shud i go for counselling?

• Cpl Ho

  18 Oct 04, 17:24

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  tis 3am now. i tink i shud go sleep instead of exercising hehe
  
  i.c.y

  This is probably nothing, and i may b oversensitive... But your thread is posted at 4: 07pm, why did you say it's 3am?
• Kenashi

  18 Oct 04, 17:26

  Originally posted by Cpl Ho:

  This is probably nothing, and i may b oversensitive... But your thread is posted at 4: 07pm, why did you say it's 3am?

  she living overseas lah
• Cpl Ho

  18 Oct 04, 17:30

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  she living overseas lah

  Oh, silly me... Blurred by other ppl's replies talking about their secondary school and JCs... Sorry... Then, which country, icyprincess, may I know you are residing? Cos culture norms play a big role in human relations...
• Axelheat755

  18 Oct 04, 17:32

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  see..i m feeling like ppl are controling my emotions right now..
  
  i feel like i m a puppet...like i cant breathe on my own...
  
  and like i cant get out.
  
  i.c.y

  u need a listening ear...
• Axelheat755

  18 Oct 04, 17:46

  Originally posted by Estee:

  -_____________- """"
  
  errrrrrr......... hahahahaa..... i'm feeling the stress man..... ;P

  hahaha
  
  estee been sweating a lot recently...
  
  lost any weight?
• Axelheat755

  18 Oct 04, 17:53

  Originally posted by Cpl Ho:

  Oh, silly me... Blurred by other ppl's replies talking about their secondary school and JCs... Sorry... Then, which country, icyprincess, may I know you are residing? Cos culture norms play a big role in human relations...

  she's in Aus...
• Black_Ace

  18 Oct 04, 17:58

  ....
• MoonIce

  18 Oct 04, 18:00

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  she's in Aus...

  in Aus arh
  
  wanna a counsellor can find my ex-lecturer who is in Aus now
  
  
  actually no 100% confidentiality sia
  if matter is serious, the cousellor can seek help from others only with the permission of the client
  well yr sec sch ones CMI sia so unprofessional one.
• the Bear

  18 Oct 04, 18:02

  princess, if you feel down, it's always good to have someone who really cares to talk to...
  
  hopefully the counsellors are not asswipes like the last time..
  
  i think uni counsellors are better than the highschool ones.. they should be qualified or something...
  
  i hope you'll be well..
• MoonIce

  18 Oct 04, 18:04

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  princess, if you feel down, it's always good to have someone who really cares to talk to...
  
  hopefully the counsellors are not asswipes like the last time..
  
  i think uni counsellors are better than the highschool ones.. they should be qualified or something...
  
  i hope you'll be well..

  qualified sia Uni ll check out background de le
• icyprincess

  18 Oct 04, 22:49

  for ur info, i m actually in US...
  
  i.c.y
• the Bear

  18 Oct 04, 22:50

  when's your vacation there?
  
  summer break right?
  
  take the time to travel around there too!
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  for ur info, i m actually in US...
  
  i.c.y

• icyprincess

  19 Oct 04, 00:12

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  when's your vacation there?
  
  summer break right?
  
  take the time to travel around there too!
  
  

  dats like 1/2 year from now...
  
  hopefully i will feel better by then...
  
  i called the counsellor today and they have open space from noon until 2pm but I chose not to go today because my eyes are all swollena nd I can't even open them. I went to my first class this morning feeling like shit. Plus I have a raging headache going on. So I think I will go and see the counsellors tomorrow morning instead.
  
  i.c.y
• marineguy

  19 Oct 04, 07:20

  couselling..i think i need too...go together?
• icyprincess

  19 Oct 04, 07:22

  Originally posted by marineguy:

  couselling..i think i need too...go together?

  u wan to come over to my place to get it? it is thousands of miles away hehe..
  
  i.c.y
• kops21

  19 Oct 04, 10:10

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  u wan to come over to my place to get it? it is thousands of miles away hehe..
  
  i.c.y

  Which States are u in?
• mahai102

  19 Oct 04, 16:59

  cheebai...whats wrong with you? take some prozac...lots of it...that should help...no self-confidence say lah...
• the Bear

  19 Oct 04, 17:00

  this constitutes abuse...
  
  you have been told...
  
  

  Originally posted by mahai102:

  cheebai...whats wrong with you? take some prozac...lots of it...that should help...no self-confidence say lah...

• supercharger

  19 Oct 04, 17:27

  Originally posted by mahai102:

  cheebai...whats wrong with you? take some prozac...lots of it...that should help...no self-confidence say lah...

  Sorry to have to say this here in AA , but I really think the person who wrote this really needs help, judgin from the the way he over reacts, the language he used and the tots he tried to communicate, all point to one troubled person.
  
  friend if you have not the kindness or grace or dare i say ability, please keep out of AA. your contribution is neither helpful nor insightful... its actually down right dumb and abusive.
  
  This is AA, so if you do not have anything constructive to say then please stay out of AA and this thread.
• Estee

  19 Oct 04, 17:28

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  hahaha
  
  estee been sweating a lot recently...
  
  lost any weight?

  definitely slimmer than 2mths ago....
• supercharger

  19 Oct 04, 17:37

  Originally posted by Cpl Ho:

  Yes, it's highly unprofessional to be telling tales but not everything is to be kept confidential... Please read my earlier reply. Thanx.
  
  

  Yep you are right to point out that trained counsellors have a duty and obligation to keep certain people informed about their client but honestly, if you try telling that to your client on the very first session, guess where that will get you?? He/she will most likely clam up! and you will get no where. you know your duties and your obligations but until you have assessed that your client is in fact a danger to him/her self are you then obliged to inform key persons around your client. Even then the counsellor will spend sometime prepping the client's relations on how to deal with the situation just so that the relationship between the client and her relations be it family or friends or guardian etc does not change too much but until then, there is no reason nor need to start the session on such a note!
  
  So yes, it is still confidential and it is only rarely would the counsellor need to break the silence. So please have faith in you counsellor and trust them to help you through this difficult period.
• supercharger

  19 Oct 04, 17:52

  ICY, let us know how the session went ok, will be rooting for you from over here! Hope you will get your joy and mood back and you can start enjoying the fall colours. Always loved autum, so nice and cool and pretty.
  
  take care
• icyprincess

  19 Oct 04, 21:19

  Originally posted by mahai102:

  cheebai...whats wrong with you? take some prozac...lots of it...that should help...no self-confidence say lah...

  this person is the one who shud really go for counselling lor...he has nth in his mind but sex...
  
  and just bcos i ignore you doesn't give you the right to use such abusive language on me.
  
  now bug off.
  
  i.c.y
• the Bear

  19 Oct 04, 21:21

  ignore him princess, he's a habitual troublemaker.. thought he disappeared for good...
  
  he's just a lamer...
  
  and i think he knows it too
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  this person is the one who shud really go for counselling lor...he has nth in his mind but sex...
  
  and just bcos i ignore you doesn't give you the right to use such abusive language on me.
  
  now bug off.
  
  i.c.y

• Devil1976

  20 Oct 04, 13:17