Is theresuch a thing as perfect love?
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I really love my dear a lot.. Is there supposed to be a really good feeling when someone says she loves u or not...
Cuz she now say she v confused cuz she noes she likes me but cannot confirm if she loves me. I mean it can also be a friend kind of love tat she feels for me. den maybe its juz that she wants to feel secure and likes somebody to talk to only.
According to her will feel something in the heart when i tell she tat i love her.. which she says she don feel. Will these things slowly develop or does this mean that our liking for ieach other is actually unreal. Also when she looks at other cute guys does it mean tat she does not love me or is itjust natural.
Help me can?? Really wnt to find out if we really love each other -
yes, if u believe in it..........
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no, its an illusion.
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huh... can give more profound answers a not?
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mine not philosophical enuf???Originally posted by watdoido:huh... can give more profound answers a not? -
hees... sori not mean profound but can be more elaborate
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are u speaking english?Originally posted by watdoido:hees... sori not mean profound but can be more elaborate Thx -
defination of perfect love varies from person to person.
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wat i mean is issit still ok tat she likes me but juz not sure if its love or not
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Nothing is perfect in this world... Believe it or not...
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STOP DREAMING...Originally posted by watdoido:I really love my dear a lot.. Is there supposed to be a really good feeling when someone says she loves u or not...
Cuz she now say she v confused cuz she noes she likes me but cannot confirm if she loves me. I mean it can also be a friend kind of love tat she feels for me. den maybe its juz that she wants to feel secure and likes somebody to talk to only.
According to her will feel something in the heart when i tell she tat i love her.. which she says she don feel. Will these things slowly develop or does this mean that our liking for ieach other is actually unreal. Also when she looks at other cute guys does it mean tat she does not love me or is itjust natural.
Help me can?? Really wnt to find out if we really love each other -
Perfect love?? BUT There's True Love...Originally posted by watdoido:I really love my dear a lot.. Is there supposed to be a really good feeling when someone says she loves u or not...
Cuz she now say she v confused cuz she noes she likes me but cannot confirm if she loves me. I mean it can also be a friend kind of love tat she feels for me. den maybe its juz that she wants to feel secure and likes somebody to talk to only.
According to her will feel something in the heart when i tell she tat i love her.. which she says she don feel. Will these things slowly develop or does this mean that our liking for ieach other is actually unreal. Also when she looks at other cute guys does it mean tat she does not love me or is itjust natural.
Help me can?? Really wnt to find out if we really love each other
To love or to like.. is the same.. is jus how ppl define the meaning of it.. Of cos is a good feeling that when someone you loved said "I Love you" but again.. mean it when you say.. and oso.. not too many of a times..
How long have you been together?? You seems rather young to me.. She might be uncertain of this r/s.. Don't think she feel secure too.. when she's with you.. if not if one person is satisfied.. i dun find any reasons that she would say she's confused.. or contradict herself in this r/s..
Loving someone doesn't mean you have to have her.. If you both really aint suitable for each other.. then why not learn to let go.. maybe both will be much happier.. Looking at cute guys doesn't imply that she dun love you.. This is a very very naive thinking.. How can you deduce a person whether she loves you anot by this way?? Oh! Does it mean when you look at girls.. you dun love her?? Silly!! You really need to learn alot..
To know whether both really love each other.. that's no teaching to it i guess.. this might be a test for both of you.. see whether you do know how to overcome such problems... dun let her feel that with or without you around.. it doesn't matter.. learn to open to each other and talk.. COmmunication is important in any r/s..
Cheers..
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aiyo, does it matter?
is there really a need to draw such a clear line between like and love?
most importantly is that both of you enjoy each other's company, isnt that the ultimate objective?
assumnig that u guys really know the technical definition and degree of bond with "love" and "like", whichever it is. does being in one situation less prone to seperation as compared to another?
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it is if you both think and feel it is
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well... nuthing is perfect...
