Being gay
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why get jealous...i am ok looking not too bad but my bf and my female collegues say i look very handsome but i find myself ok ok only anyway I given my heart to my BF liao so.....Originally posted by amuletgurl:i hope THG is not too handsome or else i will be jealous of his bf.....
heys heys......THG,migrate elsewhere lar,outside Asia..where by other countries accept gay r/s......
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anyway, I think it is alright to don't like gays, don't approve of gay marriages blah blah blah... but it is not alright to hurl insults at them... they are just humans like any of us... to them, we maybe the 'abnormal' ones.. so yah.. learn to accept people... it is very important... you can hate them but you can't insult them.. compare them to murderers like that TOOK guy, cruel torturers like that guy who toture his maid to death and people who start wars.. GWB... they are just so much better... at least, they have the heart.... and that is the most important... how they live their life has nothing to do with us.. they may have lots and lots of ONS.. but at least while doing it, they are not hurting their loved ones, while some straight guys already have a happy family, yet still do it.. who should we condemn more? I condemn people who already have a wife yet still go geylang... don't play once you are married... coz marriage is a sacred act.. but I don't condemn people who are single and are just looking for fun.. some of my straight army friends are doing it and I still see them as my friends...
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Something for you to read..Originally posted by THG:ok first let me tell you something I see wrong abt what you think of gay.My bf had a few relationship before with me.I had too.we went for HIV antibody test too to show that we are clear. HIV is not transmitted magically only if you have sex with one girl or guy who have aids.My bf is very faithful to me and i am very faithful to him too.when we have sex,we do not need to use a condom because we trusted each other very much.If getting aids should be the one who like ONS with different girls or guys everytime.I only have one sex partner and we do not play ard outside he will scold me if i look at other guys on the streets so when i go out with him,my attention is all with him not with any other people.He helped me alot too when I am feeling down he is always there for me to lend me his shoulder.why iszit when people think of gay they started to think of aids c'mon what have you learn in school abt sex education?Did you buy your o level,diploma or degree through a mail order?I don't think i am abnormal anyway my and my bf intend to save up enough money then we both move overseas and buy a house by the beach and enjoy our life.We are both working very hard to realised our dreams.we did think of moving to canada because we can legally get married there and be ourselves.living in sg is too stress i mean for our relationship.
what to do I love him so it's worth it.
The epidemic of HIV and AIDS has attracted much attention both within and outside the medical and scientific communities. Much of this attention comes from the many social issues related to this disease such as sexuality, drug use, and poverty. Although the scientific evidence is overwhelming and compelling that HIV is the cause of AIDS, the disease process is still not completely understood. This incomplete understanding has led some persons to make statements that AIDS is not caused by an infectious agent or is caused by a virus that is not HIV. This is not only misleading, but may have dangerous consequences. Before the discovery of HIV, evidence from epidemiologic studies involving tracing of patientsÂ’ sex partners and cases occurring in persons receiving transfusions of blood or blood clotting products had clearly indicated that the underlying cause of the condition was an infectious agent. Infection with HIV has been the sole common factor shared by AIDS cases throughout the world among men who have sex with men, transfusion recipients, persons with hemophilia, sex partners of infected persons, children born to infected women, and occupationally exposed health care workers.
The conclusion after more than 20 years of scientific research is that people, if exposed to HIV through sexual contact or injecting drug use for example, may become infected with HIV. If they become infected, most will eventually develop AIDS.
Where did HIV come from?
The earliest known case of HIV-1 in a human was from a blood sample collected in 1959 from a man in Kinshasa, Democratic Republic of Congo. (How he became infected is not known.) Genetic analysis of this blood sample suggested that HIV-1 may have stemmed from a single virus in the late 1940s or early 1950s.
We know that the virus has existed in the United States since at least the mid- to late 1970s. From 1979-1981 rare types of pneumonia, cancer, and other illnesses were being reported by doctors in Los Angeles and New York among a number of male patients who had sex with other men. These were conditions not usually found in people with healthy immune systems.
In 1982 public health officials began to use the term "acquired immunodeficiency syndrome," or AIDS, to describe the occurrences of opportunistic infections, Kaposi's sarcoma (a kind of cancer), and Pneumocystis carinii pneumonia in previously healthy people. Formal tracking (surveillance) of AIDS cases began that year in the United States.
In 1983, scientists discovered the virus that causes AIDS. The virus was at first named HTLV-III/LAV (human T-cell lymphotropic virus-type III/lymphadenopathy- associated virus) by an international scientific committee. This name was later changed to HIV (human immunodeficiency virus).
For many years scientists theorized as to the origins of HIV and how it appeared in the human population, most believing that HIV originated in other primates. Then in 1999, an international team of researchers reported that they had discovered the origins of HIV-1, the predominant strain of HIV in the developed world. A subspecies of chimpanzees native to west equatorial Africa had been identified as the original source of the virus. The researchers believe that HIV-1 was introduced into the human population when hunters became exposed to infected blood.
