Cut the CRAPS. Just tell us more about the 4 unattached girls?Originally posted by Nelstar:Amongst the girls that were attached for my primary school friends.
one (similar to FI in terms of attitude) her bf has a bike, but actually is a friendly and nice guy...
one very demure, her bf is a nice guy... not really that playful..
one with a Norwegian, but the norwegian is extremely friendly and polite it gives me the creeps.
another 4 still unattached.
As for guys...
The 'Bad' boys are all unattached. One is even very handsome and fit.
Are you sure that formula works for all? No, no. I think it does not work for my primary school classmates.
Originally posted by Devil1976:Cut the CRAPS. Just tell us more about the 4 unattached girls?"
Bloody AYE!!Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:When i say "Nice guy always lose out to jerks" , i dun mean those that print 'nice guys' on their forehead or those jerks pretending to be nice..
What i mean are those rely good at heart, but maybe less expressive, less outspoken ones.
But frm what u have said, guess it jus proves my point![]()
Sorry i define short term mode as in teenage years.. not primary years.Originally posted by Nelstar:Amongst the girls that were attached for my primary school friends.
one (similar to FI in terms of attitude) her bf has a bike, but actually is a friendly and nice guy...
one very demure, her bf is a nice guy... not really that playful..
one with a Norwegian, but the norwegian is extremely friendly and polite it gives me the creeps.
another 4 still unattached.
As for guys...
The 'Bad' boys are all unattached. One is even very handsome and fit.
Are you sure that formula works for all? No, no. I think it does not work for my primary school classmates.
Yes interesting point brought about by Bear.Originally posted by the Bear:about the "different levels"...
people remember the things that stand out...
so a nice guy does his best and is good all the time... the one time that stands out is the one time he screws up... and the girl remembers that screw-up forgetting the rest of the goodness that he essentially is..
so she leaves him and cries bitterly that he has screwed up and is unworthy of her...
and a jerk... he's essentially one HUGE screw-up... so his terrible behaviour is forgotten as people are desensitised to it... he does one tender loving thing... which is out of the ordinary... and his girl REMEMBERS that ONE THING..
so she sticks with him because she remembers that ONE THING and will stand by him even when he's a total asswipe to her most of the time...
what gives??
ladies, think about it...
hehe! My analysis says the same thingOriginally posted by alienated:I think this question is very subjective, some gals would like nice guys, some will go head overs heels with so called jerks. I believed a person will change over time. Those in their teens would prefer the wilder jerks who would add spice to their life, as one matures, one would prefer more security, thus choosing the nice guy. Not everyone is like this of course. I think a man with a mixture of both is the best. Nice guys are mostly seen as boring and they usually sit one corner and hope to be seen (introverts) while wilder guys attracts attention and always in the limelight (extroverts). Of course, this is a generalisation. Not every one is like this.
Whichever way is hard, the easiest way is to be yourself.Originally posted by pete98:Hmmm which is hader? Nice guys trying to be like jerks or jerks trying to be? nice
Haha so being "ourselves" does that mean we are nice guys?Originally posted by Blueskyz:Whichever way is hard, the easiest way is to be yourself.
Life is already not easy by itself, why make it difficult.
haha... no man. Anyway, i dun go n get girls juz cause I read lit more. It's just a finer appreciation of a refined art.Originally posted by men_@_arms:so we've gotta read lots of romeo and juliet and REHEARSE the lines to girls in order to get girls,. is that it??? Is that how u got girls by reading shakespeare?? Shit i gotta try that.
interestingOriginally posted by the Bear:about the "different levels"...
people remember the things that stand out...
so a nice guy does his best and is good all the time... the one time that stands out is the one time he screws up... and the girl remembers that screw-up forgetting the rest of the goodness that he essentially is..
so she leaves him and cries bitterly that he has screwed up and is unworthy of her...
and a jerk... he's essentially one HUGE screw-up... so his terrible behaviour is forgotten as people are desensitised to it... he does one tender loving thing... which is out of the ordinary... and his girl REMEMBERS that ONE THING..
so she sticks with him because she remembers that ONE THING and will stand by him even when he's a total asswipe to her most of the time...
what gives??
ladies, think about it...
Yep looks like many many girls out there like the M&S style of love.. if it dont hurt it aint love... so looks like I'll have to change the way I behave too.Originally posted by men_@_arms:So with all these infinite posibilities of being naughty and nice. It seems more worth a guy's while to be A JERK, or a NICE JERK, or a BAD ASS guy rather than a NICE demure kind of guy?
HAHAHA hear hear! We're WITH YOU!! YARRRGHHH *draws sword*Originally posted by supercharger:Yep looks like many many girls out there like the M&S style of love.. if it dont hurt it aint love... so looks like I'll have to change the way I behave too.
One friend said.. if you treat a girl nice she will leave you. If you treat her bad, she will cling on to you... hahaha how true!
Originally posted by OrneryBoy:not all ladies are attracted to bad boys, some likes the shy ones..
which are harder to find for you, ladies??