Nice guys finish last ??
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Well, the fact is, there is no nice guy on this earth. What I mean is, a nice guy will not tell you, or behave to be a "Nice Guy" infront of you. Believe it or not, if you know the true personality of a so-called "Nice Guy", you will actually realize that they might worst than those classical jerks. So, afterall, no one is nice guy, why they want to act like they are nice, good? Why act? Isn't it irritating to behave like that? At least a jerk won't act like that.
What I am trying to say is, "there is no nice guy in this world, those pretent to be nice, are infact, worst than a jerk"
A jerk can be a nice though. A pretender is nothing more than a piece of $hit.
I have seen too many "Nice Guy"s in my life, whether related to me directly, or my friends.
Hey nice guy here, are you really a nice guy? Yeah, what? you are a nice guy? Don't be foolish, Nice Guy? Ha! *Despises on you* -
Originally posted by BeNo:cant wait to know u and see u vomit infront of me...
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where got nice guy declare he is nice guy just like where got jerk declare he is jerk one!!!Originally posted by eveline:Well, the fact is, there is no nice guy on this earth. What I mean is, a nice guy will not tell you, or behave to be a "Nice Guy" infront of you. Believe it or not, if you know the true personality of a so-called "Nice Guy", you will actually realize that they might worst than those classical jerks. So, afterall, no one is nice guy, why they want to act like they are nice, good? Why act? Isn't it irritating to behave like that? At least a jerk won't act like that.
What I am trying to say is, "there is no nice guy in this world, those pretent to be nice, are infact, worst than a jerk"
A jerk can be a nice though. A pretender is nothing more than a piece of $hit.
I have seen too many "Nice Guy"s in my life, whether related to me directly, or my friends.
Hey nice guy here, are you really a nice guy?
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If u aready had the perception to label every guy not a nice guy of cos u wont find one. It depends on how u define nice for urself.Originally posted by eveline:Well, the fact is, there is no nice guy on this earth. What I mean is, a nice guy will not tell you, or behave to be a "Nice Guy" infront of you. Believe it or not, if you know the true personality of a so-called "Nice Guy", you will actually realize that they might worst than those classical jerks. So, afterall, no one is nice guy, why they want to act like they are nice, good? Why act? Isn't it irritating to behave like that? At least a jerk won't act like that.
What I am trying to say is, "there is no nice guy in this world, those pretent to be nice, are infact, worst than a jerk"
A jerk can be a nice though. A pretender is nothing more than a piece of $hit.
I have seen too many "Nice Guy"s in my life, whether related to me directly, or my friends.
Hey nice guy here, are you really a nice guy?
And THERE ARE nice guys in this world. -
ok...so is there anymore nice gals ard since u said there is no more nice guys...Originally posted by eveline:Well, the fact is, there is no nice guy on this earth. What I mean is, a nice guy will not tell you, or behave to be a "Nice Guy" infront of you. Believe it or not, if you know the true personality of a so-called "Nice Guy", you will actually realize that they might worst than those classical jerks. So, afterall, no one is nice guy, why they want to act like they are nice, good? Why act? Isn't it irritating to behave like that? At least a jerk won't act like that.
What I am trying to say is, "there is no nice guy in this world, those pretent to be nice, are infact, worst than a jerk"
A jerk can be a nice though. A pretender is nothing more than a piece of $hit.
I have seen too many "Nice Guy"s in my life, whether related to me directly, or my friends.
Hey nice guy here, are you really a nice guy? Yeah, what? you are a nice guy? Don't be foolish, Nice Guy? Ha! *Despises on you* -
Infact, I am not interested to know whether there is nice guy in this world, what I am trying to say is, it's irritating to see a$$ hole act like nice guy, but the true under their mask....they are worst than those jerk.
As I said, a jerk can be nice though. Pretender = 100% a$$ hole. -
ok tats ur businessOriginally posted by eveline:Infact, I am not interested to know whether there is nice guy in this world, what I am trying to say is, it's irritating to see a$$ hole act like nice guy, but the true under their mask....they are worst than those jerk.
As I said, a jerk can be nice though. Pretender = 100% a$$ hole. -
but I never seen anyone not living under a mask after he/she become an adult!!Originally posted by eveline:Infact, I am not interested to know whether there is nice guy in this world, what I am trying to say is, it's irritating to see a$$ hole act like nice guy, but the true under their mask....they are worst than those jerk.
