How do you make your gf feel secured ?
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What should we guys do what we guys should do or say ?
WHat do they mean by they feel not secured ?
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I mean What should we guys do or say and what we guy Shouldnt do to say to let your gf feel secured.
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why u think your gf feel insecure?
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put 10k bucks in her bank account and say, its yrs, no questions asked.
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security is a feeling the gers feel when wif u
its not about what u say, what u can do..
example is, if u r deadly handsome and alwasy got chiobus around u and she's not that great looking, she will feel insecure. -
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dont always think of sex when u r with her
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Don't flirt with other girls.
Tell her she is your one & only.
Answer her SMS & calls promptly & keep her informed of what u are doing even if very busy -
Wah like this make urself too available n in the long run she will take things for granted n feel tat u r a boring chap.Originally posted by gerrykoh:Don't flirt with other girls.
Tell her she is your one & only.
Answer her SMS & calls promptly & keep her informed of what u are doing even if very busy -
true nuff though.Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:Wah like this make urself too available n in the long run she will take things for granted n feel tat u r a boring chap. -
i like this kind of guyOriginally posted by gerrykoh:Don't flirt with other girls.
Tell her she is your one & only.
Answer her SMS & calls promptly & keep her informed of what u are doing even if very busy
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u r a control freakOriginally posted by amuletgurl:i like this kind of guy 
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well,i do not wish to tell him to do that,if he naturally wants to keep track wif me,i will feel securedOriginally posted by Axelheat755:u r a control freak -
Example :Originally posted by december:What should we guys do what we guys should do or say ?
WHat do they mean by they feel not secured ?
PLs comments !
Questions
1) If your GF drive and knock onto somebody's car, when she tell you what is your 1st reply?
2) If your GF fool ard outside and she told you after a few month later, what you do?
3) You have $100 to spent for a month, how much will you spent on her or with her?
Give your answer before looking at mine please
My Answer :
1) Are you ok? if you are ok then fine don't worry, follow by a hug or tell her on the phone "meet me ASAP I want to give you a hug".
2) As long now you are with me , the rest is the past.
3) I will give her all to decide for me, even she spent all the most I stay at home watch TV for a month -
SAY:
"darling, u are the only one, my eyes look at that gal cos she looks like my mum"
"darling, you are the best thing that happened to me, no other gal touched my heart like you do since i used to be gay"
DO:
give her a GPS tracker so she can track your every move
give her all your month and ask her for allowance
and that's for starters.....
Originally posted by december:What should we guys do what we guys should do or say ?
WHat do they mean by they feel not secured ?
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Mature mindset, responsible actions.
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if you ever get the answer
plse do tell me
I have been trying to figure it out for years -
ha ha .... govt must be around some whereOriginally posted by F.O.S:Example :
Questions
1) If your GF drive and knock onto somebody's car, when she tell you what is your 1st reply?
2) If your GF fool ard outside and she told you after a few month later, what you do?
3) You have $100 to spent for a month, how much will you spent on her or with her?
Give your answer before looking at mine please
My Answer :
1) Are you ok? if you are ok then fine don't worry, follow by a hug or tell her on the phone "meet me ASAP I want to give you a hug".
2) As long now you are with me , the rest is the past.
3) I will give her all to decide for me, even she spent all the most I stay at home watch TV for a month -
dun boh chup her....remind her regularly, how much she means to u, how much u love her n all that shit.......thru words, or actions...
some girls are dumb.....u hav to tell them straight in the face....
try to fork some time out for her no matter how bz u are, it can be in the form of sms, phone calls, or dates......
give her hugs often...unless she's one of the rare ones who dun like hugging...
dun push her away from u...dun ever do tt....unless the situation calls for it.... -
Oh yeah... Maslow... Holds the KEY to some of my questions... SILLY ME... How come I've never really noticed beforeOriginally posted by InnoHippo:
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yup i agree..Originally posted by amuletgurl:well,i do not wish to tell him to do that,if he naturally wants to keep track wif me,i will feel secured -
Yes try to call ur gf more often... sms her.... make her secure... let her know where u r...
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Things tat u know can make her insecure, dun let her know.
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hmm...i dun really have a bf but sometimes there are guys around me who do these kinda things that will make me feel really safe when i m wif em...
1. when i have to walk home late at night, you offer to send me back. even if it means you have to walk wif me...
2. when you say you will meet me sumwhere at a certain time, you will be there...
3. holding my hands and never leave me alone in a crowded place...(i have this phobia of getting lost in crowded place)
4. when it is cold, you offer me your jacket...
5. we can be together in a room, just the two of us, and u dun force me to do anything funny if i dun feel like it...
there are more but can't tink of em rite now...
i.c.y -
Just trying to be funny, don't angryOriginally posted by icyprincess:hmm...i dun really have a bf but sometimes there are guys around me who do these kinda things that will make me feel really safe when i m wif em...
1. when i have to walk home late at night, you offer to send me back. even if it means you have to walk wif me...
I will pay you $20 for taxi
2. when you say you will meet me sumwhere at a certain time, you will be there...
Make sure you late for 1 hour you sure to see me there
3. holding my hands and never leave me alone in a crowded place...(i have this phobia of getting lost in crowded place)
you can always hold on to my belt loop
4. when it is cold, you offer me your jacket...
I can always give you a hug
5. we can be together in a room, just the two of us, and u dun force me to do anything funny if i dun feel like it...
if you don't wan me to be funny, you better be funny to me
there are more but can't tink of em rite now...
i.c.y
f.o.s -
wish i know aso..ha..
