matter of insecurities
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dats wat i heard from my other frens too...they all tell me I must get a bf when I am in college...I also dunno why is the rush..
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Originally posted by icyprincess:Why do I always feel so insecure??
I am always worried that even if I find someone who really like me one day, he might have a change of heart. Because once he saw all the flaws in me, he would think I am not so perfect after all. I always strive to hide the bad sides of me but I guess they will show sometimes. Especially when I start to let down my guard, when I have really fallen for a person..I would start to assume that it doesn't matter. But maybe it does...
I am really bad at expressing my feelings. I might act like an ice queen even if I really like someone. This had happened once to me when I was in high school. He was my first love. And he liked me too. But because I was too shy to give him any kind of encouragement...he decided to let me go and started to go after another girl. That was my first taste of pain in love...
I do not want this to repeat itself again.
Just be yourself..esp in a relationship..i'm sure u want him to accept u for wat ua re right?
But then can change for the better..as in temper, impatience etc... -
peer pressure...Originally posted by icyprincess:dats wat i heard from my other frens too...they all tell me I must get a bf when I am in college...I also dunno why is the rush..
i.c.y
something like if u dun have one bf/gf at that age, something must be wrong with u...or must enjoy all kinds of experience while u are young...