As I said, a jerk can be nice though. Pretender = 100% a$$ hole.
can u afford to be bare!!
I can say that even u r living behind a mask.
the same goes for everyone!! -
Yeah, understand, and agree. But is irritating for those behind the mask say something like:Originally posted by Kenashi:but I never seen anyone not living under a mask after he/she become an adult!!
can u afford to be bare!!
I can say that even u r living behind a mask.
the same goes for everyone!!
"Hey, I am a nice guy" -no brain
"I am a nice guy, why I always lose out" - losser
"Why ladies like jerks rather than nice guy like me?" -losser + jealous mamaboy
Don't say and don't tell people you are nice guy, afterall, you have nothing better than a jerk. -
well...
no one can say for sure who is nice.. who isnt.. there isnt a defination...
as long as to u.. the person is nice... he is nice..
a jerk can be nice if u think he is.. its all in the mind...
esp when comes to love.. is blind.. to ohers.. he might be a jerk.. to her.. the apple of the eyes...
agree with eveline that those who brand themselves as 'nice guys', the pretenders.. are maybe arses..
but perhpas.. u would like to take a look with ur heart and know some people from inside.. genuine pple are to be felt and known.. not to be told n believe...
everyone is a jerk and yet mr nice in somewhere or and another.. just the degree of being nice or jerk...
btmline.. its all in the eyes of the beholder...
feel with ur heart... u know if the guy is nice or not... as in genuinely...
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That is an interesting addition to my analysis.Originally posted by eveline:Nice guys to me are usually dishonest, and most are good actor + a$$ hole.
Is hard for me to elaborate, you see, if you know a guy, and if you know he is belong to the "bad guy" category, and if you decided to be with him, you will have some kind of self protect againts him, and you will be more sensitive towards him.
Whereas nice guys, they pretent to be nice, quiet, caring, but afterall, when you know him well, he is actaully an a$$ hole. This type of people are always trying to behave good, nice, polite, etc etc, but deep in their heart...when you gave them all of yourself, when you gave all your trust towards them, or when they cannot hold you if you want to leave them, they can do something horrible and despicable, they are worst than animal.
Well, if there are some nice guys reading this, tell me then, how nice you are if you regard yourself as a "NICE GUY"? I don't think you are nice afterall, deep in your heart. Acting to be nice isn't nice at all, perhaps you have the best acting skill, but surely not a "NICE GUY".
Everytime when I saw some guy acting innocent, or trying to be a nice guy, I am kind of irritating and wanted to vomit.
So while you've got NICE guys trying to be JERKS to get girls. You can have JERKS pretending to be nice guys to get girls!
So which case is more in abundance??? The jerks pretending to be nice or the nice being themselves? Or the jerks just being themselves? Or the nice guys trying to be jerks? -
Originally posted by eveline:
Gentlemen!! See what i mean? To the female in her short run mode, the non-nice-guy is more attractive. Because the nice guy is just too dull, to the extent that comparitively, EVELINE, prefers the jerk.
Well, the fact is, there is no nice guy on this earth. What I mean is, a nice guy will not tell you, or behave to be a "Nice Guy" infront of you. Believe it or not, if you know the true personality of a so-called "Nice Guy", you will actually realize that they might worst than those classical jerks. So, afterall, no one is nice guy, why they want to act like they are nice, good? Why act? Isn't it irritating to behave like that? At least a jerk won't act like that.
What I am trying to say is, "there is no nice guy in this world, those pretent to be nice, are infact, worst than a jerk"
[b]A jerk can be a nice though. A pretender is nothing more than a piece of $hit.
I have seen too many "Nice Guy"s in my life, whether related to me directly, or my friends.
Hey nice guy here, are you really a nice guy? Yeah, what? you are a nice guy? Don't be foolish, Nice Guy? Ha! *Despises on you*
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I rest my case. There are many short-run females like Eveline around.. -
You don't declare. U let ur actions/behaviour speak for you. For it is your actions/amount of money/clothes/hair/body/speech/car etc etc that determines your level of attractiveness to females.Originally posted by Kenashi:where got nice guy declare he is nice guy just like where got jerk declare he is jerk one!!! -
No offences, but its precisely that some gals have mentality like urs: When a "nice guy" appear, they think its too gd to be true, he's a wolf in sheep's clothings.Originally posted by eveline:Well, the fact is, there is no nice guy on this earth. What I mean is, a nice guy will not tell you, or behave to be a "Nice Guy" infront of you. Believe it or not, if you know the true personality of a so-called "Nice Guy", you will actually realize that they might worst than those classical jerks. So, afterall, no one is nice guy, why they want to act like they are nice, good? Why act? Isn't it irritating to behave like that? At least a jerk won't act like that.
