Right or Wrong?U decide
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Be a gentlemen,forget abt her...Originally posted by OpenGuy:naturally NO -
if one can forget another easily,there would be no love problems in the world
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agreed.but isnt the "hint" obvious??Originally posted by OpenGuy:if one can forget another easily,there would be no love problems in the world -
who is avoiding who??Originally posted by OpenGuy:avoidance,reason:unknown,but might be confession of feelings -
There's no right or wrong, ultimately it's about choice.
And the choice is for her to decide. She has to decide who's the person she would most happy with.
Dun think too much about bad karma & retribution that sorta things.
Everyone has a right to chose their own happiness.
Love is both selfish & selfless. -
must i ask her who is she happy with? she is a chinese while i am a malay
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No.
Dun pressurize.
Let her decide. you will know in due time. -
tts not enuff, even if she likes you, she wld be going thru as much (in most cases more than you wld). It would be even harder to start/maintain a new relationship with these extra burdens. Respect her decision means respecting her. If she doesn't like you, take the answer for the qn you going to ask and walk away gracefully, if not quietly.Originally posted by OpenGuy:must i ask her who is she happy with? she is a chinese while i am a malay
Take care, OpenGuy, and wish you all the best!! -
thank you for everyone's comment
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Yes it is wrong to go after anyone who is already attached. Like and loving him/her doesn't means that you can destroy her/him current relationship. At the end of the road, it all comes down to respecting each other's rights and freewill.Originally posted by OpenGuy:isit right or wrong to go after a person who is attached but not married? -
Same sentiment.Originally posted by BaByBoY:All`s fair in LOVE and WAR
Sometimes it`s the ultimate intensity of love that make us do things we`ll normally not do..
I`ll say this question have no real answers..
But i`ll not do what i do not want others to do to me.
However, nothing can stop LOVE from comin your way..
and when it comes embrace it graciously.
sometimes, what intrigues us into understanding emotions in our mental life, is when we encounter impassioned moments - moments acted impulsively, that we regret later when the dark clouds disperse.
Humans are not cold-blooded and formidable after all, since all of us have feelings and it's natural to develop feelings for somebody. Just as important, what do you want? Try not to let your feelings override your rational mind.. though it's might be difficult to acheive. do you know here well? if she does this to her bf, she can do it to you too. If you really love her, let her choose her own way, whether it's leading towards you or away from you.. it's her freedom to choose.
cheers... -
What goes around, comes around
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maybe one should learn to let go easier?
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when you are at your downs at your life,your friend say he love the person you love,to you,does it consider he betray you?
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Nope.. If there's one thing which cannot be forced, it's FEELING for LOVE...Originally posted by OpenGuy:when you are at your downs at your life,your friend say he love the person you love,to you,does it consider he betray you? -
But if before that,he constantly say for my own good that i forget the person i love?But now my that friend love the person i love?
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Then you should show him the finger.Originally posted by OpenGuy:But if before that,he constantly say for my own good that i forget the person i love?But now my that friend love the person i love?
Then buy a chain, some petrol and a lighter. You should know what to do with them.
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i agree! but one thing is the third party must noe how to bless the couple and leave them alone when they are stable.if not the third party dun deserve any respect. no one can stop one from loving somebody but one must make sure they dun attempt to spoil a relationship..Originally posted by Qitai:If it happens naturally without attempt to break them up, fine.
If attempts has been made to break them up, then you bastard. -
Is he a good friend?Originally posted by OpenGuy:But if before that,he constantly say for my own good that i forget the person i love?But now my that friend love the person i love?
Before or after... Sometimes things are not that clear... Maybe he wasn't even interested in her while he was advising you..? Maybe he had evil intentions all along..? Do you have an assured way of knowing what's the truth?
Anyway, you already don't stand a chance..? Why not let him...? -
why do you say i don't have a chance?
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I feel that you have the right to go after her. Unless she ask u not to do that.
She's not married, i dont see any wrong.
Her guy should welcome all competitions.
And who knows, the winner might end up cherishing her more..
So, the Girl still benefits!
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Wow touchy topic...In the first place nothing has the "must be right or wrong" tag..
juz like nothing is either white or grey..If do things only right or wrong way...den alot of things cannot be done liao....
But if u ask me to choose between right or wrong..i would choose the latter...I would not do it.. And that i would not encourage it...
Think about it...If the thinking that she would be happier with you makes you want to be with her..then how bout tis...
Lotsa people in this world would be unhappy becoz there is always a person how can make them happier...
Everyone would be fearing to "parade" their partners fearing that he/she meets some1 who can make them happier...
*i would be the 1st to hide my gf if i have 1 in a black box*
Next since they are aready together..y not let them be happy ever after...
Can still be her fren...Something to ponder 1 +(1x1) = 2.. 1x1x1 = 1
Still can be fren lah cheers....
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i have been thru both sides within abt 3 mths.... I chased this gal while she was attached. She was hintin me too. I am not tryin to blame her, but it realli takes 2 hands to clap. I was in e wrong too. She broke up with her bf to be ard with me for abt 3 wks, b4 ending things with me to be with another guy. while seeing me , she was actualli seeing another guy....
all i can say. it doesnt feel gd to be on either side. i was feelin torn. i know i was wrong, she is attached, i shld nt be seein her at all. but i realli have strong feelings for her. she doesnt feel close to her bf anymore. i was realli caught, i duno wat to do.....
when i found out she 2-timed me. it felt equally bad. cant imagine her huggin me this moment, return to her home n sms e other guy. haizz..
we are jus play tools of god above.... sad ? -
should i pull out?
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If you do love her then just go after her? At this moment, there's no acceptance yet... It's still an open game? Why bother so much about the others?Originally posted by OpenGuy:why do you say i don't have a chance?