I am Lost ....
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/me kowtow to Yunhaier
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ALOT is MISSING...?Originally posted by :Oei Devil what happened to you... usually you say more than 1 line... oh no... you're becoming like FI!!!
Analysing this situation would only deem inappropriate.... -
Hi,
I have always like to see happy ending movies. That will lift up some spirits in you... perhaps you can try to do that too....
When you really love a person, that is so much things that you can do... for your case, everyone can be telling you that your wife is not worth it... she is not understanding, she is blar blar blar ... but perhaps in your heart, you will not remember all these bad points... you will only remember the good points... y? all becos you love her... that's y you always give in to her...
As for your wife, needless to say, there is no love.
In a relationship, it takes 2 hands to clap. Without love for each other, it's pointless and meaningless to do anything. And it really hurts when your partner is not making an effort to make this relationship last.
At this point, you can only let go and wish her all the best. Dun bear grudges. Let her know that you will still be there to help, just like the way you would for other friends... then it's time to move on.
Take care and good luck! -
and Ohya... forgot to mention... you are you... not anyone else... not the one that your wife desires you to be! So you dun have to wish that you are... this and that.....Someday, someone will love you as what you are...
Cheers!!! -
brother...the way i see it, you got everything going in your life...you got a condo which you paid for...you got a car which belongs to you...you are mobile...why worry about a harridan like that? singapore got plenty of nice looking young chicks dying to move in with a guy owning a nice condo...best thing is ask your wife to get the f.uck out of your face...get her to sign the divorce papers...ask her f.uck off back to her parents...turn your back to her...never give in to f.ucking sh.ithole women like these...
when you've got a nice chick, bring her back to your condo...change the locks so your f.ucking ex-wife can't get in...make sure you padlock it well so she has no access...dump her, leave her, let her fend for herself since she must have accumulated quite a tidy sum by not contributing towards the household expenses...
these witches have to be taught a lesson...nothing in life comes for free...ask her to sell her hole for money if she needs extra income...
brother...you hold all the cards...let her eat grass, even better dip her face in faeces...