Do guys really mind if their g/f is not a virgin?
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Moose: I agree totally with u... hahaha..
Belle: U are wrong to a certain extent guys that if guys like u, it will only be ur character and nothing else. Do u know that if a gal does not look good but she is quite okay in her figure, it makes her desirable too? To elaborate further, if a girl is very pretty, but she is fat, then she is still not as desirable as one who is not so pretty but with a good figure. Will take some time to knock that idea into ur head....
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I believe that every guy who likes a girl for her character will also like the way she looks,but to what extend is up to individual as some place more emphasis on looks,some not so much.Beauty is in the eye of the beholder,some girls may look plain to some guys,but some other guys may beg to differ,so looks is quite subjective,hehee))
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Moose: think of it this way.... if u are saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder then I must say that sometimes those contestants in beauty contest is also very subjective to the "eyes of the beholder" thing? Nope I don't think so. The thing is in general, there is some basic guidelines in beauty. For eg. in this century, those pple that are skinny are also considered more beautiful than those pple that are obese. But this is not the case in Yang2 Gui4 Fei1's era....... but my stand is that it is easier for a skinner (or slimmer) girl who is not good looking to get attached as compared to one that is good looking (pretty) but quite fat. Hope u guys know what I am trying to drive at.
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In this day and age where the emphasis is on skinniness,i would agree,but i know some guys would rather prefer a voluptous girl then who is 1 that is all skin and bones ala Twiggy))
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Moose: Glad u agree with me.
How come so lonely here?? It seems that only the 2 of us are making comments here.. Any gals care to comment on what both of us had said? And where is Belle? Seems to have disappear into thin air. -
Come on, we are in the new millimium now. U
think we all still living in the 50s ? If U
truely loves a ger, U should 4get about the
ger past and treasure the present and the
future.
If the man himself is not a virgin, he should
not insist that his ger must be a virgin. If
the guy is a virgin, then only can he have
the right to have a virgin ger. But he will
have a hard time finding 1 though.
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Someguys will say he will not mind if their GF is no a V; as long as he luvs her. But will they do it? Personally, i feel if i really luv a gal, i will still somehow mind one lah.
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Who cares??!!
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Busy studying for exams.Originally posted by Radius:Moose: I agree totally with u... hahaha..
Belle: U are wrong to a certain extent guys that if guys like u, it will only be ur character and nothing else. Do u know that if a gal does not look good but she is quite okay in her figure, it makes her desirable too? To elaborate further, if a girl is very pretty, but she is fat, then she is still not as desirable as one who is not so pretty but with a good figure. Will take some time to knock that idea into ur head....
Desirable? u mean for a short period of time only? Wat is so good about pretty face and hour-glass figure if the ger dun even have brains? Dun u think that confidence and attitude of the person is also very important? -
But what if the girl has looks,brains and character to boot?I will choose a average girl with character and brains than a pretty girl with a character that sucks and brains that will make a flea appear to have the IQ of Einstein,hehehe))
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I recently heard that one of friends married a virgin, she's taking her PSLE next year.
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PSLE?you sure or not?think maybe cradle snatcher,heheeh
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Confidence and attitude is important BUT not that impt. One thing for me is that if u are average looking, u will tend to have low esteem in the "looks" dept than those pple who has the looks. Of course, this can be made up with good character and a sociable character. But somehow to tell u guys frankly, I cannot really look at a pretty girl whom I don't know and STARE at her for very long. But after all this hype abt pretty girls and hour figure, I find that I will still settle a girl with average looks, sound character and also an average figure (not too fat).Originally posted by Belle:Busy studying for exams.
Desirable? u mean for a short period of time only? Wat is so good about pretty face and hour-glass figure if the ger dun even have brains? Dun u think that confidence and attitude of the person is also very important? -
Not true leh,most of the girls i know who are average looking dun seem to have low self esteem in the looks department leh,))
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Allow me to add my 2 cents worth, i tink guy dont look down on gals who have lost her virginity but those who go ard to sleep ard. wonder how many agree with me
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I dunno about you,maestro,but i certainly dun look down on girls who lost their virginity as i don't see what's so shameful about that?))
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Personally, i think those guys who really mind their gf's not being virgins should really have their brains checked, also i think that such guys really only care about themselves and didnt really stop to ponder under what circumstances did the girl lose her virginity was it out of love or was it a moment's folly, etc ... there are so many reasons why each and every one of us does things, are we to presume that once the girl has lost "it" shes like some piece of trash ? nah i dont think so , what about you ? If you really love the girl, ask yourself do you really love her that much not to mind her past ? Love in my viewpoint is not about seeking the "perfect" woman so as to speak but rather to find a soulmate and dont bother to look up the dictionary about the meaning of that word...you dont need any kind of book to tell yourself you have found love, you just know it.
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moose i dont look down on gal who r not virgins. Some of them got cox by some heartless guys. But is those who go ard firlting and sleep ard.
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Maestro,i dun mind if my gf if she goes flirting and sleeping around last time and has stopped doing it,it's because i wun mind her past so i see no point in harping on her past,as long as she is willing to change her ways,that's more important))
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agreed moose. same sentiments
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Depends on who did the shaking before me...
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Wat do u mean by tt
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Does virginity really matter?Hmm i think it's just one of the many issues blown out of proportion by us guys.
We cant insist on our partners being virgins if we arent one ourselves.Its pretty selfish and shallow.
For me, other aspects will be of more importance.I mean, do you people go around asking potential new partners,"Err excuse me. I think you are cute.However don't mind if i ask, are you a virgin??!!!" GEEZ
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u'll never CRAWL aLONe..
cos the FOOLS r there 2~~ -
Ask that type of question,i won't be surprise if you got a slap,haahahaPP
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I am not sure about other guys but I don't mind if my girlfriend is a virgin or not, anyway the definition of virgin is no longer that clear anymore.e.g.( would you consider a woman who used to be a lesbian and had intimacy with her female lover a virgin or not...) What I am trying to say is at the end of the day what really matter is and the real question is how much do you love that person.