Nice guys finish last ??
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Is it true that gals rely prefer the classical jerk??
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Sad to say, in some cases, yes, but hey its their problem.
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Nan Ren Bu Huai, Nu Ren Bu Ai
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I prefer nice guys.. esp. those who blush and stammer.. soOo cute..
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I guess when they are young
But when they mature they like the nice guy
Pls note that nice does not = door mat -
heh heh... *nodsssSs*Originally posted by elindra:I guess when they are young But when they mature they like the nice guyPls note that nice does not = door mat
so i'm mature eh?
but yea.. nice manly macho men r licking-yummy.. -
I would agree with this statement. Though I do not understand the reasons either.Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:Is it true that gals rely prefer the classical jerk??
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last then
denying their "niceness" would be dishonest.. and probably not be something the nice guys would do
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i think a more pressing question is :
where are the nice guys???????
we are looking still...........
most of them maybe at home, say at this time...
so we end up meeting all the classic jerks.... who go out, meet women, ask them out and end up having a relationship with them. -
told someone before...
those who are "nice" are basically wallflowers.. they are missed and discounted because they are so.. humdrum and "dull"...
they become "friends"...
while.. those "classical jerks" are "dangerous" and thus attractive.. but those who are attractive... will be like candles and ladies come fluttering like moths.. attracted to the light...
and shakespeare wrote: ... the candle has singed the moth...
alas....Originally posted by nuchio:i think a more pressing question is :
where are the nice guys???????
we are looking still...........
most of them maybe at home, say at this time...
so we end up meeting all the classic jerks.... who go out, meet women, ask them out and end up having a relationship with them. -
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Definitions of terms:
Things that attract girls:
1. the attractive guy (see Men_@_arms 18 ways to be a man-guide-manual 1st edition)
2. Money
3. Power
4. Looks; muscular chest, firm thighs, hips, buttocks, big biceps, veiny arms/hands. Clear face, rebonded gelled hair, preferably japanese looking etc etc.
5. Some kind of vehicle (e.g. car, motorbike, humvee, tank etc etc)
Short run; time period within the 1st 20-30 years of female lifespan. Can also be defined as period of time in a relationship which is FABULOUS before the relationship becomes sour.
Long run: Time period after 30 years of female lifespan. Can also be defined as period of time of relationship which has become SOUR AND SUCKY.
Attractive guy
attractive guy in the short run)
"hot, tall (probably blonde), muscular, vehicle-driving, wake-boarding, soccer-kicking (or some other brute sport), gell-smearing, no-contacts-required, well-dressed (i.e. hottest casual trends), rap-shouting, music-playing, cursing, brash, confident, pompous, insulting/joking/cocky, cigarrette smoking (some only), drinking, regularly-dumping-girlfriending, clubbing etc etc" TYPE of guy.
Unattractive guy: (less attractive guy in the short run)
The more abundant (in sg at least) "Nice guys", nerdy (some), chivalrous, kind, polite, soft-spoken, less-brash, study-freaks kinda guys take a backseat in the short run.
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Well ok do nice guys finish last?? Rephrase, do nice guys get it as good and RANDY with girls as much as the jerks do?
Ok. Yes and No.
Short run;
in the early years of female adult-hood, i.e. 15-27 years of age, the female organism undergoes a certain "rite of passage", whereby she is attracted to the attractive guy.
Such guys make the short-run female feel better about herself in front of her girl-friends, such guys can show the female a better time than the "nerdy dorky guai" guys. Such guys give the female A GREAT TIME. She may occasionaly switch such guys, depending on how JERKY they are and dump her for other girls that are dying to be in the arms of such jerks in their respective short run modes.
So yeah, the more attractive kind of guys tend to be jerks because it is easier for them to attract girls by simply.. being jerks most of the time, *wink* well.. at least they let their jerk sides show AFTER they ghet the girl dat is..
This is thanks to American media shows, heavy-metal subculture and other forms of media that emphasize "COOL and HIPNESS" etc etc
Long run:
The shortcoming of the attractive guy, is that in the long run, his short run days of smoking, drinking, DRIVING at high speeds etc cost him lots of $, he runs the risk of dying in accidents, becoming a drug addict or getting his liver **** up. Most of the time, attractive guys bounce off from one girl to another until he retires.