What I am trying to say is, "there is no nice guy in this world, those pretent to be nice, are infact, worst than a jerk"
A jerk can be a nice though. A pretender is nothing more than a piece of $hit.
I have seen too many "Nice Guy"s in my life, whether related to me directly, or my friends.
Hey nice guy here, are you really a nice guy? Yeah, what? you are a nice guy? Don't be foolish, Nice Guy? Ha! *Despises on you*
And like a self-fufilling prophecy, u go for the obviously "jerk", thinkin he can't get worse.
After months of ill-treatment frm him, u will ask urself "Wher are all the nce guys??" -
When i say "Nice guy always lose out to jerks" , i dun mean those that print 'nice guys' on their forehead or those jerks pretending to be nice..Originally posted by eveline:Yeah, understand, and agree. But is irritating for those behind the mask say something like:
"Hey, I am a nice guy" -no brain
"I am a nice guy, why I always lose out" - losser
"Why ladies like jerks rather than nice guy like me?" -losser + jealous mamaboy
Don't say and don't tell people you are nice guy, afterall, you have nothing better than a jerk.
What i mean are those rely good at heart, but maybe less expressive, less outspoken ones.
But frm what u have said, guess it jus proves my point
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X 2Originally posted by eveline:Well, the fact is, there is no nice guy on this earth. What I mean is, a nice guy will not tell you, or behave to be a "Nice Guy" infront of you. Believe it or not, if you know the true personality of a so-called "Nice Guy", you will actually realize that they might worst than those classical jerks. So, afterall, no one is nice guy, why they want to act like they are nice, good? Why act? Isn't it irritating to behave like that? At least a jerk won't act like that.
What I am trying to say is, "there is no nice guy in this world, those pretent to be nice, are infact, worst than a jerk"
A jerk can be a nice though. A pretender is nothing more than a piece of $hit.
I have seen too many "Nice Guy"s in my life, whether related to me directly, or my friends.
Hey nice guy here, are you really a nice guy? Yeah, what? you are a nice guy? Don't be foolish, Nice Guy? Ha! *Despises on you* or rather there are too many black sheeps around pretending to be nice guys. -
I agreed. Hate guys who pretended to be ''nice guy''...anyway, there are no nice guys in this world. So be careful of guys who are especially nice and caring to you for no good reason, makes me feel uncomfortable.Originally posted by eveline:Nice guys to me are usually dishonest, and most are good actor + a$$ hole.
Is hard for me to elaborate, you see, if you know a guy, and if you know he is belong to the "bad guy" category, and if you decided to be with him, you will have some kind of self protect againts him, and you will be more sensitive towards him.
Whereas nice guys, they pretent to be nice, quiet, caring, but afterall, when you know him well, he is actaully an a$$ hole. This type of people are always trying to behave good, nice, polite, etc etc, but deep in their heart...when you gave them all of yourself, when you gave all your trust towards them, or when they cannot hold you if you want to leave them, they can do something horrible and despicable, they are worst than animal.
Well, if there are some nice guys reading this, tell me then, how nice you are if you regard yourself as a "NICE GUY"? I don't think you are nice afterall, deep in your heart. Acting to be nice isn't nice at all, perhaps you have the best acting skill, but surely not a "NICE GUY".
Everytime when I saw some guy acting innocent, or trying to be a nice guy, I am kind of irritating and wanted to vomit.
And yes...''nice guy'' are all small-time actors. Observe them long enough and you will know that they are not that nice afterall. -
Shrugs... I pity your experiences with "Nice Guys".Originally posted by eveline:Well, the fact is, there is no nice guy on this earth. What I mean is, a nice guy will not tell you, or behave to be a "Nice Guy" infront of you. Believe it or not, if you know the true personality of a so-called "Nice Guy", you will actually realize that they might worst than those classical jerks. So, afterall, no one is nice guy, why they want to act like they are nice, good? Why act? Isn't it irritating to behave like that? At least a jerk won't act like that.
