Married Man wif 3 kids & Loyal Wife
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What's wrong wif married men nowadays? Why are they still hanging on wif married young woman or single young woman?!! THey got 3 kids and one loyal wife, one car and one motorbike, and one house and enough money in life, so why these married guys still hunt for other woman don't care whether they married or single?? Why? is it LUST and they need companion? They must have problems at home wif their wives who's neglecting their husbands, I must say.... I am referring to my fren so called friend who is married and still he loves to fling around wif other ladies or girls... why Aunt Agony whyare they doing this? 
His wife doens't know that he's been playing around behind her back, and the wife don't even bother to ask him about his movement etc. She trusted him alot but he took it for granted !.. what say you guys? how to stop him from doing this?
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They may be looking for some excitement to enrich their life.Originally posted by mimi71: What's wrong wif married men nowadays? Why are they still hanging on wif married young woman or single young woman?!! THey got 3 kids and one loyal wife, one car and one motorbike, and one house and enough money in life, so why these married guys still hunt for other woman don't care whether they married or single?? Why? is it LUST and they need companion? They must have problems at home wif their wives who's neglecting their husbands, I must say.... I am referring to my fren so called friend who is married and still he loves to fling around wif other ladies or girls... why Aunt Agony whyare they doing this?
His wife doens't know that he's been playing around behind her back, and the wife don't even bother to ask him about his movement etc. She trusted him alot but he took it for granted !.. what say you guys? how to stop him from doing this?
But they don't know what it may do to their marriage.
U can inform his wife or just keep to yrself.
Outsider can hardly help in family problems. -
there will be those who take their marriage vows lightly...
alas...
we cannot do anything for them for it is their own lives they want to ruin
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U can't stop him.
I had a former happily married colleague who always go after the girls (married or single).
It takes 2 hands to clap.
Some of the girls willingly do it knowing the guy is married.
Just wait for his wife to find out -
How to inform his wife coz he knows my number?... Or I just sms her via internet is dat a good way? If I arrange to see her that means she wil know that i'm trying to ruin her married life right? And she will remember me for good right? Any tipss here... 
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What I can say is that sometimes the wife is devoted and tired from looking after the house and kids, and guys being guys start to itch below. The woman being tired just wants to sleep so the passionate side of the relationship starts to die off and the guy strays.
Seen too many of this scenarios. Of course, this applies to the woman too when her husband keeps on working and she gets bored and gets a lover outside.
The thing is that in cases like these, though wrong, usually the guy/woman have no intentions of leaving their partner its just that they feel that no harm is done if they are not caught. The consequences are often never thought of when it comes to pleasures of the flesh.
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sadly in a marriage, this person is not only ruining his own life, but the other person's.Originally posted by the Bear:there will be those who take their marriage vows lightly...
alas...
we cannot do anything for them for it is their own lives they want to ruin
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guys are like tt one lah....lan lan wan....must try to accept it.
as the saying goes, a leopard will never change its spot.
its just so true for guys.... -
Ofcoz da wife can't do anytg coz she has chosen to marry him in the first place so she gotto accept him the way he is no matter what Poor wife and the 3 kids, he's doing this and I guess he's not a good husband but worst than an animal. -
that sucks. why are men so like that now. sighOriginally posted by mimi71: What's wrong wif married men nowadays? Why are they still hanging on wif married young woman or single young woman?!! THey got 3 kids and one loyal wife, one car and one motorbike, and one house and enough money in life, so why these married guys still hunt for other woman don't care whether they married or single?? Why? is it LUST and they need companion? They must have problems at home wif their wives who's neglecting their husbands, I must say.... I am referring to my fren so called friend who is married and still he loves to fling around wif other ladies or girls... why Aunt Agony whyare they doing this?
His wife doens't know that he's been playing around behind her back, and the wife don't even bother to ask him about his movement etc. She trusted him alot but he took it for granted !.. what say you guys? how to stop him from doing this? -
dats not me for sure, relationships r so troublesome, 1 is enough. period.
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don't tar all with the same brush yah?
there are those who are loyal and loving... and they get taken advantage of by mean women too...
this is by no means a male-only thing..Originally posted by sgFish:that sucks. why are men so like that now. sigh -
Originally posted by mimi71: What's wrong wif married men nowadays? Why are they still hanging on wif married young woman or single young woman?!! THey got 3 kids and one loyal wife, one car and one motorbike, and one house and enough money in life, so why these married guys still hunt for other woman don't care whether they married or single?? Why? is it LUST and they need companion? They must have problems at home wif their wives who's neglecting their husbands, I must say.... I am referring to my fren so called friend who is married and still he loves to fling around wif other ladies or girls... why Aunt Agony whyare they doing this?
His wife doens't know that he's been playing around behind her back, and the wife don't even bother to ask him about his movement etc. She trusted him alot but he took it for granted !.. what say you guys? how to stop him from doing this?
There are countless of reason why married man still wanna tackle young lady. Excitement, evidence of charm and thousands of other possibilities could strike anyone, not neccessary man.
