Right or Wrong?U decide

• kaobeikaobu

  9 Aug 04, 19:11

  Originally posted by OpenGuy:

  u are half right,i myself is in doubt but is serious on this

  then why in doubt?
• OpenGuy

  9 Aug 04, 19:15

  fated to meet,not fated to be together,she's attached
• kaobeikaobu

  9 Aug 04, 19:24

  Originally posted by OpenGuy:

  fated to meet,not fated to be together,she's attached

  hmm...she felt the same as you do? If so, then the above applies.
  if not, then it's not.
• Qitai

  9 Aug 04, 19:25

  Is she happy with her bf? What does she think of you? If she is happy with her bf, why you want to disturb them? Would she be happier if she is with you? Or is it only you who will be happier when that happens? Love is giving, not taking or conquering.
• OpenGuy

  9 Aug 04, 19:28

  but 2 person who likes each other can't be together will be happy?
• Qitai

  9 Aug 04, 19:31

  If you are so sure she like you and will be happy to be with you. . . . . . . . .are you sure?
  
  If I am you, I will let her decide.
• OpenGuy

  9 Aug 04, 19:34

  but you will wait how long for her to decide?
• kaobeikaobu

  9 Aug 04, 19:34

  Originally posted by OpenGuy:

  but 2 person who likes each other can't be together will be happy?

  the answer to your qn in ur situation is 'no'. BUT will be going thru more difficulties, have to prepare a lot 'helmets'.
• OpenGuy

  9 Aug 04, 19:37

  if can be together,i wouldn't mind NOT wearing any 'helmets'
• kaobeikaobu

  9 Aug 04, 19:46

  Originally posted by OpenGuy:

  if can be together,i wouldn't mind NOT wearing any 'helmets'

  since you said that, not only you. but you gota tell her about the road ahead as well. no regrets should be allowed.
• OpenGuy

  9 Aug 04, 19:47

  but we looked like having communication breakdown,had not talk for 1 month
• Qitai

  9 Aug 04, 19:51

  Do you care about her happiness at all?
• OpenGuy

  9 Aug 04, 19:53

  who don't care for the person they love?
• kaobeikaobu

  9 Aug 04, 19:55

  why the breakdown? misunderstanding, avoidance, quarrel over wat? seems serious coz 1 mth...
• OpenGuy

  9 Aug 04, 19:57

  avoidance,reason:unknown,but might be confession of feelings
• Qitai

  9 Aug 04, 19:59

  If you care, then going after her should not be your priority. Her happiness is! You still have not answer if she will be happy to break off with her bf and be with you.
• OpenGuy

  9 Aug 04, 20:00

  the future is unpredictable,thats all i can say
• ozon

  9 Aug 04, 20:01

  Originally posted by OpenGuy:

  isit right or wrong to go after a person who is attached but not married?

  wrong.
• Qitai

  9 Aug 04, 20:06

  Then I can only conclude you are just considering yourself only.
• kaobeikaobu

  9 Aug 04, 20:08

  Originally posted by OpenGuy:

  avoidance,reason:unknown,but might be confession of feelings

  wait....then you can't 100% say she likes you as well....have to find out the unknown reason.
• OpenGuy

  9 Aug 04, 20:09

  can you tell me whats going to happen tomoro or 1 hour later?
• OpenGuy

  9 Aug 04, 20:10

  reason might be confession of feelings to each other
• Qitai

  9 Aug 04, 20:13

  Does unknown gives you good reason to break people up?
  
  
• ozon

  9 Aug 04, 20:14

  Originally posted by OpenGuy:

  reason might be confession of feelings to each other

  after one month and she havent decide?!
• OpenGuy

  9 Aug 04, 20:15

  naturally NO