Reason for girls rejecting guys

• Kenashi

  14 Oct 04, 13:17

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  sumtimes it is not that way..
  
  me at first oso said no a lot of times...but he kept on waiting...in the end he did sth dat touched me..so i decided to accept him
  
  and i tink i love him now.
  
  never tot i wud say dat again after all the fiasco in my past 'r/s' or shud i say crushes...
  
  i.c.y

  gd for u n the guy, his patience n determination paid off...
  All the best!!
  
• icyprincess

  14 Oct 04, 13:20

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  gd for u n the guy, his patience n determination paid off...
  All the best!!
  

  thanks ken...
  i try not to be so hopeful this time...cos in the past i was too hopeful and when it din turn out right, i was crushed....
  
  i.c.y
• eutjin

  14 Oct 04, 13:23

  i guess the few reasons are below.
  
  - physical, looks, etc.
  - no "feel", normally meaning can't clicked well
  
  probably the same reason why guys reject gals
• Kenashi

  14 Oct 04, 13:25

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  thanks ken...
  i try not to be so hopeful this time...cos in the past i was too hopeful and when it din turn out right, i was crushed....
  
  i.c.y

  give him a chance!!!
  he may not be like the others!!!
  I think relationship should be about giving it yr 100% n not to keep 10% or more in case the other party is not putting in his/her 100%.
  It is all about trust!!
  If I found my other half, I will give her everything I got!!
  I will value her above myself!!
  
• icyprincess

  14 Oct 04, 13:31

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  give him a chance!!!
  he may not be like the others!!!
  I think relationship should be about giving it yr 100% n not to keep 10% or more in case the other party is not putting in his/her 100%.
  It is all about trust!!
  If I found my other half, I will give her everything I got!!
  I will value her above myself!!
  

  how much more do u wan me to give? i m just not trying to be too hopeful...but I am being okie wif him a now...at least i never reject or anything oledi now ma..
  
  i.c.y
• ditzy

  14 Oct 04, 13:33

  Just simply not ready to commit. Single life is still the way to go for some.
• Kenashi

  14 Oct 04, 13:33

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  how much more do u wan me to give? i m just not trying to be too hopeful...but I am being okie wif him a now...at least i never reject or anything oledi now ma..
  
  i.c.y

  just give him the trust, try to be more open..
  share yr joy n worry with him.
  
• icyprincess

  14 Oct 04, 13:35

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  just give him the trust, try to be more open..
  share yr joy n worry with him.
  

  i dunno how to tell him my worry.
  i dun wan to make him worry.
  got once i nearly cried and he comforted me but he looked so worried...dun wan to see dat look anymore...
  i wud rather make him laugh...
  
  i.c.y
• Kenashi

  14 Oct 04, 13:37

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  i dunno how to tell him my worry.
  i dun wan to make him worry.
  got once i nearly cried and he comforted me but he looked so worried...dun wan to see dat look anymore...
  i wud rather make him laugh...
  
  i.c.y

  but love is not just about sharing yr joy!!
  If u cannot share yr woes with him, then he is no better than a friend.
• icyprincess

  14 Oct 04, 13:39

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  but love is not just about sharing yr joy!!
  If u cannot share yr woes with him, then he is no better than a friend.

  but fren is abt sharing woes oso right?
  
  i.c.y
• Kenashi

  14 Oct 04, 13:43

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  but fren is abt sharing woes oso right?
  
  i.c.y

  I think u share woes with best friends n not just any friends since they will hardly give u any listening ears just solutions
• icyprincess

  14 Oct 04, 13:44

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  I think u share woes with best friends n not just any friends since they will hardly give u any listening ears just solutions

  haha...dat guy will not give me solution but he will listen...then he will look worried *sigh*
  
  i.c.y
• Kenashi

  14 Oct 04, 13:48

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  haha...dat guy will not give me solution but he will listen...then he will look worried *sigh*
  
  i.c.y

  gd what!!!
  I always give solutions to my galfriends n they always complain that I am not a gd listener!!
  hehehe
  This is the guy way of dealing with problem, no enough EQ!!!
• choco B

  14 Oct 04, 13:49

  It's true... sometimes we just need to rant, let it all out.
  
  

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  gd what!!!
  I always give solutions to my galfriends n they always complain that I am not a gd listener!!
  hehehe
  This is the guy way of dealing with problem, no enough EQ!!!

• icyprincess

  14 Oct 04, 13:50

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  gd what!!!
  I always give solutions to my galfriends n they always complain that I am not a gd listener!!
  hehehe
  This is the guy way of dealing with problem, no enough EQ!!!

  i dunno..i feel like i m burdening him evtime i told him my problems...like i complain too much...so i try to tone down oledi...
  
  i.c.y
• Kenashi

  14 Oct 04, 14:18

  Originally posted by choco B:

  It's true... sometimes we just need to rant, let it all out.
  
  

  then why they find a guy like me to rant???
  they should find their galfriends...
  I not a gd listener
• choco B

  14 Oct 04, 14:19

  Heheh don't worry, after a few times, they will know who to avoid
  
  

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  then why they find a guy like me to rant???
  they should find their galfriends...
  I not a gd listener

• Kenashi

  14 Oct 04, 14:20

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  i dunno..i feel like i m burdening him evtime i told him my problems...like i complain too much...so i try to tone down oledi...
  
  i.c.y

  must make it a 2 way communication.
  both parties must share n not just 1 way!!!
  
• fymk

  14 Oct 04, 14:54

  101 reasons like why guys also reject girls
  so it is rather pointless to ask
• Kenashi

  14 Oct 04, 15:44

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Heheh don't worry, after a few times, they will know who to avoid
  
  

  no leh.
  from poly till now, they still doing it....
  maybe they just want me as a companion.
  they see me n they will think what is a bigger problem than me!!
  
• Xcert

  14 Oct 04, 17:04

  Originally posted by royroy85:

  i always wonder what are the reason when a girl reject a guy...
  
  is it because of
  
  1) past relationship
  2) do not want to get hurt
  3) studies
  4) family
  5) friends
  6) influence
  
  or what else...

  the guy not yandao enough for her.
• Xcert

  14 Oct 04, 17:07

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  and i tink i love him now.

  he would be so sad.
• 'm back

  14 Oct 04, 21:09

  
  
  i am divorced? she mind
• GenX

  14 Oct 04, 21:30

  well just a curious question here,dun want anyone to come here and have any fight over religion again....
  
  will any of u gals reject just cos of religion or if u die die think he is the right one for u, u will try all your means to convert him or u willing convert to his religion?
• royroy85

  14 Oct 04, 21:43

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  sumtimes it is not that way..
  
  me at first oso said no a lot of times...but he kept on waiting...in the end he did sth dat touched me..so i decided to accept him
  
  and i tink i love him now.
  
  never tot i wud say dat again after all the fiasco in my past 'r/s' or shud i say crushes...
  
  i.c.y

  actually... can i noe what he did dat touched you...