Originally posted by Xprobe:
why sound so troubled, just fark and drop la...so many fishes in the ocean, all this talk about love is crap...remember that "boy-gal love" is educated to you from movies and books you were exposed to when growing up, dont farking exist one...only thing exist is friendship, ask yourself if you two can be best friends, then talk about "love"...go abroad la, too much time spent in this small island really make your sights so mini.
Xprobe absolutely agree with you.
nowadays the dialect word 'pah-tuo' (dating) that our olden days grandparents/parents were familiar with no longer exist today.
what 'pah-tuo' ?!?
olden days:
long periods (mths/yrs) of getting-to-know -> courtship and dating -> long relationship (many yrs) -> marriage -> married (20-30 yrs)
today:
for guys its: chio -> wham bang -> off you go -> next please...
for woman its: hunky/rich -> wham bang -> leech off $ as much as possible -> off you go -> next please...
sad but true