Married Man wif 3 kids & Loyal Wife
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No guy.. and I mean no guy. Even Ned Flaunders can be totally loyal.
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Yes sometime it's either the women or the men, it depends and sometime their own best friends don't even want to help them at all, they just ignore or simply don't want to interfere and let this thing flow just like that as if nothing happen, what's wrong is wrong, they are mature enough to know and compare that, everybody has their own strong religion and they should know that too but people always take things for granted and enjoy what they're doing right nowOriginally posted by Ogbunwezeh:Sometime is the women fault, if the women know tat tat guy has a family den the best way is to leave him.
Even if they're 40++, sorry to say this but it's true, am worried for him because he's been doing this so long and the sad thing is that his desire for sex I guess is strong, I don't know what's wrong with him, I guess he needs family counselling now and then, it couldn't be that he's having "menses or menopause"?
at this time..
Sometime when I look at him at a glance or far, it reminds me of his kids and family, I pity his wife... what's wrong here why can't she do anything to sort things out, she's good in compromising-communicating and all, she's talented, she's brilliant, she's a mother of his kids, she's everything in what a man's want in life, but when it comes to her problems I guess she's just hiding them all inside her heart, it's killing her softly and slowly. She's not the only one having this problem in this world I know, there are others as well suffering in silence. What's the use of getting married in the first place? Wasting time and money and effort, now our people just got scared of getting married and more and more people prefer to enjoy and look for a better career rather than settling down
some others got divorced or go separated ways after 15 years or more of married life which is true : (
I care for him, as a friend I really care but he's taking things for granted, I guess he misses his father's touch and love, I am sure and that's why now he's been misbehaving to any women out there.
I am married and I am scared of him but he's my friend too, sometime I feel like it's better not to see him at all, it's better that he's not there at all, it's so stressful when he's around acting weird and act young infront of others especially women, he's so "plastic".
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Some guys have flings to boost their ego- to prove that they are still attractive, some may do so cos of some marital problems. The good ones don't do it cos they love their kids & wives.
No point trying to counsel or change him. I'll try & keep my distance if I were u cos he might try on u! -
Originally posted by gerrykoh:Some guys have flings to boost their ego- to prove that they are still attractive, some may do so cos of some marital problems. The good ones don't do it cos they love their kids & wives.
No point trying to counsel or change him. I'll try & keep my distance if I were u cos he might try on u!
I saw him there but I don't bother to say "hi" to him coz he don't bother to look or smile at me anymore as if i'm invisible so just be it, all his friends were not willing to help him or say a goodword to him, they're all just disappear don't want to get involve or interfere wif his marital problems I can see that.
He loves to ask alot about other people's family matter or other married people's secret affairs, but when we try to ask him back he simply take cover or hide it or change the subject, what a nosy idiot guy Now, he acted as if he's so goody-goody type walking around like he's innocent but in the actual fact all the staff in his workplace already knows about his secret affairs and it's already too late. 
Everytime when his friend/colleague saw him wif young girls, I noticed one thing he always try to take cover by telling them that all the young girls he went out wif for lunch/dinner were his relatives, what a sicko man he is... he cannot hide even if he tell lies... people got eyes to see, ears to listen and the walls can talk too
Yes,
I strongly agree wif you I'll try and keep a distance from him, well he might try on some other ladies as well if he can't get me for "sex-flesh pleasure" I must say. And I'm also trying to avoid his friend who is also just one year married acting weird-busybody and behaving just like him, exactly like him asking me this and that wahhh... in the end my other friend scolded him off "don't ask where we're going, you ask so much!!" why are there some guys, some nosy guys alive in this world???? behaving worst than a lady?? 