Once break up with gf, no longer frens ????
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Thanks.. I have moved on with my life... even if he comes back to me, I will not accept him anymore.... as the chinese saying goes, good horse don't eat old grass....
You are right... there's no point being frens with someone with no balls.... -
hehehe.... i usually don't contact my ex-es... because as a woman I know I'll be jealous no matter how little i show it if my bf's ex contacts him and be really good frens with him... so i try not to put my ex's gfs in that state by not contacting them.... they will get jealous too... and for all i know, they may give their man a harder time than i give mine.
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not everyone handle breakup the same way ..
some after breakup still can remain frends..
some will rather stay away from each other....
but I do agree with Yunhaier's anaylsis ...quite true for me...
it all boils down to individual....some like my ex avoid me like plague...siao!
haha...for me frends only mah...also not have feelings anymore...but like i say before..not everyone the same lor....
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when i decide to break off with my ex, i did tell him we dont meet and call anymore. Cos i feel that he is jus make use of me
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Absolutely agreed to what you said. I've 2 exs. 1st one I broke up with him peaceful. We are still good frd til now and it has been 2-3yrs. I tell him alot of my problems too including my present r/s. 2nd one I broke up with him cuz he fallen in love with my frd/ex coll. We are no longer frds and I admit that I'm still holding grudes but who won't when you are being hurt?Originally posted by foxwalk:if u broke up cuz u don't feel the same love towards each other anymore. its easier to be friends than if one cheated on the other or something..
But then I know I'm truthfully forgotten about him cuz I don't wanna him to be happy. When you doesn't want your ex to be happy, you have already forgotten him. If you find this phrase familiar you know what I mean. "If you want him to be happy, let him love who he wants." Since I don't want him to be happy so I keep making the ger guilty by not being frd with her anymore!
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My best friend's boyfriend strayed and slept with his ex-gf when she was away from Singapore for over a month. Anyway, before that happened, she never restricted him if he wanna meet her for coffee or a chat. She obviously did not give him any more such priviledges after the crap he did.
Even though he promised to stop all contact with the ex to keep my friend from leaving, it appears that some relationships have just too many loose strings hanging to put a complete stop to. -
Not possible, especially if they have had sex. The tension and awkwardness will be too great to ignore.
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I am still friends with my 1st gf and very good friends with my 2nd gf. It is all about how much hurt has been done and how much both parties still want to be friends.
Just broke up with my 3rd gf recently. And this time round, i am finding it too hard to be friends because i have gave my everything into this relationship and she walked away just like that!
As much as i want to remain friends, it is still not possible at this moment because i will be holding on to the hope that she will change her mind and i can't move on with those false hopes. Therefore i am avoiding her......... -
..how true.. for a scorpio..
i just refuse any form of communication with my ex. no matter how painful it is for me. -
ultimately, i think its very much up to the gal, and u as a man, to respect her wishes.
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Depend on situation i think.
Every realtionship differ in every way so have to assess differently.
Some ex can still be good friend after break off but some cannot.
Others can but need some time to treat the other party as only friends and nothing else. -
It's really difficult to be friends after break up but after some time, me and my ex become very close frds. This is what I treasure most of it. He still standby me thru email though he is not in sg anymore. Whenever he is back in sg, he will look for me and we will catch up with each other. He is the nicer guy that I've met that when I'm the one who have hurt him, he still forgive me.Originally posted by Saggice:Any1 share this exp ??
once u break up with ur gf, either u or ur partner insisted that u 2 cant be frens anymore and frm then on lost contact..... its kinda sad.....
but who and how many out there still able to maintain normal frenship.... its nt easy..... esp when the other partner intiated breakup and he/she still wan to be frens........
For me, i wld say stil be frens but it will be very weird and embarassed next time when we meet or watsoever...
Thanks god for sending me this kind guy beside me. 
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I Guess it hard Ba for me..
I been dump by my gf...of coz i will forgive her...but when ever we saw each other in school...we will auto look down on the floor..not dare to look at each another anymore...try being friend with her..but no matter what we talk abt...surely included the past one.. -
maybe she hates u. i hate my ex, so i dun wanna ever have anything to do with him. when he called, i wasnt very friendly so he got the message.Originally posted by Saggice:Any1 share this exp ??
once u break up with ur gf, either u or ur partner insisted that u 2 cant be frens anymore and frm then on lost contact..... its kinda sad.....
but who and how many out there still able to maintain normal frenship.... its nt easy..... esp when the other partner intiated breakup and he/she still wan to be frens........
For me, i wld say stil be frens but it will be very weird and embarassed next time when we meet or watsoever... -
ya. find it quite hard to maintain friendship after breaking up