Originally posted by Prince of Kao Peh:
If its so easy..one wrong step and I will be ostracised for being selfish and unhelpful. And I will be stuck with them for some time.
I dont mind helping, just dont treat me like rubbish after exams over can liao.
The problem is not to beg to go outing, like I am desperate, but looking at this thing as a whole, its damn jialat being dumped after exams, like my value drop after exams.
And not just solely outings, even for chats and stuff too...
How can I be called a sensitive guy when this is done 'in your face'?
Personally... I often couldn't care less about how people see me... Okay... That's for me...
Understand that some people would just use you and treat you like a trash no matter what... So if you're really bothered about how they would look at you... DON'T... They'll still treat you like trash anyhow... Won't make much of a difference... Instead, learn to channel your efforts into much more worthy places...
Here, there're just 2 things I wanna add...
1st of all, if you really ain't bothered about how people treat you and you're not expecting any returns... Then help them... That's life... Sometimes you can expect... And people often would think of life as a Newtonian's Turn... What you give, people give you back... Sorry to say, life don't always work that way... There're always alternatives around...
So like what I've previously said... If you wanna give, don't give in hope of a definite return... If you're asking for a definite return and know that chances are you won't be getting any back... Don't give.... You won't be able to handle the reality....
2nd thing. Helping with school works is helping with school work... If you wanna hang around with people, and be involved in their activities... HANG AROUND with them... BE INVOLVED in the 1st place? Things don't happen for no reason... Your character..? Do you mix around with people... Or at least a little? Common topics...? Sad to say, just because you help them out with school work, probably won't make you any much more a sociable guy... So WORK on... Take your INITIATIVES.... If you want things to HAPPEN, DON'T just sit down there and WAIT for them to happen... MAKE them happen....
