Originally posted by voiceoflove999:
I know her sometime 4-5 years ago , remember that time i like her friend.I asked her to help me jio her friend.But in the end I failed.Recently dont know why i feel tat i like her.Maybe because we share the same interest and hobby.We get along very well.We chatted online offen and even got to chat with her on phone.
But problem is tat she treat me like her brother , which is not i wanted.I sometimes felt like telling her that I like her.But I just cant say it.We called each other by our name,but soon I ask her if I can call her DEAR.She didnt object.So from the day till now I been calling her that.
I am here to share my problems if anyone could gif me some advice...thanks
I agree with verloren!
Some gals can be good friends, some can be soul mates and yet some gals can only be sister and among this, there can only be one that can and will spend the rest of your life with you.
I use to like this gal that I got to know from my Uni days, perhaps just because I was hanging around with her more often and we really have many things in common. We were not together then (not now or ever because I have found The One) but I used to fetch her from work, dine together.. basically spent time together. I understand that we can only be good friends and that's that. I moved on with my life and still we are good friends. To be truthful in relationship (no matter which type) is also important. I did let her know that I like her and that I even thought of wooing her but I told her that I did some thinking through and thought we did better off be friends
It's important not to let your feeling 'run lose' and be open-minded about relationship. You will find it easier to go on with life rather then to waste time brooding this.
Its cool to have good gal friends, better not friends at all, isn't?
