better one, in her/is opinion, appears and decide to woo her/im.
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why not??? ~Just Do It~
if she is urs... she's urs.... if u are good.. u are good.... but if u are not worthy of her love.. then u are not.....other ppl just have to face the fact
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Originally posted by OpenGuy:isit right or wrong to go after a person who is attached but not married? Its not about being 'wrong' to chase an attached girl - but the problem is can you ensure that you don't implicate problems into your beginning relationship with her? It truely depends on your situations and is difficult to comment.
You can chase, but how sure are you to succeed?
P.S: To people who hates guys going after attached girl: if she leaps across boat, it simply means she is NOT the one and it probably revealed her ultimate true self. No point. All is fair in love and war - if you can't substain your relationship, let them go.
Cheers -
i'll say this:
battleship steel, even if you pound it enough, will break...
and if a couple is happy, just because of yourself, you go pound on it until it breaks?
did you love her in the first place?
or was it possession of her you wanted?
love is seeing the object of your affection happy, and being happy for her even when you are not the one bringing her joy... -
right or wrong depend on your thinking, it the thinking make it so.Originally posted by OpenGuy:isit right or wrong to go after a person who is attached but not married? -
if yr friend also say want to go after him/her when he/she know ya are troubled of this,would ya still consider him/her to be yr friend?
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lf your friend tells you that he/she likes someone you like, what would you feel or do?Originally posted by OpenGuy:if yr friend also say want to go after him/her when he/she know ya are troubled of this,would ya still consider him/her to be yr friend? -
Not sure because have not encounter such problem yet
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Your friend has emotion as well. You can't control that.
Would you feel any loss losing such a friend over this? If you can answer that, then that will lead to your answer. -
But does he know i have emotion as well?
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how many more can help solve the question?
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Is it just a question? Or is it a problem?Originally posted by OpenGuy:how many more can help solve the question? -
Yes, I understand, I have been through this as well.Originally posted by OpenGuy:But does he know i have emotion as well?
Can you see that he might think the same way how you feel now?
Whether this friendship is worth enough to end for this reason, you will have to think.
Apart from all this, you have to ask yourself, are you serious about the person that is already attached? If so, I can say you will not chase her this time. You want to chase her but somewhere in your heart says its wrong. That's why you post tis topic initially?
Ask yourself why your heart says its wrong? -
u are half right,i myself is in doubt but is serious on this