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1. I've been trying to find this Miriam Yeung EP released a few years ago that contains this song "kuai le yu bei shang"(theme song for a TVB drama).
2. Can recommend me where to find the best dim sum in Singapore? I've got a friend from Holland coming over soon and I've been telling him how good chicken feet tastes.
Thank you in advance hor.
P.S. Hey, you didn't specify what kind of problems right?
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wpz.. what does dat @#%*&& means??... cant u see it... i like dat A too.... and i like B too.... it not wrong to like someone right??... it does not mean i am @#%T&^ as u said.. which i dun even know what is dat @#%&^ ur trying to say.. but shud be something not nice... its ok.... u can be more direct... i dun mind
as for B... my purpose of not letting him knowing the truth is cos..
1. A knows i tok to B.... A is B's fren, colleague and boss.... A warned me abt toking abt him to B.. cos he dun wan B to know dat much... cos A is B's boss anyway.. so its not wise to let his staff to know dat his boss is having an affair right?..so ok i cant tell B.. cos am warned against it.
2. I decide to keep the truth from B too.. cos it would hurt him to know dat the so call bf i have is his fren, colleague and boss... he would feel shit dat his boss got the woman he love and oso gets to order him ard for work...and he cant do anything
3. am only trying to protect B.... meant to tell him abt it slowly.. and i think he stalked his own boss...... and find out dat my so call bf is his boss...and i have told him earlier not to probe anymore when he had a hunch dat my so call bf is his boss...
yes i have lied.. but it was not w the intention to hurt.. it was w the intention from not letting him to hurt even further...and i have apologise and admitted my wrong..
u know life is such a big joke.. dat i have to go thru and thru again and again till am damn tired.... when my marriage failed.... i was hoping for my ex to come back and praying for him to be back again every waking day of mine.. till one day i decide to seal up all my feelings and accept dat.. yeah i wont find love anymore... and i take whatever dat comes along.. like affair.. i dun go ONS...A was my first affair after my divorce... although i know he not gg to give me a future.. but hey.. heck care.. as long theres someone caring... why care abt future.. when future hurts too.. so i take it as it goes and enjoy every moment of it... now .. am not really the vixen here... A kept me in dark abt his marital status.. till i have to learn it from frens... so i just carry on acting dumb and be happy....
Then comes B... told him the above stuff... he persuade me to leave.. and i told him reasons as abovementioned... den suddenly he says he care when i told him to mind his own biz... told B.. i cant trust anymore.. well. he prove to me everyday dat he is worth trusting... till one day.. i decide to open up to him.. and come out from my shell... opening up is not easy cos the memories of the past keep flooding back....i have tried my best too.... i nvr want to or try to lead anyone ard.. and now.. the coldness of this cold war is freezing me up... *shiverssss.... kinda like slowly getting frost bite and dying off -
Why can't u just drop both A & B & walk alone?
Both are not suitable. A because he is married & B cos he is younger & u are afraid too childish.
Don't carry on the relationship cos u are lonely. U can start afresh with someone else. -
dunno can i do dat cos am still like in love w them right?... but maybe i shud try and see how...
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~Flipping the coin...~
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heh.. why din i think of dat
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Dear Duffy:
Actually I din wanted to reply at all as this topic belongs to IcyBoi.
*** Your first marriage affects you tremendously and you know it. Like all other problems, I see issues during your BGR relationship with your ex-husband right into the day when you were proclaim man and woman during your first marriage. There are bound to be things that wasn't made right and your attitude towards love changed drastically with the fall of your once love.
A came when you needed to fill some form of void within your cracked emotional structure. He cannot commit and you as well - for a mutual benefit, you two came together. Remember, its for benefit and not for love. I understand the thingy behind the pampering, yet you are not looking at his hefty cash. Woman in their first love loved their lover, in all others, they loved love. (Pai seh, forced to use this again
) You enter the contract with the stated clauses, there is no way you could turn the table and alter it. Ironically, when you are tired of a relationship without commitment, you actually exercise subconscious reaction of a gf to a bf's flippant behavior.
Your turning point came when B arrived into your life. Your drained relationship eventually crave for some form of substantial stability, in which B showed the following qualities. You fell for him, not for the similiar reasons why you came together with A.
