Originally posted by red_tide24:You wont even be posting here if you dun wanna do anything to break them up... why would it be a bad thing that she is happy wif her current bf? Its bad only for you...
But the bad thing is....... she is attached liao...she got a steady bf for 2 yrs and i tink dey are still going strong..so i dun tink i stand any chance at all la.. plus i dun wan to be a b.a.s.t.a.r.d to break dem up loh..wat shld i do?
Originally posted by Kismet:he is in a dilemma cos he wants her but dun wanna appear to be the 3rd party, the bad guy...
Eh, but as they say all is fair in love and war ...
I think that as long as she is not engaged or married, there is always that possibility.
However, I am [b]not advocating that you deliberately go and break them up.
Be a good friend to that girl first. Let nature take its course.
If the two of you are meant for each other, the mysteries of love will work itself out ...[/b]
A few solutions :Originally posted by Axelheat755:he is in a dilemma cos he wants her but dun wanna appear to be the 3rd party, the bad guy...![]()
yea..dat's wat i'm trying to say in this thread.. actually i dunno how she feel towards me..and i haben declared my love yet, but the way she toks to me and how she behaves when we are together in class is somehow quite intimate.. despite she having a bf loh.. dere's why it give me a little bit of false hope..Originally posted by Axelheat755:he is in a dilemma cos he wants her but dun wanna appear to be the 3rd party, the bad guy...![]()
yar loh... dun tell her... if u tell her, she will b swayed... n den it will affect her feelins for her bf... dun b a destroyer... b good frenz to her... so u still can b e funniest ppl in e world... this girl sure noes how to boost a guy's ego... haaa....Originally posted by Souledge:I guess you just have to wait... and see how things go... i mean my advice is just be there for her... and take things as it is now... and IF they really broke up then i guess you stand a chance else just WAIT and WAIT loh.... at the mean time you can look around.... never never declare that you like her..... if you do that you then is a basXXXX
got bf so what??? even if she got husband also can jio one lah... important thing is she like u and u like her.......and not u bhb one sided love lah..... just tell her lor.. or hint to her lah... see what her choice lah...Originally posted by red_tide24:hmm.. i tink i hv begun to fall for a girl in my class..well..school actually juz started..and right on the 1st day of sch.. me n her hit off v well..both of us have a lot to talk about maybe because she used to be my junior in JC..(we nvr see each other b4 this) juz dat now in uni we are in the same tutorial grp.. she is a very funny girl.. always crap with me and whenever i say anything lame she will giggle n giggle.. toking to her make me feel dat i'm the funniest person in the world..=) forgot to mention she is v pretty also.. we two are getting closer day by day and now my class is gossiping about me n her..she seems unaffected leh and din avoid me despite those gossips..
But the bad thing is....... she is attached liao...she got a steady bf for 2 yrs and i tink dey are still going strong..so i dun tink i stand any chance at all la.. plus i dun wan to be a b.a.s.t.a.r.d to break dem up loh..wat shld i do?
cool down cool downOriginally posted by I-like-flings(m):got bf so what??? even if she got husband also can jio one lah... important thing is she like u and u like her.......and not u bhb one sided love lah..... just tell her lor.. or hint to her lah... see what her choice lah...
p.s 2yrs bf so what... i lost both my ex too Bastard like u.![]()
...so u are no alone lah...
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oii! knn...i'm not a bastard la..i haben done anything yet loh..at least not now la..Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):got bf so what??? even if she got husband also can jio one lah... important thing is she like u and u like her.......and not u bhb one sided love lah..... just tell her lor.. or hint to her lah... see what her choice lah...
p.s 2yrs bf so what... i lost both my ex too Bastard like u.![]()
...so u are no alone lah...
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same same lah.... so if u cannot change them ... join them lor... hahahaha..... that's why i like to flings with gals with bf now..Originally posted by red_tide24:oii! knn...i'm not a bastard la..i haben done anything yet loh..at least not now la..me too wat.. i lost my ex to bastards also..tink many guys keep declaring to her when we tog.. den she become distracted.. partly of my fault also.. in the end she left me..
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Be a friend... ENJOY...Originally posted by red_tide24:hmm.. i tink i hv begun to fall for a girl in my class..well..school actually juz started..and right on the 1st day of sch.. me n her hit off v well..both of us have a lot to talk about maybe because she used to be my junior in JC..(we nvr see each other b4 this) juz dat now in uni we are in the same tutorial grp.. she is a very funny girl.. always crap with me and whenever i say anything lame she will giggle n giggle.. toking to her make me feel dat i'm the funniest person in the world..=) forgot to mention she is v pretty also.. we two are getting closer day by day and now my class is gossiping about me n her..she seems unaffected leh and din avoid me despite those gossips..
But the bad thing is....... she is attached liao...she got a steady bf for 2 yrs and i tink dey are still going strong..so i dun tink i stand any chance at all la.. plus i dun wan to be a b.a.s.t.a.r.d to break dem up loh..wat shld i do?
yeahx..don'tOriginally posted by Enilec:yar loh... dun tell her... if u tell her, she will b swayed... n den it will affect her feelins for her bf... dun b a destroyer... b good frenz to her... so u still can b e funniest ppl in e world... this girl sure noes how to boost a guy's ego... haaa....![]()
she doesn't need enough reason.. any small thing is enough for her to walk out on u.. i wonder how secured tat THIRD guy would b if e gal juz walked out of her bf & into his seductive arms with bare minimal emotions (for her bf) after she's tempted.. cross ur fingers for him if u r merciful..Originally posted by o(O.o)o:yeahx..don'tthe bf will kinda be stoned i guess. frozen mind.something like i am right now..cuz sum dude hinted to my girl tt he kinda liked her.that, in addition to failing grades, gave her enough reason to leave me.DON'T BE THE BUS-THIRD