Does he like me?
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it is just those disappearing acts that make me worry. He told me he is busy during those times, and I don't want to pursue that matterbecause he would say I am trying to cling to him and I know guys hate that.Originally posted by kopiosatu:oh then ok what... just let things come naturally, no need to make it awkward or rush things... -
well if you're disappointed then show a disappointed face...Originally posted by girlygirl:it is just those disappearing acts that make me worry. He told me he is busy during those times, and I don't want to pursue that matterbecause he would say I am trying to cling to him and I know guys hate that. -
I don't to show a disappointed face throughout this coming date. And I don't want to let him know I am disappointed...maybe I should put on a nonchalant attitude.Originally posted by kopiosatu:well if you're disappointed then show a disappointed face... -
if you're disappointed, then you are. just show it.Originally posted by girlygirl:I don't to show a disappointed face throughout this coming date. And I don't want to let him know I am disappointed...maybe I should put on a nonchalant attitude. -
I should have just declined to go on the date with him. Now he is thinking I like him.Originally posted by kopiosatu:if you're disappointed, then you are. just show it.
I feel like I am playing a game. And I don't want to lose this time. -
u seriously don't know what you want.Originally posted by girlygirl:I should have just declined to go on the date with him. Now he is thinking I like him.
I feel like I am playing a game. And I don't want to lose this time.
you don't want him to think u like him. yet you like him. -
because I have this weird feeling that once he knows I like him, everything won't be so nice anymore...he won't treat me as good anymore...Originally posted by kopiosatu:u seriously don't know what you want.
you don't want him to think u like him. yet you like him. -
you're not a psychic.Originally posted by girlygirl:because I have this weird feeling that once he knows I like him, everything won't be so nice anymore...he won't treat me as good anymore...
so u plan to play hard to get, making the option of not being with him even bigger. Thus leaving you empty handed with your head full of "what ifs".
the real loser is the one who doesn't try. which makes both of you if u continue to think like that. -
Is there any reason for you to think this way? (His behaviour, etc)Originally posted by girlygirl:because I have this weird feeling that once he knows I like him, everything won't be so nice anymore...he won't treat me as good anymore...
My personal opinion, don't ever have any doubts in any kind of relationships, if you have any, just try to clear asap.
BTW, how long have you know each other?
Best Wishes,
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What rubbish....?Originally posted by Dino888:Of course, don't you realise that ?
Basically when a man dates a woman, he is trying to get into her pants. That's a fact.
Trust me...
Unless he is one of the 20% who wait until marriage. But will you be so lucky ?
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If you're afraid to love... Then don't...?Originally posted by girlygirl:I know what I want.
I am just afraid that the other party might break my heart again.
Even if you manage to get together with each other... Even if you both truly love each other... A love relationship is often not just a bed of rose cushion....
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because he has been missing for a few days now...I haven't seen him at all...he told me not to fret because it means he is busy..but is he so busy that he can't make time to even meet me for meals? and he hasn't been online for a day now, so I can't contact him.Originally posted by Blueskyz:Is there any reason for you to think this way? (His behaviour, etc)
My personal opinion, don't ever have any doubts in any kind of relationships, if you have any, just try to clear asap.
BTW, how long have you know each other?
Best Wishes,
Blueskyz -
it is when i played hard to get that he seems more interested..now that I am trying to show that I am interested, he is trying to play hard to get with me.Originally posted by kopiosatu:you're not a psychic.
so u plan to play hard to get, making the option of not being with him even bigger. Thus leaving you empty handed with your head full of "what ifs".
the real loser is the one who doesn't try. which makes both of you if u continue to think like that. -
seems like he really giving some mixed signals ah.. mixed signals could mean that. like you, he is apprehensive about taking the relationship into uncharted waters...
wat to do? wat to do....
one thing though, some guys will get discouraged if the girl plays hard to get. so it's good if from time to time, you let him know that he's impt to you. keep his morale up, increase the chance that one day he may actually confirm this budding romance.
but dun wait too long. else the flame fizzles out...
or you can tell him that he's one of your 'special friends', that above other guys, he's most important to you. just lean to this topic next time yall have a conversation. Then you are telling him that he has a 'good chance' with you.