But in the long run, the female usually has had at least 3 or 4 jerks in her "short run" period, she would be pissed off with men in general and may even consider becoming a lesbian. Her long run mode has kicked in, whereby she is more attracted to financial stability, decent gentlemanly-guys who are not sterile yet who can help raise children fruitfully and properly etc. Thus the attractive guy becomes unattractive compared to the formerly unattractive nerdy guy.
Unattractive nerdy guys, in the long run, usually have better paying jobs, more stability and can even enhance their attractiveness with cybernetic enhancements which they can easily pay for with their $.
SO it ALL DEPENDS WHAT KIND OF GUY U ARE NOW? AND WHAT KIND OF GUY U WILL BE! AND WHEN UR LONG RUN PERIOD KICKS IN!!
MUHAHAHA!!
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Agreed!! This is precisely why guys become friends with their friends who are girls, who have seen them for what they are and how "dull" they are.. thus they remain "friends". Guys in friendships like this usually are NICE, talk nicely, NO SWEARING, no cocky-behaviour, gentlemanly and deeply caring about their girl-friends to the extent they become WUSSYOriginally posted by the Bear:told someone before...
those who are "nice" are basically wallflowers.. they are missed and discounted because they are so.. humdrum and "dull"...
they become "friends"...
while.. those "classical jerks" are "dangerous" and thus attractive.. but those who are attractive... will be like candles and ladies come fluttering like moths.. attracted to the light...
and shakespeare wrote: ... the candle has singed the moth...
alas....
Whereas these similar guys can evince attraction in other girls, simply coz they appear to be "DANGEROUS", "MYSTERIOUS" etc etc. GUys here usually are cocky/braggy/ ULTRA ATHLETIC and loud
and usually don't give a damn about their prospective gal-friends
So its all about how you carry yourself
You wanna get girls fast? Simply be a JERK, or give the IMPRESSION you are a jerk if ur really not -
Men_@_Arms official guide for guys on
"10 ways on How to give the impression you are A JERK" 1st-edition.
1. curse or appear to curse
2. have ur friends who are girls spread rumours that u've had over 500 girlfriends and u dumped them all for slender/prettier alternatives on a daily basis
3. Drive some fast-moving vehicle and ultra high speeds while cursing and playing some heavy-metal-techno music
4. Whenever girls are in view at school, close ur books and pretend ur doing ANYTHIGN else but studying..
5. Always join sporting activities and physical activities in full view of girls, and do so ENTHUSIASTICALLY, or at least appear enthusiastically!
6. Appear to be computer illiterate
7. Appear to have A HUNKY GOOD LOOKING BODY
8. Give the impression that u go clubbing on a daily basis complete with ALCOHOL, if not weekly basis.
9. Do dangerious wild-stuff; i.e. roller-blade-skateboard-car-bike etc STUNTS! Shoplift, steal, beat up people, play pranks, prank calls etc etc Or at least give the impression you do such things
10. Brag to girls about your experiences doing points 1-9, or make some stuff up to appear that u've had such experiences.
FOllow these simple tasks and u will be a JERK in no time!! ANd the girls will be CROWDIGN all over you!! -
Really...?Originally posted by men_@_arms:Agreed!! This is precisely why guys become friends with their friends who are girls, who have seen them for what they are and how "dull" they are.. thus they remain "friends". Guys in friendships like this usually are NICE, talk nicely, NO SWEARING, no cocky-behaviour, gentlemanly and deeply caring about their girl-friends to the extent they become WUSSY
Whereas these similar guys can evince attraction in other girls, simply coz they appear to be "DANGEROUS", "MYSTERIOUS" etc etc. GUys here usually are cocky/braggy/ ULTRA ATHLETIC and loud and usually don't give a damn about their prospective gal-friends
So its all about how you carry yourself
You wanna get girls fast? Simply be a JERK, or give the IMPRESSION you are a jerk if ur really not I've always believe in being yourself... For if you ain't..? End of the day, you still AIN'T.... And trying to be a JERK when you're actually not would only make you feel MUCH WORSE as a JERK especially when you're a Mr goodie-nice guy...? -
Yeah... Probably 'blind' girls prefers them... BLINDLY...?Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:Is it true that gals rely prefer the classical jerk?? -
Jerks equal to the short form for Jek_arks
dun be jek ark just to get gals leh.....
finish last also better than jek ark..coz got retribution one....