You showed terribly strong sign of delusion, probably the result of your failed marriage.Originally posted by Duffy:A was my first affair after my divorce... although i know he not gg to give me a future.. but hey.. heck care.. as long theres someone caring... why care abt future.. when future hurts too.. so i take it as it goes and enjoy every moment of it... now .. am not really the vixen here... A kept me in dark abt his marital status.. till i have to learn it from frens... so i just carry on acting dumb and be happy.... And this sign is demonstrated into the bonds between you and B. Remember Enron and how it got busted? Deception in relationship, regardless of how good intention you have, never fail the shatter and weaken bonds between one another. A man in love is able to accept you for who you are, but rarely, he is able to accept conscious lies.
You wanna trust, yet you are working opposite of it. You want commitment, but on the other hand, you can't give. If you were to let your first marriage bring you down and let looming depression and negativity ruin you - no man would be suitable for the issue doesn't lies with them, it lies with WHOM you chose to value-add into your love life. Think about it.
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thankz!!.. dat got me thinking...
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ur that song Miriam Yeung song is it titled A Taste of Love? If yes, #mp3cable has that.. or rather.. I have that song..Originally posted by av98m:1. I've been trying to find this Miriam Yeung EP released a few years ago that contains this song "kuai le yu bei shang"(theme song for a TVB drama).
2. Can recommend me where to find the best dim sum in Singapore? I've got a friend from Holland coming over soon and I've been telling him how good chicken feet tastes.
Thank you in advance hor.
P.S. Hey, you didn't specify what kind of problems right?
Dim sum.. hmmz.. so far.. the best i have eaten is in hk.. hee -
dearOriginally posted by Duffy:thankz!!.. dat got me thinking...
thinking is one thing..
are you going to act on it
talk is cheap. -
Bingo! You have it in MP3 format? If you actually have the CD I'd pay you for a copy. (I've tried EVERY single cd shop over here and none have it, none are willing to try and order it for me.)Originally posted by Kennerve:ur that song Miriam Yeung song is it titled A Taste of Love? If yes, #mp3cable has that.. or rather.. I have that song..
Dim sum.. hmmz.. so far.. the best i have eaten is in hk.. hee
Yeah, I agree. Nicest dim sum I've ever eaten was also in HongKong. Haven't been there for over 2 yrs though. -
Because you're probably not thinking in the 1st place...?Originally posted by Duffy:heh.. why din i think of dat
Your mind's pretty much confused...
What's your star sign?
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nuchio.. yeah talk is cheap.. but i have to thik 1st b4 i act right?.. so let the thinking do the work first...
am sagi -
Hi, i don think there is a CD OST on that song.. Cause that show, i think theme song is that one only.. shucks.. i forgot the title of the show... haha.. Eh, if you wan, i can upload the song to my server and you can get the song there?Originally posted by av98m:Bingo! You have it in MP3 format? If you actually have the CD I'd pay you for a copy. (I've tried EVERY single cd shop over here and none have it, none are willing to try and order it for me.)
Yeah, I agree. Nicest dim sum I've ever eaten was also in HongKong. Haven't been there for over 2 yrs though.
Dim sum ah.. I get to eat it every year when i am there...
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Hmm...Originally posted by Duffy:nuchio.. yeah talk is cheap.. but i have to thik 1st b4 i act right?.. so let the thinking do the work first...
am sagi -
She actually released an EP with that song inside but everywhere I try, even online, nostock/out of print. Bah!Originally posted by Kennerve:Hi, i don think there is a CD OST on that song.. Cause that show, i think theme song is that one only.. shucks.. i forgot the title of the show... haha.. Eh, if you wan, i can upload the song to my server and you can get the song there?
Dim sum ah.. I get to eat it every year when i am there...
Yes please, let me know where to download it.
I'm looking forward to making a dutchman eat chicken feet and century egg next year. Maybe baby pigeons too, if I can get them. -
Hmmm...
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lmao...Originally posted by HENG@:i have a problem. i want a listening ear. can i cut yours off n have it stuffed n mounted on my wall? it'd make a nice wall decoration. -
problem: need to earn more money. need to take home min $2K. how? ( geylang is not an option
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problem: my other half and i got interests as far as east and west. like dat can tahan long long a not?
problem: need to lost min 5kg by end october cos me very overweight. should i aim for anoriexia or bulimia?
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Don't get this...Originally posted by the_don:problem: my other half and i got interests as far as east and west. like dat can tahan long long a not?