In relationship, there are no existence of equality in treatment and reaction. what's good may not be returned with good and such is reality of love. Challenges are given to build people stronger and sometimes, a couple's marriage is born of karmic foundation. It can be difficult, but when you looked back, she married a man SHE CHOSE to and not being forced with a knife to her throat.
The personality and kind of character is vital on what to expect in a marriage. Alot of woman got married because THEY think a marriage can change a man - this is how influential your karmic bonds will delude you into thinking. Or even a good wife, good kids can change a personality of a man. Studies has shown that it rarely happen without some form of critical phrase taking place within the marriage, often ending in divorce as a result. Of course, those who survived rarely recover completely. Some are emotionally crippled for life.
Marriage is merely a piece of paper - it's the reason for marriage that makes a marriage workable. Some people found the reason while being married - of course, it wouldn't be without any valuable cost.
Cheers -
He that loveth pleasure shall be a poor man. --Prov. xxi. 17.
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SO If you want to marry OR Choose the right man make sure choose those with :
1 same interest
2 same hobby
3 same like and dislikes eg. sports etc.
4 same thinking and mind
5 ALL THE SAME !
6 with all the same thing, 100% happy life !
Don't just choose them just because they're good-looking and tall and financially stable and brainy, they must also have all the above recipies.
I've spoken to his wife before she said his husband's goodlooking, but she doesn't know that he's playing behind her back all this while, a goodlooking husband doesn't really mean that he's good at all, I really pity her and I think now and then she's trying to hide her feelings and keep herself busy with her MLM(multilevelmarketing) work, as a woman who wants a husband behaving that way behind our back? IF I'm in her shoe, I'd have installed a spy camera in his car and in his office or employ a PI to trace him down, that's me all right.
There was one night, my group of friends went for dinner and he was there, he suddenly showed me a girl smsed him vulgar words like "you're F...king now wif other woman is it?" From then onwards, I realised that I cannot trust him more as a friend, just a casual friend and I never wana talk to him again, I was scared...you seee.... I'm just scared ... -
Precisely! they've got everything and not much else to chase for in life... that's why they gonna have new excitment...Originally posted by mimi71: THey got 3 kids and one loyal wife, one car and one motorbike, and one house and enough money in life -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
I agree with the above statement in red. Some women think that love/marriage can change a man, hence they will plunge into any relationship in the hopes that their love for the man will be enough to evoke a 360 degree turnaround in the man's (bad) habits and behaviour. There are countless of reason why married man still wanna tackle young lady. Excitement, evidence of charm and thousands of other possibilities could strike anyone, not neccessary man.
In relationship, there are no existence of equality in treatment and reaction. [b]what's good may not be returned with good and such is reality of love. Challenges are given to build people stronger and sometimes, a couple's marriage is born of karmic foundation. It can be difficult, but when you looked back, she married a man SHE CHOSE to and not being forced with a knife to her throat.
The personality and kind of character is vital on what to expect in a marriage. Alot of woman got married because THEY think a marriage can change a man - this is how influential your karmic bonds will delude you into thinking. Or even a good wife, good kids can change a personality of a man. Studies has shown that it rarely happen without some form of critical phrase taking place within the marriage, often ending in divorce as a result. Of course, those who survived rarely recover completely. Some are emotionally crippled for life.
Marriage is merely a piece of paper - it's the reason for marriage that makes a marriage workable. Some people found the reason while being married - of course, it wouldn't be without any valuable cost.
Cheers [/b]
I would think that some marriages fail because of unrealistic expectations of each other. Women think they can change their men after marriage, while men hope their women don't change after marriage. -
Poor Loyal wife and the 3 innocent kids...if they found out about their dad's behaving this way, they're really into a big mess...the world is turning upsidedown
Pity them I avoid them, just observe from far sometimes I wonder why this thing happening in life, so miserable life if they want it to be. I've reminded him but what's the use he's not listening to a friend like me, so I think he's matured enough to think and he's already 40++ really. As a friend I care for him but it seems that he don't care for me...what a friend !
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As a friend, you should accept him as he is.. or else..
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Originally posted by Magnus:As a friend, you should accept him as he is.. or else.. Accepting him as a friend is another thing, trust him as a friend
is another story, so it's better to stay away frm him if they
refuse to listen to us, then what's the point of having a friend
in the first place? He needs a companion or a shoulder to cry on?
"Well it's better to be safe then sorry, take precaution"... as they always say. (sigh) Pity pity -
OK. understand what u mean. Especially if u are a lady.
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Originally posted by Magnus:OK. understand what u mean. Especially if u are a lady. For a lady, she must avoid him or take precaution after knowing him that he loves to fling around with married/single women, but for a man they just need to tell or talk to him nicely and remind him of doing good things etc. something good or spend sometime with his family rather than spending times outside...
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Sometime is the women fault, if the women know tat tat guy has a family den the best way is to leave him.
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Those who commit adultery will NOT go to heaven, simple as that, whatever religion you belong to.