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is it alright to have a purely sexual relationship? have u pple been in this kinda r/s with some one? (provided that both of 2 parties r free of STDs and stuff. and both r single at one moment)
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One nite is ok.But get really for AIDS..OK?It`s best not to do it.Unless it`s ur BF or GF...OK?.take care...............
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thanx, augustine.not say im under this kinda relationship.just this thought popped up on my mind and i'd like to see how u ppl think of this prob.Originally posted by Augustine:One nite is ok.But get really for AIDS..OK?It`s best not to do it.Unless it`s ur BF or GF...OK?.take care...............
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Sex only comes into the picture when you love a person deeply,i believe that sex does not exist without love,so a purely sexual relayionship is out for me,hehee
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I met up with an highschool aquantance in L.A. one year. I wasn't planning to stay long at all but one thing lead to another. I gave a back massage and the next thing I know we are having sex off and on for 24 hours. I spent the month there and everyday it was sex and more sex. It was a purely sexual relationship and I'll remember it always with fondness.
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What you are saying is so scary to me, its like you're sayingOriginally posted by LeighAnn:is it alright to have a purely sexual relationship? have u pple been in this kinda r/s with some one? (provided that both of 2 parties r free of STDs and stuff. and both r single at one moment)
"I like you and I like to have sex with you all the time, but I will never marry you"
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Sorry to say, but personally I don't see this as a 'prob' as mentioned by you in above. I think if you're mature enough to know what you want in life and what's the price you would have to pay or risk for it, no problem going for it. It's actually a fact that people are very much used to getting their ways around things to achieve what they want. Please don't view this type of relationship as SHIT and learn to respect others' decisions. Many other things done by the others are actually much WORSE.Originally posted by LeighAnn:thanx, augustine.not say im under this kinda relationship.just this thought popped up on my mind and i'd like to see how u ppl think of this prob.
I think the very most important thing in this type of relationship is that both parties are willing. And they should know what they would get and how far they could go from there. It's a mutual understanding. Come on, it's already Y2K.... Actually many of this type of things are happening, perhaps you're just not one of the 'party-goers'....?
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Hmm...
Actually, this is becoming more and more common nowadays.
Ppl get into a purely sexual relationship just for the sake of sex.
Overheard once:
I was with him before becoz I like to have sex with him. I just like to do it with him. Now that I have found someone I like, I think the feeling is different.
Any enlightment?
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Sheesh,and i used to think sex was sacred and only between 2 people who truly loved each other,and is not some sort of gratification you can get from someone you do not love,heheehOriginally posted by lexelle:Hmm...
Actually, this is becoming more and more common nowadays.
Ppl get into a purely sexual relationship just for the sake of sex.
Overheard once:
I was with him before becoz I like to have sex with him. I just like to do it with him. Now that I have found someone I like, I think the feeling is different.
Any enlightment?
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Let's put it this way.... Sex could be the fruit of love, the work of desires, a trap of arousal OR many more to come....Originally posted by moose:Sheesh,and i used to think sex was sacred and only between 2 people who truly loved each other,and is not some sort of gratification you can get from someone you do not love,heheeh
The problem with trying to define when SHOULD sex come is that we do not understand that sex comes in more than a form and is define differently by many different people... It's the same as trying to define when are you 'suppose' to scold a person and when you shouldn't... <- Something like that? Not a very good example though?
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Call me old fashion or conservative or whatever,i still think sex is the fruit of love and the work of desire of someone you love,that's my opinion,heeheOriginally posted by Devil1976:Let's put it this way.... Sex could be the fruit of love, the work of desires, a trap of arousal OR many more to come....
