I felt in love with a gal...help me...
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I know her sometime 4-5 years ago , remember that time i like her friend.I asked her to help me jio her friend.But in the end I failed.Recently dont know why i feel tat i like her.Maybe because we share the same interest and hobby.We get along very well.We chatted online offen and even got to chat with her on phone.
But problem is tat she treat me like her brother , which is not i wanted.I sometimes felt like telling her that I like her.But I just cant say it.We called each other by our name,but soon I ask her if I can call her DEAR.She didnt object.So from the day till now I been calling her that.
I am here to share my problems if anyone could gif me some advice...thanks -
but if you tell her that you wanna call her dear, she should take the hint?
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ask her out... talk about stuff..
talk about stuff like time spent.. maybe tell her of your hopes and dreams..
and then maybe say that it would be nice if she was part of it...
slowly slowly
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hmm.. seems like you stand rather a good chance.. well.. start off knowing her even more.. and better... don't pop out the questions yet.. unless you know that she likes you too.. and you can confirm that you get her to be your gf.. unless no use telling if you wan to proceed to another kind of r/s..Originally posted by voiceoflove999:I know her sometime 4-5 years ago , remember that time i like her friend.I asked her to help me jio her friend.But in the end I failed.Recently dont know why i feel tat i like her.Maybe because we share the same interest and hobby.We get along very well.We chatted online offen and even got to chat with her on phone.
But problem is tat she treat me like her brother , which is not i wanted.I sometimes felt like telling her that I like her.But I just cant say it.We called each other by our name,but soon I ask her if I can call her DEAR.She didnt object.So from the day till now I been calling her that.
I am here to share my problems if anyone could gif me some advice...thanks
Slow slow and slow.. take your pace to work things out..
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Erhmm not to splash cold water on you.
I have a very good guyfriend whom I know likes me but I only treat him like a brother.
We have more interest in common, more topics to talk about then I have with my fiance.
I have slept over at his place on the same bed (nothing happened ok) travelled together but still no spark.
Btw, there is nothing wrong with him. He's a great guy and have 2 large houses. But no spark means no spark.
I dunno in your case it might be different. -
u slept over at his place
ur fiance knows?
hmmm... jus curious, if ur fiance slept over at another gal's place on the same bed asuuming he tells u nothing happened, how would u feel?Originally posted by elindra:Erhmm not to splash cold water on you.
I have a very good guyfriend whom I know likes me but I only treat him like a brother.
We have more interest in common, more topics to talk about then I have with my fiance.
I have slept over at his place on the same bed (nothing happened ok) travelled together but still no spark.
Btw, there is nothing wrong with him. He's a great guy and have 2 large houses. But no spark means no spark.
I dunno in your case it might be different. -
Played with fire.
Did not get burnt, feel a bit heat, but not the warmth you seek. -
Ermmm you trying to commit sucide is it?Originally posted by foga:u slept over at his place
ur fiance knows?
hmmm... jus curious, if ur fiance slept over at another gal's place on the same bed asuuming he tells u nothing happened, how would u feel?
Anyway I feel that you should go for it but take it slow. Ask her out more often and slowly start going places that are romantic. Unless shes very dense about such things, I believe she should get some hints. -
Btw, I got to know him before my fiance and that was way before I'm with my fiance.Originally posted by foga:u slept over at his place
ur fiance knows?
hmmm... jus curious, if ur fiance slept over at another gal's place on the same bed asuuming he tells u nothing happened, how would u feel?
Anyway he knows la. He knows I travel him and such also. -
tat the point i scared
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my bed is always ready for u....Originally posted by elindra:Btw, I got to know him before my fiance and that was way before I'm with my fiance.
Anyway he knows la. He knows I travel him and such also.
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i think she can get ur hint and if she dun react to it..den dun force it..
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Better make sure what you are thinking is the same as hers.. You don't wanna a one sided thingy do you?? Like what the others mention.. Take your time.. You MAY have won half the battle..Originally posted by voiceoflove999:I know her sometime 4-5 years ago , remember that time i like her friend.I asked her to help me jio her friend.But in the end I failed.Recently dont know why i feel tat i like her.Maybe because we share the same interest and hobby.We get along very well.We chatted online offen and even got to chat with her on phone.
But problem is tat she treat me like her brother , which is not i wanted.I sometimes felt like telling her that I like her.But I just cant say it.We called each other by our name,but soon I ask her if I can call her DEAR.She didnt object.So from the day till now I been calling her that.
I am here to share my problems if anyone could gif me some advice...thanks -
I call a lot of gals "dear"...opps...Originally posted by voiceoflove999:I ask her if I can call her DEAR.She didnt object.So from the day till now I been calling her that.
sometimes dont think too much and assume that "dear" has a special meaning...some gals do.some gals dont.
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just ask herOriginally posted by voiceoflove999:I know her sometime 4-5 years ago , remember that time i like her friend.I asked her to help me jio her friend.But in the end I failed.Recently dont know why i feel tat i like her.Maybe because we share the same interest and hobby.We get along very well.We chatted online offen and even got to chat with her on phone.