Maybe he will then have to courage to ask you if you're willing to take the relationship to a deeper level.
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Wait for him to confess his feelings to you. You should continue to behave truely to your feelings and to your heart. Until the time when he tells you that he likes you, you should continue to be his mutual friend.Originally posted by girlygirl:I need help to tell if a guy is interested in me.
He is a very nice person. Everyone says so. That's what makes even harder to tell whether he is interested in me or not, because he can just be nice to me as a friend.
When he is talking to me, his friends make fun of him (As in, his friends would giggle and whisper among each other...and he would turn slightly red)
He is sometimes very shy around me. I am the one doing the talking most of the time, with him just listening.
Once I was close to crying and he went to look for me, told me not to be sad, bought me a drink and stayed on to cheer me up.
He called me sometimes to go out with him, to movies, etc. But sometimes I don't hear from him at all for a week (told me he was busy with his work) and then the next week it would start all over again.
He told me I am a very funny person, someone very easy to get along with.
Somehow all his friends seem to talk to me now and they keep saying things like, "Oh..he mentioned you last time...he said this and this about you..."
When I asked him where he is whenever I called him and he is not in, he would give me the whole details of where he went.
He just asked me out a few days ago. Then he disappeared for a few days because both of us are busy. But when I messaged him, he told me not to worry cos he would see me next week for sure.
He said he can't be with me during my birthday this year, he had wanted to bring me out for dinner but he has to go overseas at that time, so we are celebrating it early. Told me to remind him...
So what do you think? My friends all said he likes me. Said I was silly to even doubt it.
Think he is slowly trying to build up on his confidence if he is interested in you. I felt that if he likes you, he should let you know about it...at least indirectly.
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but isn't all his actions trying to let me know that he likes me?Originally posted by parn:Wait for him to confess his feelings to you. You should continue to behave truely to your feelings and to your heart. Until the time when he tells you that he likes you, you should continue to be his mutual friend.
Think he is slowly trying to build up on his confidence if he is interested in you. I felt that if he likes you, he should let you know about it...at least indirectly. -
As long as he has not said anything to you, just take it that you are just friends with him.Originally posted by girlygirl:but isn't all his actions trying to let me know that he likes me?
Don't think too much about this or that, whether he likes you or not etc.
Enjoy your "dates" with him and if it is meant to be, then things will more or less work itself out and you will know what to say or do when the time comes.
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Hmm...usually when guys expressed this sort of behaviour only when they are interested in a gal. Are you interested in him as well? If yes, then you should let him know by dropping a few subtle hints and signals. However, to play it safe...you shouldn't jump into conclusion and start to think that he might be interested in you until the moment he told you he like you. You certainly do not wish to be judged as an easy gal to go after, and you also do not want to be seen as a stuck up.Originally posted by girlygirl:but isn't all his actions trying to let me know that he likes me?
So...if he really really wants you to be in a relationship with him, he will have to initiate the asking part. There are guys who behaves like this but are not really serious about the gal, so I hope that he is not one of them. Don't be the easy gal, be the cool gal instead. Until the moment comes, return him back his favour if you have some liking for him...be his twin counterpart instead.
What he did doesn't really means that he likes you, just interested in you only. So what you need is a confirmation from him and it can only comes from him verbally and never from us. Don't think and analyse too much into it and continue to be yourself and enjoy your life.
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Girlygirl,
If u are not sure how he really feels about u, it is better to stay where u are.
Do not make any forward strides towards the r/s.
But one thing I should warn u is that, if a guy is interested in u, he will not dissappear for a few days, then a week and look for u again. He might be doing 'time-sharing'. -
don't be a fool and play hard to get or make him jealous. Just be yourself. Your body language will tell him. And it seems quite obvious that he likes you, unless he is treating u as a real close friend.
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i think he is just playing hard to get...a common plot...not only e gals can play hard to get u know....
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what i felt after reading 3 pages of this and thats...
just my few advices from my own series of disappointments from 'thinking too much':-
Don't play hard to get. Just stay cool and drop subtle hints back.
If he is really interested to ask u to be his gf, sure he will ask one day. No matter how shy, still gotta bia for his offsprings bah?
Lastly, dont think too much whether you will be asked that qn. But you can still relish on the sweet moments...
Last last one: pray hard...