BGR is really real scary, from what I've read here
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So...? You're still gonna die in the end nonetheless yeah...?Originally posted by Suicine:but before that I will have to cultivate my mind first, so that I don't panic or have attachments when I die.
What's the point of understanding it without experiencing it for yourself...?
Might as well all of us just sit in front of a TV and watch the explanation on life... That's it... Why bother to even go through it in the 1st place...?
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BGR is a good thing if handled properly... it positively contributes to your personal growth
the negative connotation comes in only when the parties involve lack the wisdom and rationality to deal with the problems that inevitably arise along the way, as seen in the case of many pple in the forum. don't allow all these negative comments to colour your perceptions of BGR ks. Cheers! -
i tin it all depends on individuals. for me personally, i dun find the need to get into a BGR right now. currently happy with my life, dunnit someone else to interfereOriginally posted by devoid05:BGR is a good thing if handled properly... it's beneficial for your personal growth the negative connotation comes in only when the parties involved lack the wisdom and rationality to deal with the problems that inevitably arise along the way, which is the case of many pple here in the forum. don't allow all these negative comments to colour your perceptions of BGR ks. Cheers! -
go to shaolin, can learn kung fuOriginally posted by Suicine:which is why I'm gonna be a monk when I grow up.
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ever wander why the monk head had those round marking?
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Having breakups with your gf/bf
hmm.... Actually.... Its a growing up stage... experiencing heartbroken failed relationships. You have sweet memories, special moments and happy times... No doubt there are sadness involved... bad quarrels... and hurting disagreements. Hmm... I am sure you learnt something from it.
You had a unique, special and close time with someone you love...... I think, its nice and good.. Even though, the loves ended... due to some reasons.. but you think back... You gotta thank the person for giving such nice memories... It hurts... at first, give yourself some time to heal.
Look at my slogan..... be a slow walker but don walk backwards.... Just be positive.. and enjoy your life. I believe you are still young... You wanna make use of your youth to do something, feel something.... and make something out!! Live your life.. with courage....
Don put all your energy on your negativity, and your hatred.... put your energy onto someone that loves you.... dearly... someone that needs you!! SAVE all that energy.. and do something good to pple around you!
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I applaud yoo if yoo r on da road to enlightenment, but yoo can tink it dis wae:Originally posted by Suicine:it's not just to escape from BGR that I'm taking the tonsure, it's also to work towards enlightenment so that I can see all sufferings like nothing, and BGR is like redundant. A cultivated person won't think of so many "what ifs".
Yoo dun really have to take da tonsure to help yoo on da road to nirvana. Sometimes events in da material world can help yoo realise da truth in yr path.
Try things out b4 yoo REALLY take da tonsure. Its never too late to try? -
Hmm.. I think so too.
Otherwise, I won't exist. -
u sure?Originally posted by Suicine:which is why I'm gonna be a monk when I grow up. -
it will be scary when you are with someone who dun care the shit about you.
in fact it has been so scary for me dat i dun tink i will go into it in the near future.
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happy ppl won't be hereOriginally posted by Suicine:which is why I'm gonna be a monk when I grow up. -
When it comes, it comes.