But problem is tat she treat me like her brother , which is not i wanted.I sometimes felt like telling her that I like her.But I just cant say it.We called each other by our name,but soon I ask her if I can call her DEAR.She didnt object.So from the day till now I been calling her that.
I am here to share my problems if anyone could gif me some advice...thanks
"ASGM ?" -
know her sometime 4-5 years ago , remember that time i like her friend.I asked her to help me jio her friend.But in the end I failed.Recently dont know why i feel tat i like her.Maybe because we share the same interest and hobby.We get along very well.We chatted online offen and even got to chat with her on phone.
i'm going to be straight with my words here, so don't mind me.
But problem is tat she treat me like her brother , which is not i wanted.I sometimes felt like telling her that I like her.But I just cant say it.We called each other by our name,but soon I ask her if I can call her DEAR.She didnt object.So from the day till now I been calling her that.
I am here to share my problems if anyone could gif me some advice...thanks
you wanna know why she told you that she treats you like her brother? it's because she already KNOWS your feelings for her, and she's putting a 'STOP' sign in front of your face. i'm sure you don't want it, but face it: she treats you as a close friend, nothing more.
so why do you guys get along so well? (ie. chat online often, chat on the phone, share common interests and hobbies.)
let me ask you: don't you get along very well with your male buddies as well? so why can't there be the same thing for girls? and NO ONE said that if a girl gets along with you, it means that she is interested in you.
please understand that it is perfectly normal for a girl to have male buddies. until the day you understand this, you will never be able to get out of this abyss.
and you're wondering why you can get away by calling her 'dear'.
my question for you is: are you doing anything with her that can define you as 'lovers'? or are the both of you just carrying on life like nothing has happened, except for the fact that you can call her 'dear'?
if your answer is the second, then it simply means that you're thinking too much.
and you're only trying to cheat yourself that you stand a chance with her. if not, you wouldn't have bothered to bring out all those facts (ie. chat sessions over the phone, common interests, etc.) to support yourself.
find another girl, brother. why waste your time with a girl that doesn't appreciate you? there are so many girls out there! i don't believe that she's so unique that no one can match her.
of course, you can choose to treat whatever i've said as pure rubbish and continue to worship her.
the choice is yours
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yes...after reading your passage...it put me to think abt the pass...the time i spend with her...its just like you said above....she putting a stop to me treating me as her brother...
well to me she is unique.she is special.she is god in my heart...everytime when i am down...but once i see her my mind fill up with joy and i would forgot wad brings me down...she lighted my life.
yes i believe there sure are girls better than her in town...but what for?do i like them?do i feel about them?NO
I want her...only her...i nv have such feeling toward any girls before...i have a feeling tat she the one whom i can spend my next half of my life with... -
hmm.. u sound so naive, young to me...........Originally posted by voiceoflove999:yes...after reading your passage...it put me to think abt the pass...the time i spend with her...its just like you said above....she putting a stop to me treating me as her brother...
well to me she is unique.she is special.she is god in my heart...everytime when i am down...but once i see her my mind fill up with joy and i would forgot wad brings me down...she lighted my life.
yes i believe there sure are girls better than her in town...but what for?do i like them?do i feel about them?NO
I want her...only her...i nv have such feeling toward any girls before...i have a feeling tat she the one whom i can spend my next half of my life with...
hahaha.. how old r u? -
Really huh, so do you want me to bring along a chainsaw? M16? Bazooka? Katana? Or do you prefer my hubby standing over looking with a parangOriginally posted by chunyong:my bed is always ready for u.... -
Try going out with her more often and cultivate the feelings?
take it slow and easy lor..dun scare her away.
some people are better left to be friends. -
I scare if i get too close to her she will run away....i don wish to lose tis friend too
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btw, is this your first (and serious) crush on a girl? you sounded exactly like me when i had my first crush
at this stage, there's nothing much you can do. if you still want to keep her as a friend, tell her straight in the face that you have no interest in her anymore and that you just wanna remain as friends with her. serious! you can't expect her to read your mind and know what you're thinking, right?
i know your head's still full of her right now, and you swear to God that you won't want any other girl other than her. i can guarantee you that when you meet another girl-of-your-dreams, you will forget everything about her.
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what are you still waiting for? hold her hand then...if she didn't reject then congrats to you...if she reject it...you may ended up in the police staion for molesting...Originally posted by voiceoflove999:I know her sometime 4-5 years ago , remember that time i like her friend.I asked her to help me jio her friend.But in the end I failed.Recently dont know why i feel tat i like her.Maybe because we share the same interest and hobby.We get along very well.We chatted online offen and even got to chat with her on phone.
But problem is tat she treat me like her brother , which is not i wanted.I sometimes felt like telling her that I like her.But I just cant say it.We called each other by our name,but soon I ask her if I can call her DEAR.She didnt object.So from the day till now I been calling her that.
I am here to share my problems if anyone could gif me some advice...thanks -
grab and goOriginally posted by Danisdead101times:what are you still waiting for? hold her hand then...if she didn't reject then congrats to you...if she reject it...you may ended up in the police staion for molesting... -
U neber tell him grab where?Originally posted by monkeybusiness:grab and go