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Nice guys to me are usually dishonest, and most are good actor + a$$ hole.
Is hard for me to elaborate, you see, if you know a guy, and if you know he is belong to the "bad guy" category, and if you decided to be with him, you will have some kind of self protect againts him, and you will be more sensitive towards him.
Whereas nice guys, they pretent to be nice, quiet, caring, but afterall, when you know him well, he is actaully an a$$ hole. This type of people are always trying to behave good, nice, polite, etc etc, but deep in their heart...when you gave them all of yourself, when you gave all your trust towards them, or when they cannot hold you if you want to leave them, they can do something horrible and despicable, they are worst than animal.
Well, if there are some nice guys reading this, tell me then, how nice you are if you regard yourself as a "NICE GUY"? I don't think you are nice afterall, deep in your heart. Acting to be nice isn't nice at all, perhaps you have the best acting skill, but surely not a "NICE GUY".
Everytime when I saw some guy acting innocent, or trying to be a nice guy, I am kind of irritating and wanted to vomit. -
Nice Guys= Boring Guys
Jerks = Exciting Guys -
well that's yr problem!!!Originally posted by eveline:Nice guys to me are usually dishonest, and most are good actor + a$$ hole.
Is hard for me to elaborate, you see, if you know a guy, and if you know he is belong to the "bad guy" category, and if you decided to be with him, you will have some kind of self protect againts him, and you will be more sensitive towards him.
Whereas nice guys, they pretent to be nice, quiet, caring, but afterall, when you know him well, he is actaully an a$$ hole. This type of people are always trying to behave good, nice, polite, etc etc, but deep in their heart...when you gave them all of yourself, when you gave all your trust towards them, or when they cannot hold you if you want to leave them, they can do something horrible and despicable, they are worst than animal.
Well, if there are some nice guys reading this, tell me then, how nice you are if you regard yourself as a "NICE GUY"? I don't think you are nice afterall, deep in your heart. Acting to be nice isn't nice at all, perhaps you have the best acting skill, but surely not a "NICE GUY".
Everytime when I saw some guy acting innocent, or trying to be a nice guy, I am kind of irritating and wanted to vomit.
how nice must nice be!!!
I know of a few guys who r very nice by my standard!!!
I not saying about myself!!! -
u saying me?Originally posted by Kenashi:well that's yr problem!!!
how nice must nice be!!!
I know of a few guys who r very nice by my standard!!!
I not saying about myself!!! -
no comment!!!Originally posted by BeNo:u saying me? -
Kenna Henpecked consider nice or not?Originally posted by eveline:Nice guys to me are usually dishonest, and most are good actor + a$$ hole.
Is hard for me to elaborate, you see, if you know a guy, and if you know he is belong to the "bad guy" category, and if you decided to be with him, you will have some kind of self protect againts him, and you will be more sensitive towards him.
Whereas nice guys, they pretent to be nice, quiet, caring, but afterall, when you know him well, he is actaully an a$$ hole. This type of people are always trying to behave good, nice, polite, etc etc, but deep in their heart...when you gave them all of yourself, when you gave all your trust towards them, or when they cannot hold you if you want to leave them, they can do something horrible and despicable, they are worst than animal.
Well, if there are some nice guys reading this, tell me then, how nice you are if you regard yourself as a "NICE GUY"? I don't think you are nice afterall, deep in your heart. Acting to be nice isn't nice at all, perhaps you have the best acting skill, but surely not a "NICE GUY".
Everytime when I saw some guy acting innocent, or trying to be a nice guy, I am kind of irritating and wanted to vomit. -
Eveline is talking about experience.Originally posted by Kenashi:well that's yr problem!!!
how nice must nice be!!!
I know of a few guys who r very nice by my standard!!!
I not saying about myself!!!
Must be tough on you Eveline.....
I agree with Kenashi, not all nice persons are rotten inside...
Ah yes, i am a nice person with a devil personality inside...
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same hereOriginally posted by kops21:Eveline is talking about experience.
Must be tough on you Eveline.....
I agree with Kenashi, not all nice persons are rotten inside...
Ah yes, i am a nice person with a devil personality inside... -
cant wait to know u and see u vomit infront of me...Originally posted by eveline:Everytime when I saw some guy acting innocent, or trying to be a nice guy, I am kind of irritating and wanted to vomit.