Losing the will to live on
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Sigh...
I'm currently a poly student, aged 18, already in the 1st semester of my third year.
Feeling hellishly stressed up this semester, cos I've took 1 elective and 1 personal development subject more than the rest of the people. Also, I'm group leader to 2 project groups out of 3. Finally, I'm doing my Final Year Project this semester.
It appears that quite a number of ppl have almost completed their FYP project. We are now left wif abt 2 weeks but my group haven't half completed it yet. Somemore, i'm pretty much depended upon for e other 2 groups tt i'm leading.
Now i couldn't concentrate at all, cos' there's too many things at hand. Since i'm doing programming, there's a number of issues that i've no idea how to work on it, but i've no 1 whom i can approach for help.
Already for 6 years till now, I've been a typical "good" boy, going home right after school. And, i'm e only child. Perhaps tt's e main reason for my very small social circle. So tt means tt i've no source to vent my feelings but here (when i discovered SGForums only abt 2-3 mths ago).
Since i'm been pretty stressed most of the time when i'm working on assignments, and pretty alone when i'm nt, i'm feeling a pressure surmounting on me. I'm feeling like i can't take it anymore. Only a few years ago when i've decided to read up some books on psychology, I've diagnosed myself to be suffering frm depression at the same time. But then again, i'm a guy and i'm suppose to bear everything.
Any solutions to tis deadlock? If not, guess the best way to help mi for now is to help mi for 1 of my projects. Nid some urgent surveys. Read tis thread anyway: http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=91593
Sorry for the convenient cross-linking. Juz trying to kill 2 birds wif 1 stone. -
You have not started work yet. There are more stress to come.
No matter how difficult, I believe school days are still the best time of one's life. -
Dun be stress. You see paperchicken so happy everyday one. You are welcome to drop by Paper Art House any time to drink coffee.
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You need to find ways to entertain yourself when you are not studying. Pickup something you are interested in.
I can tell you now... life only gets tougher after studies. Perhaps you can describe programming problem in the programming forum section to get some help on that also. -
Do your best. Accept whatever the result maybe. High expectation is one of the main causes of depression. Concentrate on the work rather than worrying about the result.
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Always be happy go lucky.
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When u feel stressed, take a deep breath n relax.
If not, come over here to Sgforums to vent ur frustation.. I m sure most of the forumers here would be willing to hear ur frustations. -
Help egotist reduce stress by completing his survey form.
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I really hate to say this, but if you think you're stressed now, just wait till you start to work for a living. In the meantime, try to take it easy.
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Do the most impt things first. Drop those extra modules if u cannot cope.
Delegate the work to other members, make sure each do something eg one do tabulation of survey results, 1 do written report, 1 do research etc.
U co-ordinate & put it together. Chase yr members & remind them to do their part. The trick is to get people to work for u. Motivate/ praise them.
Don't get too stressed & expect perfect work. Remember even if u don't do well in project work/exams, it is not the end of the world. -
in retrospect, school days are definitely the best.Originally posted by Jason Bourne:You have not started work yet. There are more stress to come.
No matter how difficult, I believe school days are still the best time of one's life. -
Me looking forward to working life - freedom and independence.
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School better. So many available Zha Bo around. Work place only got Lao Zha Bo, so sian.Originally posted by paperchicken:Me looking forward to working life - freedom and independence. -
Originally posted by Qitai:School better. So many available Zha Bo around. Work place only got Lao Zha Bo, so sian.
Join SDU or go NIE. -
where you working at? how come only lao zha bo??Originally posted by Qitai:School better. So many available Zha Bo around. Work place only got Lao Zha Bo, so sian. -
Old folks home.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:where you working at? how come only lao zha bo?? -
No need. Got GF liao. But I still need motivation at workOriginally posted by paperchicken: Join SDU or go NIE. -
Last job at SIA HQ.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:where you working at? how come only lao zha bo??
Now work at home - lao zha bo also don't have liao (Except my mum
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What you working as ? Housing agent ? IT line ?Originally posted by Qitai:Last job at SIA HQ.
Now work at home - lao zha bo also don't have liao (Except my mum )
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Freedom and independence ???Originally posted by paperchicken:Me looking forward to working life - freedom and independence.
When you start having a mortgage, loans, credit card bills and other obligations, then you know it's better to be a carefree student. -
If you anyhow spent money you will always be a slave of money.Originally posted by Jason Bourne:Freedom and independence ???
When you start having a mortgage, loans, credit card bills and other obligations, then you know it's better to be a carefree student. -
Secret AgentOriginally posted by paperchicken:What you working as ? Housing agent ? IT line ?
Don't want to tell - good lobang must keep to myself -
work at home good leh.. no need to spend money on transport and food. Also no need to wake up early and squeeze in the bus/train. And no need to wear nice nice!Originally posted by Qitai:Last job at SIA HQ.
Now work at home - lao zha bo also don't have liao (Except my mum ) -
No good lah no chio bu to see.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:work at home good leh.. no need to spend money on transport and food. Also no need to wake up early and squeeze in the bus/train. And no need to wear nice nice! -
drop those extra subjects la, den learn to push work to other people if you can't take it. if all cannot, den learn to relax, you can't be seriously depressive de, maybe slight but its still normal because you noe wus going on, you're just repeatively painting a darker picture den reality and you are probably worrying the same things over.Originally posted by egotist:Sigh...
I'm currently a poly student, aged 18, already in the 1st semester of my third year.
Feeling hellishly stressed up this semester, cos I've took 1 elective and 1 personal development subject more than the rest of the people. Also, I'm group leader to 2 project groups out of 3. Finally, I'm doing my Final Year Project this semester.
It appears that quite a number of ppl have almost completed their FYP project. We are now left wif abt 2 weeks but my group haven't half completed it yet. Somemore, i'm pretty much depended upon for e other 2 groups tt i'm leading.
Now i couldn't concentrate at all, cos' there's too many things at hand. Since i'm doing programming, there's a number of issues that i've no idea how to work on it, but i've no 1 whom i can approach for help.
Already for 6 years till now, I've been a typical "good" boy, going home right after school. And, i'm e only child. Perhaps tt's e main reason for my very small social circle. So tt means tt i've no source to vent my feelings but here (when i discovered SGForums only abt 2-3 mths ago).
Since i'm been pretty stressed most of the time when i'm working on assignments, and pretty alone when i'm nt, i'm feeling a pressure surmounting on me. I'm feeling like i can't take it anymore. Only a few years ago when i've decided to read up some books on psychology, I've diagnosed myself to be suffering frm depression at the same time. But then again, i'm a guy and i'm suppose to bear everything.
Any solutions to tis deadlock? If not, guess the best way to help mi for now is to help mi for 1 of my projects. Nid some urgent surveys. Read tis thread anyway: http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=91593
Sorry for the convenient cross-linking. Juz trying to kill 2 birds wif 1 stone.
the solution is to organized yourself, make a to-do list and screw the rest. juz follow the list and dun think any thing more about it. heck care if you're a guy, it doesn't matter, noone is supposed to bear everything.