Reason for girls rejecting guys
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i always wonder what are the reason when a girl reject a guy...
is it because of
1) past relationship
2) do not want to get hurt
3) studies
4) family
5) friends
6) influence
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how does a ger rejects a guy (as in how do ya tink a ger will react when a guy confessed to her and thts call rejection?Originally posted by royroy85:i always wonder what are the reason when a girl reject a guy...
is it because of
1) past relationship
2) do not want to get hurt
3) studies
4) family
5) friends
6) influence
or what else... -
they reject a guy cuz they only like yandaos
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bu lai dian!
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no $
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u too young, u too old, u not rich enough, u not yandao, I just treated u as a brother, friend, sister or whatever....
always got tons of excuses -
at least no gal say that she treated me as a petOriginally posted by Kenashi:u too young, u too old, u not rich enough, u not yandao, I just treated u as a brother, friend, sister or whatever....
always got tons of excuses
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"The Reason"
Is it a good reason??
I'm not a perfect person
There's many things I wish I didn't do
But I continue learning
I never meant to do those things to you
And so I have to say before I go
That I just want you to know
I've found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is you
I'm sorry that I hurt you
It's something I must live with everyday
And all the pain I put you through
I wish that I could take it all away
And be the one who catches all your tears
Thats why i need you to hear
I've found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is You [x4]
I'm not a perfect person
I never meant to do those things to you
And so I have to say before I go
That I just want you to know
I've found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is you
I've found a reason to show
A side of me you didn't know
A reason for all that I do
And the reason is you -
no la... must have chemistry or feeling one mah... it's not necessary that when a guy declares his love for a girl, that girl must accept mah! then the whole street would be filled with couples liao
but then reject first time round is not the end of the world yet la... can continue trying for a period of time... if the girl doesn't respond at all... then i guess it's time to move on... but don't over do it though, some girls get very turned off and you have to say byebye to the friendship liao... -
if i reject it will be mostly bcos:
I am afraid I will get hurt again.
I have no feeling for that guy.
He hasn't tried hard enough...
i.c.y -
for gals out there, is it once a no, always a no?
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sometimes yes, sometimes noOriginally posted by simulacrum:for gals out there, is it once a no, always a no?
don't flame me wor... different girls different way of thinking mah...
for me, i have to see what kind of person that guy is... then decide whether it's a forever no, or short term no -
how you see? supposedly if the guy does not change(in terms of looks and character), why should your decision change over time?Originally posted by womanie:for me, i have to see what kind of person that guy is... then decide whether it's a forever no, or short term no -
how hard is hard enough?Originally posted by icyprincess:if i reject it will be mostly bcos:
I am afraid I will get hurt again.
I have no feeling for that guy.
He hasn't tried hard enough...
i.c.y
very judgemental leh.
sincerity easier
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then the guy die liao, ganna rejected oso don't know got 2nd chance or not!!!Originally posted by womanie:sometimes yes, sometimes no
don't flame me wor... different girls different way of thinking mah...
for me, i have to see what kind of person that guy is... then decide whether it's a forever no, or short term no -
cos when she found that no one is changing, she will have to change!!!!Originally posted by simulacrum:how you see? supposedly if the guy does not change(in terms of looks and character), why should your decision change over time? -
hahaha that guy must try to find out what the girl likes, her preferences etc... if you love someone and think that he/she is worth, you would change for the better for that someone... but again, don't over do it yeah... if not you would lose the original you or turn that person off...Originally posted by simulacrum:how you see? supposedly if the guy does not change(in terms of looks and character), why should your decision change over time?
looks of course cannot change la... that one is bo bian... but character can be slowly changed... but that's up to you yar... if you think that you want or need to be accepted as the way you are, then i suggest you look for someone who would do that instead of changing yourself to suit someone's preferences which is pretty difficult
again, if the girl/guy shows no positive response, don't waste your time yeah... move on... i'm sure there's someone out there who appreciates you -
wahahaha... won't la... i will show positive signs one if it's a short term noOriginally posted by Kenashi:then the guy die liao, ganna rejected oso don't know got 2nd chance or not!!! like accept his dates/presents etc... hehehe... -
oopsie double post paisehOriginally posted by Kenashi:then the guy die liao, ganna rejected oso don't know got 2nd chance or not!!! 
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he has to show me that he is special in sum way.Originally posted by Kenashi:how hard is hard enough?
very judgemental leh.
sincerity easier
have to show me that he is really sincere.
if he kena rejected then stop trying...then i wudnt think much of his determination...
and i like determined ppl. but of cos if kena rejected 20 times oledi...i dun tink have much hope la...
i.c.y -
after ganna rejected the guy still dare to date u meh???Originally posted by womanie:wahahaha... won't la... i will show positive signs one if it's a short term no like accept his dates/presents etc... hehehe... -
hahaha... well if he's persistent enoughOriginally posted by Kenashi:after ganna rejected the guy still dare to date u meh??? patience counts yeah!! -
I wouldn't try if kena rejected, if she doesn't like me now for who I am, she would not like me ever.Originally posted by icyprincess:he has to show me that he is special in sum way.
have to show me that he is really sincere.
if he kena rejected then stop trying...then i wudnt think much of his determination...
and i like determined ppl. but of cos if kena rejected 20 times oledi...i dun tink have much hope la...
i.c.y
I rather be her friend than to keep pestering her to accept me!!
most likely gals won't like a pestering fly!!! -
I thought most women said no meant no...Originally posted by womanie:hahaha... well if he's persistent enough patience counts yeah!! -
sumtimes it is not that way..
me at first oso said no a lot of times...but he kept on waiting...in the end he did sth dat touched me..so i decided to accept him
and i tink i love him now.
never tot i wud say dat again after all the fiasco in my past 'r/s' or shud i say crushes...
i.c.y