What I am trying to say is, "there is no nice guy in this world, those pretent to be nice, are infact, worst than a jerk"
A jerk can be a nice though. A pretender is nothing more than a piece of $hit.
I have seen too many "Nice Guy"s in my life, whether related to me directly, or my friends.
Hey nice guy here, are you really a nice guy? Yeah, what? you are a nice guy? Don't be foolish, Nice Guy? Ha! *Despises on you*
The following is my point of view:
When you say a jerk can be a nice guy that guy in question is no longer a jerk in your eyes but "upgrades" himself into a "Nice Guy". Unless you think that he's a Nice Jerk(pretty oxymoronic eh)?
"A man can kill and still be the sweetest thing... " Took that right out of a song. I guess that's why you say a jerk can be nice...
I consider myself as a nice guy... I may not be a "perfect" guy but I know I'll TRY to be as nice as possible to everyone around me. I'm as much a victim of circumstances as the next guy... sometimes... I do things that I'm not proud of but deep down I know I wouldn't if I had the choice. You might say that I'm looking for excuses and thus qualify as a "pretender"... you are entitled to your opinions I guess... shrugs... -
dittoOriginally posted by men_@_arms:You don't declare. U let ur actions/behaviour speak for you. For it is your actions/amount of money/clothes/hair/body/speech/car etc etc that determines your level of attractiveness to females.
everyone judges everyone else on soooooo many levels
also, wad u want out of a relationship would also very much depend on what kind of partners u're looking out for.
like wad men_@_arms said, the short term mode gal is looking for thrill and excitement and any1 able to provide that would almost certainly hitch a gal.
nice guy who participates in adventurous sports or outdoor activities vigorously could also come out as attractive, not necessarily jerks
jerks who smoke and take drugs and hide in one corner and afraid to see the light of the day might not have any1 love him either... works both ways
long term gal looks for stability and support so yeah rich jerks can also give u that wad...
anyway the point is nice guys dont necessarily finish last all the time
but pretenders do especially to those who have seen their true colours.
it's really miserable not having a personality of your own. -
All this talks about niceness makes me wonder, do we do good deed because we are nice or because it is nice to do good deeds.
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then if ppl say i very nice guy how!!!Originally posted by eveline:Yeah, understand, and agree. But is irritating for those behind the mask say something like:
"Hey, I am a nice guy" -no brain
"I am a nice guy, why I always lose out" - losser
"Why ladies like jerks rather than nice guy like me?" -losser + jealous mamaboy
Don't say and don't tell people you are nice guy, afterall, you have nothing better than a jerk. -
we do good deeds from the heart..Originally posted by pete98:All this talks about niceness makes me wonder, do we do good deed because we are nice or because it is nice to do good deeds.
not bcos we think its nice ot its nice to do...
and its hard to define wat is a good deed...
cos diff perception... unless we can see the mass market doing it...
just look at the case regarding Eileen Wee on donating the amt being bid on her for dinner to the charity...
cos some deeds we do.. the motive unknown.. but doing a good deed shouldnt involve any motive.. unless for the goodwill of the mass.. -
Amongst the girls that were attached for my primary school friends.
one (similar to FI in terms of attitude) her bf has a bike, but actually is a friendly and nice guy...
one very demure, her bf is a nice guy... not really that playful..
one with a Norwegian, but the norwegian is extremely friendly and polite it gives me the creeps.
another 4 still unattached.
As for guys...
The 'Bad' boys are all unattached. One is even very handsome and fit.
Are you sure that formula works for all? No, no. I think it does not work for my primary school classmates. -
Not every women goes by the name of 'eveline'...?Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:When i say "Nice guy always lose out to jerks" , i dun mean those that print 'nice guys' on their forehead or those jerks pretending to be nice..
What i mean are those rely good at heart, but maybe less expressive, less outspoken ones.
But frm what u have said, guess it jus proves my point -
And are we really jerks or nice guys... Or are we just pretending to be jerks or nice guys just to get the girls' attention...? And truly, I reckon Eveline would be more of detesting hypocrites than 'nice guys' as a conclusive thing... Who says that jerks don't pretend anyway?Originally posted by pete98:All this talks about niceness makes me wonder, do we do good deed because we are nice or because it is nice to do good deeds.
"What spins the world, would probably spins your head too much eventually...." Just be yourself?