why are guys afraid to leave their gfs....
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even though they know they have someone else in their heart.
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They are scare of insufficient sex
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the not sure if the one in mind is better than the present....
and once a choice is make theres no turning back... -
haha so the ans. is better to be safe then sorry?
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Bcos they are not willing to exchange somethings that are aready present for something that may not be present.Originally posted by cutepixie:even though they know they have someone else in their heart.
Basically they are either scared of the consequences or duno how to face the after math of it. -
Aren't guys selfish if that's the case?Originally posted by shaunlaw:Bcos they are not willing to exchange somethings that are aready present for something that may not be present.
Basically they are either scared of the consequences or duno how to face the after math of it.
If they are so afraid to leave their gfs, then y dun they leave the "someone in their heart" and loves their gfs wholeheartly? -
it happens to the gals too.Originally posted by ak0:the not sure if the one in mind is better than the present....
and once a choice is make theres no turning back... -
My most common gripe now.Originally posted by cutepixie:even though they know they have someone else in their heart.
Gf/Bf shud have the guts to be honest, and admit when their feelings have change. -
True. Relationship not like the buffet table. Ppl need to learn to finish what's on their plate first before moving on to the next dish.Originally posted by v gal:Aren't guys selfish if that's the case?
If they are so afraid to leave their gfs, then y dun they leave the "someone in their heart" and loves their gfs wholeheartly? -
Mayb loves has turn to bcome commitment... but watever guys do bhind their gf back, plz wipe your mouth after dat.Originally posted by cutepixie:even though they know they have someone else in their heart. 
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U are rite to say guys are selfish in that way. Pls dun get the idea I am defending those who are doing so. I am just stating my opinion.Originally posted by v gal:Aren't guys selfish if that's the case?
If they are so afraid to leave their gfs, then y dun they leave the "someone in their heart" and loves their gfs wholeheartly?
As for why cant they love one person wholeheartedly, u will have to ask them. But as u said, they are selfish, so a selfish person doesnt know what is called one at a time. -
If guys juz leave their gf without another spare gf. Than where to find sex partner when the need arise?
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because most of the time, they use their dick to think
Originally posted by cutepixie:even though they know they have someone else in their heart. -
Yah lor,Originally posted by MeoW_MeoW:because most of the time, they use their dick to think
"Men Got Two Heads To Think" and "Women Got Two Mouths To Talk" yeah? -
Can i ask.... would you want your gf/bf to betray you emotionally (as in there is someone else in their heart and mind) or physically (as in sex)?
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U mean THERE is a CHOICE!!??Originally posted by v gal:Can i ask.... would you want your gf/bf to betray you emotionally (as in there is someone else in their heart and mind) or physically (as in sex)?
I wudn't want to be betrayed, period. Hurts like sh*t. -
agree... in life we have so little choices, its in destiny's hand
Originally posted by Fuqua:U mean THERE is a CHOICE!!??
I wudn't want to be betrayed, period. Hurts like sh*t. -
Maybe they like the excitment of two-timing?
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From my past experience.....
When I was in my younger days, I was always afraid that my GF will leave me. It's not just because of sex alone but a combination of loneliness, jealousy and boredom. When I got older, I found out and realised that wtf, its only one girl. What so great about her? There are so many girls in Singapore. Who do they think they are? There are so many other girls around especially those from Vietnam, Malaysia, Cambodia. The girls from the countryside of these countries are so much more loving and caring and listens to you. What have this world became? I see most of the young guys now don't have backbone. Afraid of their GFs. Many say we respect her....RESPECT my foot. No balls say no balls. In Singapore, I think girls are dominating the sexes. I think this is crap. Women are always inferior to men. If any man there need help with this area, let me know and I will show you how to become a real MAN!!! -
OLD MAN!!! you are absolutely A DOMINEERING MALE CHAUVINIST PIG!Originally posted by Very Old Man:From my past experience.....
When I was in my younger days, I was always afraid that my GF will leave me. It's not just because of sex alone but a combination of loneliness, jealousy and boredom. When I got older, I found out and realised that wtf, its only one girl. What so great about her? There are so many girls in Singapore. Who do they think they are? There are so many other girls around especially those from Vietnam, Malaysia, Cambodia. The girls from the countryside of these countries are so much more loving and caring and listens to you. What have this world became? I see most of the young guys now don't have backbone. Afraid of their GFs. Many say we respect her....RESPECT my foot. No balls say no balls. In Singapore, I think girls are dominating the sexes. I think this is crap. Women are always inferior to men. If any man there need help with this area, let me know and I will show you how to become a real MAN!!!
Women are always inferior to men.
OMG!!! if woman are inferior... why do you MAN! go find woman in the first place? You came out from a woman's womb in the first place... That means, you are weaker than inferior? hahah..... slap your own mouth!
[b]There are so many other girls around especially those from Vietnam, Malaysia, Cambodia. The girls from the countryside of these countries are so much more loving and caring and listens to you.
Then might as well you go find some cows... some dogs or cats.. since you like the feeling of being domineering... A female dog is a good choice, they are loyal to owners and they are so loving and cute! You ask them run, they run. Ask them to sit.. they sit!
In Singapore, I think girls are dominating the sexes.
