why are guys afraid to leave their gfs....

• stormax

  9 Nov 04, 13:57

  Originally posted by shaunlaw:

  Bcos they are not willing to exchange somethings that are aready present for something that may not be present.
  
  Basically they are either scared of the consequences or duno how to face the after math of it.

  Agreed totally. But not all guys are like that.
  
  If you are in dis situation, either the guy can't let go of the past or he can't let go of what is in the present, fear of future. Giving excuses that the gf can't live without the guy or he will be scared the gf can't take it,etc,etc... are all Bullshit lah.
  
  The main problematic person is still himself. Just need one reason to leave, but can have millions of excuses to explain his mistake or for not leaving, for being two-timer.
• stormax

  9 Nov 04, 14:08

  [quote]Originally posted by Very Old Man:
  In Singapore, I think girls are dominating the sexes. I think this is crap. Women are always inferior to men. If any man there need help with this area, let me know and I will show you how to become a real MAN!!![quote]
  
  I think you are just a MCP!!!
  Women are always inferior to men --> always? Before? Present? Or Future? Btw, inferior in wat? Now it's a time of equality and you are still staying in the past so long ago... Wake up!!!
  
  What do you classify a Real Man?
  Put ur ego away and show us.
• jap_mafia

  9 Nov 04, 20:53

  guys are hard-wired that way by mother nature ... i guess ...
• theSquelch

  9 Nov 04, 21:00

  Simple innit? Because they can't get the girl of their dreams!
  
  If they win over the dream girl, you can bet plain jane gets chucked aside with no remorse.
• jap_mafia

  9 Nov 04, 21:03

  what would 'the girl of my dream' like?
  
  sounds more like a neverending quest to me.
• juz_A_gal

  10 Nov 04, 09:27

  yar lorz. neverending quest. no one's perfect.
  we gals can't find man of our dreams also ah.
• theSquelch

  10 Nov 04, 09:49

  Cannot find , cannot get, don't dare to chase, so people just settle for whatever is available lor. That's why "guys are afraid to leave their gfs even though they know they have someone else in their heart. "
• shaunlaw

  10 Nov 04, 14:30

  The one whos with u may not be the one u really love. Some cases are like this while others are not.
• cutepixie

  9 Dec 04, 06:15

  Originally posted by cutepixie:

  

• OMG!!!

  9 Dec 04, 06:25

  
• shandower

  9 Dec 04, 08:34

  Forced relationships don't work.