how to win someone's heart?

• c2on2

  4 Oct 04, 20:45

  dear all.
  
  How do u win a gal's heart wholeheartedly?
  i am rather troubled..
  
  ani advice or tips?
  
  thanks
• browniebaobao

  4 Oct 04, 21:03

  love, care, honesty...............
  
  most important: sincerity!
• december

  4 Oct 04, 21:12

  Can give example on how to show love, care and concern throught sincerity ? Like what did you do ?
• browniebaobao

  4 Oct 04, 21:21

  Originally posted by december:

  Can give example on how to show love, care and concern throught sincerity ? Like what did you do ?

  
  I believe once u love a person, the rest will show..
  
  If u are sincere, u are honest.
  If u care, then u will be concerned.
  
  Examples?
  
  When he/she is sick, ask him/her to see doctor...then rem to ask him/her how he/she is feeling.
  
  When he/she is upset, be there for him/her...let her noe that u are always there for him/her.
  
  Share his/her troubles if u can..lend a listening ear, extend ur hand to help when in need.
  
  Enough?
• december

  4 Oct 04, 21:46

  Did all these but she not touched at all
• RaTtY81

  4 Oct 04, 21:48

  did she express any well feelings for u?
  
• 'm back

  4 Oct 04, 21:51

  Originally posted by c2on2:

  dear all.
  
  How do u win a gal's heart wholeheartedly?
  i am rather troubled..
  
  ani advice or tips?
  
  thanks

  i choose the phrase...unite with a girl's heart.....
  so what if i win her heart...its not a coontest u know...so like that
  aft that can di vorce if not happy lah? just say cannot click and chao bye bye issit? DIVORCING really makes things easy
• men_@_arms

  5 Oct 04, 21:50

  A friend of mine is a heart surgeon, maybe i can intro him to u?
• mushigen

  6 Oct 04, 20:30

  To be able to win her heart, she must first "allow" you to win her heart.
  
  If not, she won't be moved even after you have moved Mt. Everest.
• browniebaobao

  6 Oct 04, 21:03

  Originally posted by mushigen:

  To be able to win her heart, she must first "allow" you to win her heart.
  
  If not, she won't be moved even after you have moved Mt. Everest.

  
  True true..if the door dun wana open...hard to force it open..
• december

  7 Oct 04, 01:39

  I dunno whether she has interest in me or not
  Actually We rarely meet becos she confessed to me that she scare falling in love with me and thus hurting me in the end if we broke up tt y we rarely meet.
  On the phone i told her i am very scared to sms her or else i will think of alot of things if she nv reply.
  Den she reply that she also scared of sms me.
  But if i ever sms n asking where she is, who she going out with, guy or ger going where. SHe will promptly tell me all the ans i want to noe.
  If i ask her to meet me, she will always say she busy.
  Den will suddenly stop replying, den i will send a sms to her that how much i wan to go out with her and adding a I MISS U at the back.
  SHe will apologise n say she was busy n no mood to meet me.
  She rarely sms me but if she did, was always to ask where i am.
  If for like 2 to 3 days nv sms hor, den at nite i sms her good nite n tell her how much i miss her, the next day she will msg me.
  Got once we chat in the morning n she said will call me back asap. But she didnt. I also nv sms until at nite i send her another good nite msg n miss u.
  She will immediately sms me say she was busy tt y nv call me back.
  If i told her that she was the only ger i contact, she will say how many gers number i have in my SIM card, even pointed out one of her friend's friend number i saved in my SIM card.
• LoveOuch!

  7 Oct 04, 01:40

  OUCH!
• Devil1976

  7 Oct 04, 12:13

  Originally posted by december:

  Did all these but she not touched at all

  Maybe she's simply not interested...?
• revvieeee

  7 Oct 04, 14:15

  I tell you frankly, play hard to get.
  
  Get a girl's number today, call her three days later. She'll stick to you.
  
  You cannot act so interested in front of her. Don't try to suck up to her. Girls, when they find out someone is doing this, chances are they step over you... Then it ends up with her leading you on and on....
  
  A hunter catches it's first prey with unsteady hands.
  
  No offense buddy but this is the first girl you're going after right?
• kopiosatu

  7 Oct 04, 14:17

  she too busy to call you ah, then you too busy lor... so simple
• Nelstar

  7 Oct 04, 14:22

  Every lock has a different key to unlock. Some locks can be opened with certain set of keys, some keys can open many locks. Some locks take more turns to unlock, some locks take a simple twist. Some locks uses numberlock and keys and some locks require more than one key. It is up to you to determine and find out.
• amuletgurl

  7 Oct 04, 14:24

  Originally posted by c2on2:

  dear all.
  
