Can you girls answer this for me...Am I been cheated
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I met this girl during clubbing and things went fine. We started going out often and ended up in relationship in five days.
I am not a very charming guy or a rich guy. I only drive a Proton wira(Malaysian Car) .
As I entered her world and know a few friends of hers. I began to realise she goes to clubbing often which i dont really like.
One day i overheard a converstation between she and her friends.
This is the conversation
"Is that your boyfriend" , said her friend
"Yeap...we just started going out " replied my gf
"what is so special about this guy ?" asked her friend
"I just want to EAT him" replied my gf
what does she mean by that ?? What is EAT ??
I am not really rich and not really good looking
i am still curious ...
i did ask her ... what she meant...but she never gives me a clear answer.
What she meant by eat ?? is she tryhing to cheat my money ....or she just want to use me to do stuff ? -
DUMP HER!
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PLAY HER THEN DUMP HER!
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EAT = "you are fat, you are abnormal, you are deprived, you are disgusting, you are bullshitting, you have no girlfriend"Originally posted by IntenseFlame:I met this girl during clubbing and things went fine. We started going out often and ended up in relationship in five days.
I am not a very charming guy or a rich guy. I only drive a Proton wira(Malaysian Car) .
As I entered her world and know a few friends of hers. I began to realise she goes to clubbing often which i dont really like.
One day i overheard a converstation between she and her friends.
This is the conversation
"Is that your boyfriend" , said her friend
"Yeap...we just started going out " replied my gf
"what is so special about this guy ?" asked her friend
"I just want to EAT him" replied my gf
what does she mean by that ?? What is EAT ??
I am not really rich and not really good looking
i am still curious ...
i did ask her ... what she meant...but she never gives me a clear answer.
What she meant by eat ?? is she tryhing to cheat my money ....or she just want to use me to do stuff ? -
ok...she only wanna cheast ur love n money.... and gers like her...juz dump her lah...she's playing hard to get...
u said u went CLUBBING and knew her? pls... get real.... no all clubbers r good lor...dey go clubbing u roughly noe wad kinda person she/he is ler mah.... and also, since u knew her when she's clubbin, so she definately likes club-hopping and clubs ALOT... and u knew her less den 5 days n u 2 r together?? tell me how much u noe abt her den.....
simply juz dump her lah...she juz wanna play hard to get for other guys lor...
u rich or not, not impt...got money can liaoz.... -
I just started a relationship and you ask me to dump her ?? How is that possible...what reason am i going to give her ?
By the way what is EAT ? Why you girls use th word EAT.
Yea true...i dont know much about her in five days but does love measured by number of days ? I never come across such a measurement.
I realise some couples have been going out for yeas and still end up breaking up. Love is not measure by time...i think love is measure by feelings
Actually , i like her voice and i am deeply attracted to her attitude. whatever she does is so cute and adorable. -
my advice is dun read too deep into wat she means by the word "eat" lar..maye its just a harmless remark nia..some guys wanna have egos in their gp of guys, so do gals lor..
its too early to depend this r/s whether truthful or not..just gotta go w it n time will tell.. -
So you better get her into bed and EAT her more before she did that to you lor
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play with you only la. 5 days, you should know better.
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think its just a casual remark bah...
dun think too much of it lah....
just keep your look out lor...think if you like her, will be long term right?
then go along and see lor.... -
You are what Clubbers call "Cai Tao"
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kan cai tao ah!Originally posted by mistyblue:You are what Clubbers call "Cai Tao"
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yah lar!! you EZ target for her liao.
BIG cai tao!!
She chi ting ni for sure liao...
warning lights blinkinh so obviously to u liao, u still asking here??
U better enjoy her as much as u can, then dump her before she suck u dry..
literally huh, u better dun hallucinate she'll dry u up by giving u blowjobs hor!!
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1st pt:
what is the meaning of EAT?
it may sounds very very obvious to 99% of the ppl, but the other 1% ppl might have diff perception for the word, "EAT"
2nd pt:
u r asking for advice, but i dun sense a tiny bit of your "love" for her in ur post, r u oso "EATING" her? (maybe in other forms?)
if u "love" her, ur post mite consist of something like, "i realy love her, and wish to know why she said that..."
not a must for u to say those, but psychologically, most wld include those words in his/her post..
3rd pt:
assume u love her, and then again, how did u two get together? did she make the 1st move or did u?
4th pt:
she cld be joking, like most of the forumers here oways do...
so, systematically,
conclusion
1) she is eating you, and taking u as robert.
2) she is kidding with her frds
3) u hear the wrong things and misinterpret.. -
hmm....get to really know her before you say you love her. I know love is a feeling, but how can you love a person if all you have seen is her good side in 5 days? And let me remind you: nobody is perfect. Right now she might seem cute and adorable and all that, but wait a little longer and the flaws will surface. I am not being pessimistic, but only when the not-so-perfect parts come out can you truly judge whether you can accept her as she is or not.
right now, dun worry too much abt what she says. Just be really careful, if she is trying to go overboard with your money and stuff like dat, just say no.
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agree.. 5 days is kinda fast to call her yr gf.. watch out.. don't get yr hopes too high yet...
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just went up with her a few more times la..
if she keep asking you to buy this and that (handbag,handphone etc)
then really EAT you liao..
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I'm not a gal, but I'd like to express my views
you really want to know ah... mai la, pai seh lah...
well, okie, you asked for it...
when she said she wanted to eat you, did it ever occur to you she may just want to give you a "BLOW-JOB" that'll blow your mind... then let you cum in her mouth and she'll swallow em....
na.... you'd like that wouldn't you? But too bad, it ain't gonna happen... and from the way you describe her, she ain't worth your time... DO HER, THEN LOOSE HER....
gals like these are thronging at the clubs, they're just like dishes laid out on the sushi conveyor belt... If you're quick and lucky, you'll get the first grab of the sweet and good-natured gal... else you'll just have to settle for the "left-overs" on the belt, and of cos most of the time they are not the best quality
Next time, find your gal elsewhere....... -
Originally posted by IntenseFlame:I met this girl during clubbing and things went fine. We started going out often and ended up in relationship in five days.
I am not a very charming guy or a rich guy. I only drive a Proton wira(Malaysian Car) .
As I entered her world and know a few friends of hers. I began to realise she goes to clubbing often which i dont really like.
One day i overheard a converstation between she and her friends.
This is the conversation
"Is that your boyfriend" , said her friend
"Yeap...we just started going out " replied my gf
"what is so special about this guy ?" asked her friend
"I just want to EAT him" replied my gf
what does she mean by that ?? What is EAT ??
I am not really rich and not really good looking
i am still curious ...
i did ask her ... what she meant...but she never gives me a clear answer.
What she meant by eat ?? is she tryhing to cheat my money ....or she just want to use me to do stuff ?
Can't even give you an answer...... -
sigh ... since u say u love her ... den u go pay for the price lo
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Your name must be Robert Toh.
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nice one. IntenseFlame then u hokkein is cai taoOriginally posted by Otingocni:Your name must be Robert Toh. -
impotenize her
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why sound so troubled, just fark and drop la...so many fishes in the ocean, all this talk about love is crap...remember that "boy-gal love" is educated to you from movies and books you were exposed to when growing up, dont farking exist one...only thing exist is friendship, ask yourself if you two can be best friends, then talk about "love"...go abroad la, too much time spent in this small island really make your sights so mini.