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yah but then why is this topic coming up and why are there people out there doing it purely for SEX then?Originally posted by moose:Call me old fashion or conservative or whatever,i still think sex is the fruit of love and the work of desire of someone you love,that's my opinion,heehe -
i think this is the question of morals. To what extent would you want to go. purely sexual relationship is fine, provided both parties is agreable and both can handle such agreement. But i must warn you, if god wanted you to have sex all the time he would have made u an animal. they dont have feeling onli sexual desiresOriginally posted by LeighAnn:is it alright to have a purely sexual relationship? have u pple been in this kinda r/s with some one? (provided that both of 2 parties r free of STDs and stuff. and both r single at one moment)
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You said it was oni sex and you have fond memories of it. OK fine but if lets say during that time you were having this relationship with him and then one day you just happen to come across him having sex with another gal. Wat will b your reaction?Originally posted by liandy:I met up with an highschool aquantance in L.A. one year. I wasn't planning to stay long at all but one thing lead to another. I gave a back massage and the next thing I know we are having sex off and on for 24 hours. I spent the month there and everyday it was sex and more sex. It was a purely sexual relationship and I'll remember it always with fondness.
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Well it happen because ppl allow their dick to think not their brain nor their heart.Originally posted by Flamers:yah but then why is this topic coming up and why are there people out there doing it purely for SEX then? -
We did like each other alot so I guess it was more than just sex but I went home and there was a couple of times that we call and it was at a bad moment cause one of us was having sex with someone else. Actually this could be a topic in itself. Have you ever answered the phone while having sex and the other person on the line was somebody that you were once intimate with or still are. And why did you answer the phone?Originally posted by maestro:You said it was oni sex and you have fond memories of it. OK fine but if lets say during that time you were having this relationship with him and then one day you just happen to come across him having sex with another gal. Wat will b your reaction? -
Becos some people using their balls to think mah,what their brain or heart thinks never come into the equation at all,heheOriginally posted by maestro:Well it happen because ppl allow their dick to think not their brain nor their heart.
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Baby you and me ain't nothing BUT MAMMALS, so let's do it like they DO on the DISCOVERY CHANNEL!!!Originally posted by maestro:i think this is the question of morals. To what extent would you want to go. purely sexual relationship is fine, provided both parties is agreable and both can handle such agreement. But i must warn you, if god wanted you to have sex all the time he would have made u an animal. they dont have feeling onli sexual desires
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We did like each other alot so I guess it was more than just sex but I went home and there was a couple of times that we call and it was at a bad moment cause one of us was having sex with someone else. Actually this could be a topic in itself. Have you ever answered the phone while having sex and the other person on the line was somebody that you were once intimate with or still are. And why did you answer the phone?Originally posted by liandy:[QUOTE]Originally posted by maestro:
[b] You said it was oni sex and you have fond memories of it. OK fine but if lets say during that time you were having this relationship with him and then one day you just happen to come across him having sex with another gal. Wat will b your reaction?
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i guess it is up to indiviual but i would not pick up the phone while having sex. but if the other party is having sex when i call, i guess i would just put down the phone. try to pretent nothing happen but that would mean there will not be no way i will meant the relationship with the other party -
some of the ppl just have no brainsOriginally posted by moose:Becos some people using their balls to think mah,what their brain or heart thinks never come into the equation at all,hehe -
Baby you and me ain't nothing BUT MAMMALS, so let's do it like they DO on the DISCOVERY CHANNEL!!!Originally posted by Devil1976:[QUOTE]Originally posted by maestro:
[b] i think this is the question of morals. To what extent would you want to go. purely sexual relationship is fine, provided both parties is agreable and both can handle such agreement. But i must warn you, if god wanted you to have sex all the time he would have made u an animal. they dont have feeling onli sexual desires
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if i not wrong mammals usually keep to one partner.... not to sure forget abt science liao -
Not all mammals are like that,some primates like gorilla keep a harem of female gorilla just like what our forefathers used to do,ehehe
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point taken... so i should keep many gals....Originally posted by moose:Not all mammals are like that,some primates like gorilla keep a harem of female gorilla just like what our forefathers used to do,ehehe
/me go shopping for gals liao
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