How do you make your gf feel secured ?

• 101wish

  4 Sep 04, 01:08

  most gals lik to be pampered, however, depends on situations, dun spoil them..the following r some examples :
  
  1) make sure u r honest to her, let her know where u go, esp alone wif other gal, not saying u need to REPORT everythg n everytime,
  
  2) dun LIE, "wolf's story" wil not be recommended ( lang lai le ),
  
  3) tell her wat's ur plan, future wif her, regarding some decision making must discuss wif her,
  
  4) make sure u dun break ur promises tat u had made
  
  5) be more caring n sensitive
  
  hope the above helps
• Yunhaier

  4 Sep 04, 01:56

  Originally posted by december:

  What should we guys do what we guys should do or say ?
  WHat do they mean by they feel not secured ?
  PLs comments !
  

  I learn to understand security as a form of mindset and behavior, rather than reaction to it.
  
  The solution to security is often a patch-hole method used by people. You wanna secure the best security, you have to drill in blind faith into the relationship - Only those who believe in their relationship holds the most security.
  
  Relationship is a separate entity away from the woman and the man. Insecurity leaks fear: this fear refers to the fear of losing the relationship. Effectively, when you fear to lose the relationship, insecurity slips in - this is a repeat chain reaction. However, there is no such thing as a 100% security because the man and the relationship are mutually exclusive. (Man produce insecurity vibes to woman and trigger natures reaction - investment theory)
  
  P.S: Usually, Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo's appetite for security is great. (I am saying all rounded security: Be it emotional, financial, etc.)
  
  Cheers
• Ogbunwezeh

  4 Sep 04, 02:13

  Originally posted by amuletgurl:

  well,i do not wish to tell him to do that,if he naturally wants to keep track wif me,i will feel secured

  But in the long run, u can tahan this type of guyz ah?? U like to feel secured by someone tat dun feel secure
• spirit24

  6 Sep 04, 10:05

  I personally feel that a guy should always show concern for the girl. Ensure that she gets home safely always even if u dun send her back home personally. Make her feel cherished, loved and secure with you by giving or doing small things (like buying her a small gift etc.) for her to surprise her and make her feel happy. Be always ready to listen to her problems, console her and tell her that you love her always. Be very patient towards her also.
  
  This is just my pespective from a girl's view. Hope it helped.