Not true.. only low confidence man, low self-esteem man will think tat! ops
If any man there need help with this area, let me know and I will show you how to become a real MAN[/b]
I am afraid you are to old to show! so, please get off the way....
In a nutshell... you are a downright imbecile, nincompoop..... silly old man! who have never tasted the feeling of love... so don come here and corrupt other pple! omg.... I really sympathise with you!!!! poor thing! haiz..... -
Originally posted by PrettyDajie:
From my past experience....
OLD MAN!!! you are absolutely A DOMINEERING MALE CHAUVINIST PIG!
[b]Women are always inferior to men.
OMG!!! if woman are inferior... why do you MAN! go find woman in the first place? You came out from a woman's womb in the first place... That means, you are weaker than inferior? hahah..... slap your own mouth!
[b]There are so many other girls around especially those from Vietnam, Malaysia, Cambodia. The girls from the countryside of these countries are so much more loving and caring and listens to you.
Then might as well you go find some cows... some dogs or cats.. since you like the feeling of being domineering... A female dog is a good choice, they are loyal to owners and they are so loving and cute! You ask them run, they run. Ask them to sit.. they sit!
In Singapore, I think girls are dominating the sexes.
Not true.. only low confidence man, low self-esteem man will think tat! ops
If any man there need help with this area, let me know and I will show you how to become a real MAN[/b]
I am afraid you are to old to show! so, please get off the way....
In a nutshell... you are a downright imbecile, nincompoop..... silly old man! who have never tasted the feeling of love... so don come here and corrupt other pple! omg.... I really sympathise with you!!!! poor thing! haiz.....[/b]
Dear PrettyXiaojie(Why should I call you dajie? You trying to dominate me?),
To reply to your message.
Quote:"OLD MAN!!! you are absolutely A DOMINEERING MALE CHAUVINIST PIG!"
Yes, I am a Domineering Male Chauvintist because I was born a MAN and I should act that way. I am not like some wimp or "yes man" guy that worship their other half.
Quote:"OMG!!! if woman are inferior... why do you MAN! go find woman in the first place? You came out from a woman's womb in the first place... That means, you are weaker than inferior? hahah..... slap your own mouth! "
Yes we came out from a woman's womb but without our spe rm, you won't even exists. We man go find woman because we want another inferior being to satistfy our sexual needs. Meaning, you are just performing a job to make us satistfy. Look at all the women Pros around. Let me emphasize that I am not referring to all women are Pros.
Quote : "Then might as well you go find some cows... some dogs or cats.. since you like the feeling of being domineering... A female dog is a good choice, they are loyal to owners and they are so loving and cute! You ask them run, they run. Ask them to sit.. they sit! "
If you can't boar me any children, yes I might go for other animals but there are still many inferior woman around that is willing to listen, obey and satisfy me. You want to be one of them....haha
Quote : "[b]In Singapore, I think girls are dominating the sexes.
Not true.. only low confidence man, low self-esteem man will think tat! ops "
My post was replied by one person only and since your name is prettydajie, I presume you are a woman. See how you want to dominate/over-power a man like me with your post. If I am low confidence, low self-esteem man, I won't be writing this. Its those that don't counter/reply your message, they are the ones that has low confidence/self-esteem.
Quote :"I am afraid you are to old to show! so, please get off the way.... "
I might be old but a got the backbone and guts to tell you women how I actually feel. Do you have the guts to accept or even listen to a man's complain? Or are you trying to dominate us by your counter post and refuses to listen to a male post?
Quote:"In a nutshell... you are a downright imbecile, nincompoop..... silly old man! who have never tasted the feeling of love... so don come here and corrupt other pple! omg.... I really sympathise with you!!!! poor thing! haiz.....[/b][/quote]"
True hurts and I know you heard it before. I will treat your above quote as a typical women nagging because of women inferiority. -
Replying back to VERY OLD MAN! Thanks for the compliment... woman are naggy, becoz, they are meticulous about things..... And, well.. you see that man differs from the past becoz, in the present.... the things that people THINK that only MAN CAN ACHIEVED had been corrected... Becoz, many things and situations have proven that both woman and man can achieve the same things. However..... there are certain things that woman can't do.... man can.... and what woman can do, and man can't.... SO!! NEVERENDING STORY DE LA!
Hmmm right, I shan speak anything more with direct bowling to your alley.. becoz, afterall... there are many factors.. in such issues..... No point me trying to outwin you..and vice versa! GET THE FACTS CLEAR....
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sounds very familiar. tend to be the latter to men. but its enjoyable to do with diff men too. just that men are not able to handle it. so i have to make them feel that he is the only one i am sleeping with.Originally posted by Demolition:If guys juz leave their gf without another spare gf. Than where to find sex partner when the need arise? -
x2Originally posted by Xcert:it happens to the gals too. -
i do think that it happens to both guys and gals. one of the common reasons could be that they really are afraid to leave the "stable, confirm" one for a "not sure if can catch" one. quite sad huh?
with regards to the argument over MAN VS WOMAN, i think each gender has their strengths and weaknesses ya? it's like a zero-sum theory - where 1 side is stronger in something, the other is weaker; and vice versa.
I definitely have to disagree to the statement of women being an inferior species though.
Yet, if you really are, literally, a very old man, i guess we can't really judge you for your perception of that since most "old men" would have been brought up to think likewise. [I'm just assuming ya?]