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Originally posted by watdoido:
come to think of it,how can u ask us that???u ask urself how u both feel abt it
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Maybe she will be sure when u show her u r sureOriginally posted by watdoido:I really love my dear a lot.. Is there supposed to be a really good feeling when someone says she loves u or not...
Cuz she now say she v confused cuz she noes she likes me but cannot confirm if she loves me. I mean it can also be a friend kind of love tat she feels for me. den maybe its juz that she wants to feel secure and likes somebody to talk to only.
According to her will feel something in the heart when i tell she tat i love her.. which she says she don feel. Will these things slowly develop or does this mean that our liking for ieach other is actually unreal. Also when she looks at other cute guys does it mean tat she does not love me or is itjust natural.
Help me can?? Really wnt to find out if we really love each other
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ultimate test for love versus like...
if you both are in a relationship for a while. suddenly there is a change. example, you have an addiction/cheated on her. what would she do next?
1. leaves you - she thinks she deserves better and not anymore time on you. she is not going to forgive you because you did her wrong.
2. stays on - believes that both your love, coupled with determination will make things right in the end.
comment - there is a BIG difference here because it determines the fate of relationships.
alot of people marry and divorce for the same reason they cannot differentiate like and love. the moment some thing happens, everything falls apart.
the best thing you can do for now is to wait and see what happens. as the saying goes "time will tell". let this relationship be put to test.
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Perfect love ???
If despite of all your flaws, he/she still loves you no matter what ... then isn't it perfect enough ??? -
She feeling tis way cuz she has been hurt in her other rel... yeah both physically n mentally. So her trust in guys in v low. She has the mentality tat love muz be perfect and juz why will feel confused. I really don noe how to let her noe that there's no need to torture herselfOriginally posted by SunRisE:How long have you been together?? You seems rather young to me.. She might be uncertain of this r/s.. Don't think she feel secure too.. when she's with you.. if not if one person is satisfied.. i dun find any reasons that she would say she's confused.. or contradict herself in this r/s.. -
Originally posted by watdoido:I really love my dear a lot.. Is there supposed to be a really good feeling when someone says she loves u or not...
Cuz she now say she v confused cuz she noes she likes me but cannot confirm if she loves me. I mean it can also be a friend kind of love tat she feels for me. den maybe its juz that she wants to feel secure and likes somebody to talk to only.
According to her will feel something in the heart when i tell she tat i love her.. which she says she don feel. Will these things slowly develop or does this mean that our liking for ieach other is actually unreal. Also when she looks at other cute guys does it mean tat she does not love me or is itjust natural.
Help me can?? Really wnt to find out if we really love each other
The perfect love?
A perfect love is when you can love your imperfect partner perfectly.
There is not way she can expect a relationship without hurt as a basis of a perfect love. With love; comes intimacy; comes emotional closeness; come friction; come reality. If she is not willing to be ease with you and herself emotionally, there is no way love could enter completely and mould her. Fear is one factor that hinders people from having fulfilling relationship.
Like? Love? Why does the confusion comes in NOW? Shouldn't it be solved before a relationship is born? This question your situations before you two got together and whether the risk/doubt/etc at the point of time is brewing now. Unless you are telling me that you have led a relationship for quite some time and she felt routine and dead. Then it would be for love or duty scenario.
What kind of help do you need from US to let you understand if you two loved each other? It makes zero sense.
P.S: Maybe you can explain MORE about your situations from day zero of your relationship, how you met, become together, past crisis, etc? I believe it will help you to understand better.
Cheers -
There is no true or perfect love in this era. Wake up from ur dream n blindness of love, face the real world.
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perfection?
nah.. won't happen.. but there is nothing on God's Earth that can stop us from trying!
and in that trying, we strive towards it... mayhap something wonderful may result? for something short of perfection, is still beautiful.. and what is more beautiful than love?
as for your girl, maybe she's confused.. and she'll need some soul-searching to find that answer...
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Maybe, initially it's 'like' and as time goes by, become 'accidental love'?
Or. you started with 'love' all along, but she treat it as 'like'.
Now, she's confuse and have to decide..