Women in their 1st love, loved their lovers, in all others..
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:This illusionary avatar spawn from their experience and technically speaking, you can never dispel them... You can't dispel your experience... Depending on how it affects his/her love life, one has to alter according to reality, if he/she wants to be contented.
since it's hard to dispel, how shall we alter without triggering the bad memories that have been pushed to the sub-conscious? sometimes, the state of contentment is more deluding... 
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DEEP.
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yes, yun you're the man!!
actually, very few statements made by forumites here can make me ponder for so long.
and i'm still sitting on this profound statement.
food for thought indeed!
good stuff yun!
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yea... deeeeep... words can only capture so much of reality...Originally posted by Fuqua:DEEP. Some things u just have to experience urself to understand.
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Originally posted by sleepycat: since it's hard to dispel, how shall we alter without triggering the bad memories that have been pushed to the sub-conscious? sometimes, the state of contentment is more deluding...
I believe that you are trying to forget someone.
In fact, whenever we try to forget consciously, the more memories clings like some kind of a ropes, ensnaring us and it seemed that we will never be able to move along in life prior before the relationship ever took place. We have grown to certain extend that our old environment seemed unfamiliar, yet we have no choice but to adapt to our new lifestyle. Its impossible to retrace our route - we can only walk forth.
Remember our uneasy we tried walking with our new school shoes back in primary school? Only gradually did we feel comfortable and soon, we have grown so used to it, even after when its torn and dirty? Not until mummy nags terribly before we would get a new shoes?
P.S: Learn not to forget but to get used. Like always, time is an element that allows you to get used. BTW: Being content is a good thing - even if he is delusion. Being simple can eliminate a whole lot of dissapointment. (Xi guan chen zi ran)
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Chey, alot of people always complain my post damn long winded lor.Originally posted by jOhO:yes, yun you're the man!!
actually, very few statements made by forumites here can make me ponder for so long.
and i'm still sitting on this profound statement.
food for thought indeed!
good stuff yun! 
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damn long-winded then tell them don't read lar! at least it's heartfelt and u're trying to help. u notice i give up liow hahaahha..Originally posted by Yunhaier:Chey, alot of people always complain my post damn long winded lor.
Cheers
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They complain to me whether can summary anot. HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAA!Originally posted by jOhO:damn long-winded then tell them don't read lar! at least it's heartfelt and u're trying to help. u notice i give up liow hahaahha.. 
P.S: Chey, your main role is forum photographer mah.
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
I believe that you are trying to forget someone. Yes I am.. since, this is taking a more personal slant now.. i had studied and even made a topic out of it!
P.S: Learn not to forget but to get used. Gradually, I don't think about his goodness too often over the last few days... an act of forgetting? I don't turn on his song for me & set myelf to get used to listening without him, that's real strange..... i'll just try not to remember to play the song till all those emotions that are associated with the song fade away with time.. juz a thought anyway
BTW: Being content is a good thing - even if he is delusion. deluding contentment doesn't guarantee peace & happiness for too long, soon one wakes up and rants about self-deceit before descending & spirals into another cycle in search for fulfillment..
Enjoying this discussion & thanks for your sincere thoughts exchanged! Cheers too! -
eheh yeah man no time for much else really.Originally posted by Yunhaier:They complain to me whether can summary anot. HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAA!
P.S: Chey, your main role is forum photographer mah.
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Originally posted by sleepycat:Enjoying this discussion & thanks for your sincere thoughts exchanged!
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Devils are OFTEN creatures FAR from being simple-minded... Angels on the other hand should be... To be good and angelic needs more effort? Maybe? Depends on how you see it..? It's usually the SIMPLICITY in life which makes it boring... And hence difficult to keep maintain on a long run basis....Originally posted by sleepycat:hmmmm.. u dun like things simple or chaos juz fascinates u..? then again, u don't call yourself devil for no reason.. but i think devils are actually very simple-minded. to b good & angelic needs alot more effort..? -
Originally posted by sleepycat:
Means gers love their 1st love
"Women in their first love, loved their lovers. In all others, they loved love."
in the later relationships
they love the notion of love... -
I agree to Yun's effort...Originally posted by jOhO:damn long-winded then tell them don't read lar! at least it's heartfelt and u're trying to help. u notice i give up liow hahaahha.. 
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REALLY?Originally posted by Axelheat755:Means gers love their 1st love
in the later relationships
they love the notion of love... 
