Me chinese, she malay
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well... i think if u really wanna get her, u shld go for it... regardless ur parents objection... a gal of ur HEART doesnt come easy... go for it!Originally posted by yantao:Well thanks alot for ur advise...
I have thought of getting my gf to change instead... but have to think of her parents also..
Im actually feeling very bad that i cant met her expectation.. she feeling upset.
Our relationship had come to the end of the chapter.
Whether there is volumn 2.. im not sure. *sob sob*. Well i still have to take things easy.
Things now are getting complicated.
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U can said that. But i cant be selfish also. Parents are parents. It will be best if both side ok. haha... persuade my mom lor...
but now i dont know lah... should talk to mom again or not...??? -
yes... u oradi grown up... call ur uncles , aunties, relatives for help also... psycho ur mom haha
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Why? If she really love you, then she should not force u to become a Moslem. Not all malays are moslem anyway. They are just keen on having another head count in the world of moslem! (After all, so many died in the mid-east.) Anyway, to be a true blue moslem is'nt as simple as signing a document. You got to :
1) Produce as many offsprings as possible even thought you are stretch thin financially.
2) Have many wife(max = 4 @ 1 time) who can bore you more offsprings. Those who cannot produce anymore can be divorced and replaced.
3) Be well versed in the Koran (esp the chapter on Jihad)
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hahahaa...u are 1 hell of a joker!Originally posted by rudyiskandar:Why? If she really love you, then she should not force u to become a Moslem. Not all malays are moslem anyway. They are just keen on having another head count in the world of moslem! (After all, so many died in the mid-east.) Anyway, to be a true blue moslem is'nt as simple as signing a document. You got to :
1) Produce as many offsprings as possible even thought you are stretch thin financially.
2) Have many wife(max = 4 @ 1 time) who can bore you more offsprings. Those who cannot produce anymore can be divorced and replaced.
3) Be well versed in the Koran (esp the chapter on Jihad)
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u wanna go halal your whole life?
you want your kids to wear tudong?
u wanna go to the mecca and walk round the haj?
dont know bout you man...but i my opinion...just do wat u want with her and let her go -
just make sure she's really the one for you before u make such radical sacrifices lor...all the best..
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your parents must be so pround to give birth to a chinese son who grew up to have a taste for halal pussy
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do it like the TV drama, ELOPE!!
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yantao,
I hope this will help.
First I must warn you that it is wrong to convert to muslim just because you want to marry her. If you don't understand ISLAM at all, then there is no point for you to convert. In fact you don't even need to do that just to to marry her.
From your message I feel you don't really understand or have learn much about the religion of ISLAM. I sugguest you go THE MUSLIM CONVERTS' ASSOCIATION OF SINGAPORE . you can find everything here.
Once your understand the beauty of ISLAM and became a MUSLIM then, THE ONE AND ONLY will lead you to the right path and I am sure your Mom will understand.
I don't think I am the right person to teach you ISLAM, so I leave this to the brother at Darul Arqam THE MUSLIM CONVERTS' ASSOCIATION OF SINGAPORE.
As for your name, don't worry, do you know that there are millions of CHINESE MUSLIM with chinese name in this world who can't speak a single words of Malay.
I quote -----Im so sad. Why must we be confided into all these cultures and religions. We are all singaporean, shouldn't it be just simple...
It can be simple but I thought you want your to be FOREVER rather than simple. That is why I care to reply.
Here are some article about Marriage In Islam
Guess I have no right to teach you anything about this issue, casue I am not a .......
Anyway hope all these info help and will lead you to the right path -
me intulent .,, she chinese chio bu..
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Crude & uncalled forOriginally posted by Thailand_Hero:your parents must be so pround to give birth to a chinese son who grew up to have a taste for halal pussy
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Crude & uncalled forOriginally posted by Ding:Originally posted by Thailand_Hero:
[b]your parents must be so pround to give birth to a chinese son who grew up to have a taste for halal pussy [/b]What does this racist pig have against malays? Grow up!!! 
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i aint no rasict man...but dont you find it weird that our chinese parents give birth to us....give us chinese names...then later we change our name to some mohamed?
not sure bout your guys but its my personal opinion to eat pork the rest of my life! -
Then those chinese with Christian names leh ?
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cold is God's way of telling christians to burn more catholics
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wait 1 day u fall for malay gal...Originally posted by Thailand_Hero:i aint no rasict man...but dont you find it weird that our chinese parents give birth to us....give us chinese names...then later we change our name to some mohamed?
not sure bout your guys but its my personal opinion to eat pork the rest of my life! -
wait 1 day u fall for malay gal...Originally posted by bigdeal:Originally posted by Thailand_Hero:
[b]i aint no rasict man...but dont you find it weird that our chinese parents give birth to us....give us chinese names...then later we change our name to some mohamed?
not sure bout your guys but its my personal opinion to eat pork the rest of my life! [/b]big deal... -
Har ? What tolk u ?Originally posted by pocketpig II:cold is God's way of telling christians to burn more catholics -
...[/b]Originally posted by Thailand_Hero:big deal...