  How do u win a gal's heart wholeheartedly?
  i am rather troubled..
  
  ani advice or tips?
  
  thanks

  i say its pretty much pointless if u need to work hard to get her n *gasp* work on to win her heart????? its so much better to just sit back n relax n let things happen by itself
• X-men

  7 Oct 04, 14:52

  Originally posted by december:

  I dunno whether she has interest in me or not
  Actually We rarely meet becos she confessed to me that she scare falling in love with me and thus hurting me in the end if we broke up tt y we rarely meet.
  On the phone i told her i am very scared to sms her or else i will think of alot of things if she nv reply.
  Den she reply that she also scared of sms me.
  But if i ever sms n asking where she is, who she going out with, guy or ger going where. SHe will promptly tell me all the ans i want to noe.
  If i ask her to meet me, she will always say she busy.
  Den will suddenly stop replying, den i will send a sms to her that how much i wan to go out with her and adding a I MISS U at the back.
  SHe will apologise n say she was busy n no mood to meet me.
  She rarely sms me but if she did, was always to ask where i am.
  If for like 2 to 3 days nv sms hor, den at nite i sms her good nite n tell her how much i miss her, the next day she will msg me.
  Got once we chat in the morning n she said will call me back asap. But she didnt. I also nv sms until at nite i send her another good nite msg n miss u.
  She will immediately sms me say she was busy tt y nv call me back.
  If i told her that she was the only ger i contact, she will say how many gers number i have in my SIM card, even pointed out one of her friend's friend number i saved in my SIM card.

  looks pretty possitive leh.
  
  my case is she never reply never sms or call me first... I always the one making the move..
• icyprincess

  7 Oct 04, 14:55

  well keep doing it lor...if she still talks to u still got chance..
  
  do sth dat will make her feel special...sth dat she knows u wun do for other gals, but u will do it for her...
  
  i used to be like the girl u describe, but he continues to do touching things...and now i like him
  
  hopefully she will respond soon...
  
  all the best..
  
  i.c.y
• amuletgurl

  7 Oct 04, 14:55

  Originally posted by X-men:

  looks pretty possitive leh.
  
  my case is she never reply never sms or call me first... I always the one making the move..

  u think abt it,if u guys really get together,u think she will eagerly sms or call u?
  
  my suggestion: Dun try too hard!!! let it be! so u wont get hurt that badly
• mimi71

  7 Oct 04, 14:57

  Originally posted by c2on2:

  dear all.
  
  How do u win a gal's heart wholeheartedly?
  i am rather troubled..
  
  ani advice or tips?
  
  thanks

  TLC means Tender, Loving and Care... there's others as well... findout more from the others here in this room... cheers
  
  
• winning 11

  7 Oct 04, 23:00

  Different factors and enviroment affects the ending of the courting of the girl but overall is to see got the attraction anot..
  
  Trust me, if she attracted by you..what u did will be quite meaningless...becourse in no time she will be at your side coz she just like u..
  
  While if she not attracted by you, no matter what you did..will no use..maybe the Time factor do counts..
  
  IF she likes and u likes = together..
  
  IF you likes and she just really likes u as a friend = no use i guess though i hope its not so..
  
  
• apollo861

  7 Oct 04, 23:43

  and don't fall into the fallacy of keeping her happy for all the wrong reasons.
  as in don't try to change yourself to suit her.*
  if she doesn't like you for who you are, let her go.
  like her for who she is, and she you too.
  try not to idealise her.
  or else your world will come apart.
  in fact, if you marry her, and you have not been realistic about her,
  you will be damned to hell.
  i mean, um, the chance of a divorce is 89%..
  ask yourself honestly,
  is she worth protecting? supporting?
  
  *unless if you are an ex convict intending to change for the sake of protecting someone worthwhile...
• jeslin

  8 Oct 04, 02:08

  Originally posted by revvieeee:

  I tell you frankly, play hard to get.
  
  Get a girl's number today, call her three days later. She'll stick to you.
  
  You cannot act so interested in front of her. Don't try to suck up to her. Girls, when they find out someone is doing this, chances are they step over you... Then it ends up with her leading you on and on....
  
  A hunter catches it's first prey with unsteady hands.
  
  No offense buddy but this is the first girl you're going after right?

  this kinda work sometimes...
  
  sometimes..
• X-men

  8 Oct 04, 10:02

  Originally posted by amuletgurl:

  u think abt it,if u guys really get together,u think she will eagerly sms or call u?
  
  my suggestion: Dun try too hard!!! let it be! so u wont get hurt that badly

  hehehe...
  
  thats why now ah dao ki geh...
  
  I never try hard... hahaha...