For more information on this discovery, visit the NIH National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases press release at http://www.niaid.nih.gov/newsroom/releases/hivorigin.htm. -
Well, I don't hurl insult at them, but they need to know and understand that it is not normal for guys to have anal sex between each other.Originally posted by kindaichi83:anyway, I think it is alright to don't like gays, don't approve of gay marriages blah blah blah... but it is not alright to hurl insults at them... they are just humans like any of us... to them, we maybe the 'abnormal' ones.. so yah.. learn to accept people... it is very important... you can hate them but you can't insult them.. compare them to murderers like that TOOK guy, cruel torturers like that guy who toture his maid to death and people who start wars.. GWB... they are just so much better... at least, they have the heart.... and that is the most important... how they live their life has nothing to do with us.. they may have lots and lots of ONS.. but at least while doing it, they are not hurting their loved ones, while some straight guys already have a happy family, yet still do it.. who should we condemn more? I condemn people who already have a wife yet still go geylang... don't play once you are married... coz marriage is a sacred act.. but I don't condemn people who are single and are just looking for fun.. some of my straight army friends are doing it and I still see them as my friends...
Condemm them is one thing, but to encourage them is another.
If your children saw 2 gays french kissing each other on the street,what would you tell them ? Tell them that it is normal ? -
haiiiiiiiiOriginally posted by Dino888:Well, I don't hurl insult at them, but they need to know and understand that it is not normal for guys to have anal sex between each other.
Condemm them is one thing, but to encourage them is another.
If your children saw 2 gays french kissing each other on the street,what would you tell them ? Tell them that it is normal ?
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Originally posted by RSP:
at least u r expressing your views in a calm and non-abusive manner. It's fine whether u support it or not, as long as u can present your views in a logical, sensible manner. I'm glad you did that. Unfortunately some ppl don't seem to be able to do that as I'm sure you've seen. Mister, I applaude you.
I have to be brutally honest.
I'm not one in support of gay relationships (and that I mean homosexuality and not Happy.) What worst gay marriages.
I feel that if you're willing to come out of the closet and display your affections publicly, do note that [b]society has not accepted homosexuality fully. There are the magmanimous ones that have. Hypocritical ones may have. And the staunch that have not. So until society opens up, if you are intent on showing public displays of affections. I say learn to deal with it.
No flames please.It's just my point of view. We may disagree but this is how I call it.
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i can see that you really are quite ignorant. He is in a steady r/s with one partner now, so it's highly unlikely that he'll get aids. In fact those str8 guys who fool around n play the field are more likely to get aids than a faithful couple, gay or not. Get your facts clear 1st b4 making general sweeping statements like all gays get aids or something lah. Makes u look stupid.Originally posted by Dino888:Hope you don't get AIDS. -
err, what is normal?
many years ago, people are against divorce..now its normal..its almost expected of every married couples nowadays
last time, we are so scared of teachers and parents, we dont have to let out a peep, they beat us..nowadays, kids do scold parents, and teachers kena complained...
we have to accept there will be a trend change,there will be increasing number of homosexual persons..and what can we do about it? its something innate, u cant force a gay to like a girl, nor can u force a lesbian to like a guy, we cant force them to conform to what we the rest "think" is socially acceptable...
U guys would prolly had the experience of being forced to do somethin against your wishes, especially when u were young ,and u prolly think what ur parents said are rubbish..apply the same thoughts on them...
but of course there will be some problems, like decreasing birth rate...
i dont noe, prolly artifical insemination might help solve this, but in the end, i cant envision the society, the supposedly advancing and more educated lot, will try to force someone else to change or to persecute them for what they are...
humans will then be the same as they are 1000, 2000 years ago.... -
Your relationship with your partner sounds like something people aspire to
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Heng@ is correct.both my bf and i will not go out and play so how to get aids heng@ that guy who make that statement reflects directly upon his knowledge on sex education.if only sg got people as understanding as the people in this forumOriginally posted by HENG@:i can see that you really are quite ignorant. He is in a steady r/s with one partner now, so it's highly unlikely that he'll get aids. In fact those str8 guys who fool around n play the field are more likely to get aids than a faithful couple, gay or not. Get your facts clear 1st b4 making general sweeping statements like all gays get aids or something lah. Makes u look stupid. btw thanks heng@ -
np. but like some ppl advised, tone down on the public shows of affection. Even if it was a hetro couple getting intimate in public, they're bound to attract stares. So yup, thats a piece of advice u can consider, which has no biased on whether u're gay or str8 or bi.Originally posted by THG:Heng@ is correct.both my bf and i will not go out and play so how to get aids heng@ that guy who make that statement reflects directly upon his knowledge on sex education.if only sg got people as understanding as the people in this forum btw thanks heng@ -
Gays are also humans, we shouldn't condemn them since they were born that way. Gays should be allow to marry one another. When children see gay frenching, the parents should teach the children to do the same to their best friend because its perfectly normal. Gays should adopt more children and teach them the gay way of life. I strongly encourage the whole world to be gay.
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Ok we also cannot forget those shemale, transveties tat also get equally unfair treatment n discrimination
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Why not migrate to Thailand? They will accept you with open arms.Originally posted by THG:just hope the public will accept gay relationship but it seems hard in sg