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Originally posted by Devil1976:Devils are OFTEN creatures FAR from being simple-minded... Angels on the other hand should be... To be good and angelic needs more effort? Maybe? Depends on how you see it..? It's usually the SIMPLICITY in life which makes it boring... And hence difficult to keep maintain on a long run basis.... to overcome human nature & strive to b angelic is far more challenging than yielding to one's earthly desires & be the devil's advocate.. think about it, it often raises more eyebrows when someone claims to be a saint in the room.. compared that to someone who may reveal himself as the devil's apprentice & folks in e room may be too used to such that there's no reason for much alarm cuz this ain't new.. we even have a devil's bar in town.. being part of the devil's company ain't rocket science no more..
in the long run, it's far simpler to say 'yes' to evil desires than to conjure up enough wisdom to resist.. i understand cuz i'm still confused abt how complicated being simple is... juz my 1-cent worth on a post post-modern world.. cheerS & chill.. -
Originally posted by Axelheat755:Means gers love their 1st love.. in the later relationships..they love the notion of love... without reason/logic, juz according to my gal's instinct... this is not far from the truth..
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generally i agree with wat yun says - very sensible and well thought out. however this is one qoute from yun that i don't agree 100% with. not all women or men love in the same manner. this idea might describe most pple but there are still minority who love their other halves for who they are - 1st, 2nd or 10000th.
Originally posted by sleepycat:
[b]"Women in their first love, loved their lovers. In all others, they loved love." A profound statement to me and it is made by another fellow forumite whom i grow to admire and who's very profound too..
What do you think? [/b] -
wat abt men? any qoutes and thoughts abt men and what love is to them?
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yea, second tis!Originally posted by the_don:wat abt men? any qoutes and thoughts abt men and what love is to them? any views on how men love? -
WAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA!Originally posted by the_don:generally i agree with wat yun says - very sensible and well thought out. however this is one qoute from yun that i don't agree 100% with. not all women or men love in the same manner. this idea might describe most pple but there are still minority who love their other halves for who they are - 1st, 2nd or 10000th.
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Originally posted by the_don:wat abt men? any qoutes and thoughts abt men and what love is to them? For man, I usually quote CloUdiSm under (Sha Si Bi Ya)'s quote (The one Jacky Wu famous phrase) :
'Don't try to understand a woman; learn to love her.
Don't try to love a man; learn to understand him.'
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Anyway, here's a cute one:
Man forgives woman anything save the wit to outwit him.
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Originally posted by sleepycat:
to overcome human nature & strive to b angelic is far more challenging than yielding to one's earthly desires & be the devil's advocate..
Earthly desires...? Sounds more for a human than a devil...? Earthly desires are but just a few of the many things a devil would pursue... Yielding to them..? NAY...
think about it, it often raises more eyebrows when someone claims to be a saint in the room..
Raising eyebrows are more of a human's intentions...
compared that to someone who may reveal himself as the devil's apprentice & folks in e room may be too used to such that there's no reason for much alarm cuz this ain't new.. we even have a devil's bar in town.. being part of the devil's company ain't rocket science no more..
Not into attentions...
in the long run, it's far simpler to say 'yes' to evil desires than to conjure up enough wisdom to resist..
I would probably agree with this...
i understand cuz i'm still confused abt how complicated being simple is... juz my 1-cent worth on a post post-modern world.. cheerS & chill..
Being SIMPLE... Can't be complicated... The complications are the ones revolving around the simplicity... The CONTRAST... Can you keep up to it...?
That's why it's more of a DEVIL'S WORLD TODAY... -
Originally posted by Devil1976:
Being SIMPLE... Can't be complicated... The complications are the ones revolving around the simplicity... The CONTRAST... Can you keep up to it...?
beri chim...can EXPLAIN anot? -
Originally posted by sleepycat:
Simple and complicated. 2 different things. So 'simple' can't be complicated as suggested by you earlier. Something simple. Cannot help the changes around it. The complications...
Originally posted by Devil1976:
[b]Being SIMPLE... Can't be complicated... The complications are the ones revolving around the simplicity... The CONTRAST... Can you keep up to it...?
beri chim...can EXPLAIN anot? [/b]
Have you ever tried meditation before? A simple mind... Empty.. Or simple thought... Focused? That's why when starting off with such, they would usually suggest you have a quiet environment... As you practise your mind... You'll understand 'contrast'... And the 'control' of it...
But in actual life... Can you really ignore the changes around you? You'll probably just die from selection...
Have you read of the recent world? The pace... The world... People going crazy... People elminated.... Can you keep up to it?
Humans are killing themselves... They're always asking what the hell has gone wrong with this world... Well... They've just created it.....